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7 Awesome Ways To Connect With Locals While You Travel

7 Awesome Ways To Connect With Locals While You Travel

There are two ways to travel to other countries.

You can purchase a travel package, join a tour group of your “own kind,” and travel to a country. There, you will stay at a nice hotel, eat where other tourists eat, travel to the museums, the scenic sights, and the historical buildings, shop, and ultimately go home with lots of pictures, very happy to have seen a foreign land.

The second way to travel is to go “on your own,” perhaps with a spouse, partner, or friend, having made the decision to make friends with the local people, to get to know the culture and the customs through the eyes of the people who live it every day.

This kind of travel is the way to really experience a country if you want to return home knowing that you really understand the people and a culture different to yours.

The biggest issue with this way of traveling, however, can be summed up with: “And how do I actually meet and make friends with the locals?”

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We have you somewhat covered on this! Here are 7 ways to do that, and all of them will work like a charm.

1. Find Someone From The Country In Your Own Town Before You Go

Go to a local university — they all have international student organizations — and get the contact information for one of the students from the country where you will be traveling.

Meet with them and ask about the country, the culture, and local spots to hang out when you get there.

You will then have local knowledge in advance of your travels. Most of these students also have family and friends back home, and they might offer to “introduce” you to them by email or Facebook before you even go. Voila! You will then have a contact person who can help you get around and experience the local lifestyle.

2. Learn The Language (At Least The Basics)

There are crash courses all over the Internet. Sign up for one and get the common expressions so that you can speak the language a bit.

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This will help you to fit in when you go out to local bars and restaurants. And as you strike up conversations with some of the locals who eat there, you may make some friends who will be willing to show you around a bit.

3. Hang Out At A College Or University

This may sound like a strange tip, but one traveler tells a story about how he went to the college campus and into a classroom building. He walked into a large class and sat down. When the class was over, he began to talk a bit with a couple of the students there and they ended up going out to lunch. One of the students even offered his couch to the traveler to stay overnight. Getting into the home of a local is always a great way to learn more.

4. Engage With The CouchSurfing Community

This is just one of many websites that will help you get right into the local “scene.” It has locals from nearly every country in the world opening their homes for travelers to stay while they are in that town. If you plan in advance, you can have all of your lodging taken care of by staying overnight in locals’ homes.

Alternatively, it’s just a cool place and a community to ask for all sort of travel tips, get to know the best hole-in-the-wall bars, and meet locals who will walk around town with you for a few hours.

5. Eat Where The Locals Eat

Arguably, the best way to “learn a country” is through food. Yet so many travelers eat in their hotels or in the typical restaurants that serve foreigners. The food at these places is nothing like what the locals eat.

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Always choose restaurants that are filled with locals, even if they look less alluring than your typical diner.

You can make friends with your waiter and the bartender and return every day. Pretty soon, they will be offering to take you places when they are off work.

You can also find families that open up their homes to foreigners for a meal. Some charge a bit, but the bigger value is to eat real food and have a conversation with local people. They will also be great sources of information about where to go to have a more local experience in the country.

6. Find Out About Local Events Before You Leave

There may be holidays or special events or festivals going on while you are there, so be sure you find out about these and plan to attend them. If you have not taken the time to do this, you can always ask that waiter or bartender you made friends with.

You want to see and understand how people in your host country celebrate, what they wear, what they eat, and what the events and festivals mean to their cultural history.

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7. Find A Crafted Vacation Planner                     

Because many people now want to travel outside of the typical tour group, there are lots of companies that plan personalized trips. They are connected to locals in countries and will arrange for personal local tour guides and even opportunities to stay in homes or share meals with local families. One of the advantages of this method is that the locals are already known to the company so they are safe hosts for a foreigner. These planners can also be great sources of information about where to go and what to see for a really “local” experience rather than just the “tourist” one.

Now you have 7 ways to connect with the locals in any country you visit. You should also try doing the same when foreigners come to your country. You can sign up on the websites that were mentioned in this post and offer your home for a meal or arrange to meet a traveler and show them around your town.

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Minimalism is a way to put a stop to the gluttony of the world around us. It’s the opposite of every advertisement we see plastered on the radio and TV. We live in a society that prides itself on the accumulation of stuff; we eat up consumerism, material possessions, clutter, debt, distractions and noise.

What we don’t seem to have is any meaning left in our world.

By adopting a minimalist lifestyle, you can throw out what you don’t need in order to focus on what you do need.

I know first hand how little we actually need to survive. I was fortunate enough to live in a van for four months while traveling throughout Australia. This experience taught me valuable lessons about what really matters and how little we really need all this stuff we surround ourselves with.

Less is more.

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Living a minimalist lifestyle is reducing.There are a few obvious benefits of minimalism such as less cleaning and stress, a more organized household and more money to be found, but there are also a few deep, life-changing benefits.

What we don’t usually realize is that when we reduce, we reduce a lot more than just stuff.

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1. Create Room for What’s Important

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2. More Freedom

The accumulation of stuff is like an anchor, it ties us down. We are always terrified of losing all our ‘stuff’. Let it go and you will experience a freedom like never before: a freedom from greed, debt, obsession and overworking.

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3. Focus on Health and Hobbies

When you spend less time at Home Depot trying unsuccessfully to keep up with the Joneses, you create an opening to do the things you love, things that you never seem to have time for.

Everyone is always saying they don’t have enough time, but how many people really stop and look at what they are spending their time doing?

You could be enjoying a day with your kids, hitting up the gym, practicing yoga, reading a good book or traveling. Whatever it is that you love you could be doing, but instead you are stuck at Sears shopping for more stuff.

4. Less Focus on Material Possessions

All the stuff we surround ourselves with is merely a distraction, we are filling a void. Money can’t buy happiness, but it can buy comfort. After the initial comfort is satisfied, that’s where our obsession with money should end.

We are bombarded by the media presenting promises of happiness through materialistic measures. It’s no wonder we struggle everyday. Resist those urges. It’s an empty path, it won’t make you happy.

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It’s hard not to get roped into the consumerism trap. I need constant reminders that it’s a false sense of happiness. I enjoy stuff, but I also recognize that I don’t need it.

5. More Peace of Mind

When we cling onto material possessions we create stress because we are always afraid of losing these things. By simplifying your life you can lose your attachment to these things and ultimately create a calm, peaceful mind.

The less things you have to worry about, the more peace you have, and it’s as simple as that.

6. More Happiness

When de-cluttering your life, happiness naturally comes because you gravitate towards the things that matter most. You see clearly the false promises in all the clutter, it’s like a broken shield against life’s true essence.

You will also find happiness in being more efficient, you will find concentration by having refocused your priorities, you will find joy by enjoying slowing down.

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7. Less Fear of Failure

When you look at Buddhist monks, they have no fear, and they have no fear because they don’t have anything to lose.

In whatever you wish to pursue doing you can excel, if you aren’t plagued with the fear of losing all your worldly possessions. Obviously you need to take the appropriate steps to put a roof over your head, but also know that you have little to fear except fear itself.

8. More Confidence

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