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7 Awesome Ways To Connect With Locals While You Travel

7 Awesome Ways To Connect With Locals While You Travel

There are two ways to travel to other countries.

You can purchase a travel package, join a tour group of your “own kind,” and travel to a country. There, you will stay at a nice hotel, eat where other tourists eat, travel to the museums, the scenic sights, and the historical buildings, shop, and ultimately go home with lots of pictures, very happy to have seen a foreign land.

The second way to travel is to go “on your own,” perhaps with a spouse, partner, or friend, having made the decision to make friends with the local people, to get to know the culture and the customs through the eyes of the people who live it every day.

This kind of travel is the way to really experience a country if you want to return home knowing that you really understand the people and a culture different to yours.

The biggest issue with this way of traveling, however, can be summed up with: “And how do I actually meet and make friends with the locals?”

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We have you somewhat covered on this! Here are 7 ways to do that, and all of them will work like a charm.

1. Find Someone From The Country In Your Own Town Before You Go

Go to a local university — they all have international student organizations — and get the contact information for one of the students from the country where you will be traveling.

Meet with them and ask about the country, the culture, and local spots to hang out when you get there.

You will then have local knowledge in advance of your travels. Most of these students also have family and friends back home, and they might offer to “introduce” you to them by email or Facebook before you even go. Voila! You will then have a contact person who can help you get around and experience the local lifestyle.

2. Learn The Language (At Least The Basics)

There are crash courses all over the Internet. Sign up for one and get the common expressions so that you can speak the language a bit.

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This will help you to fit in when you go out to local bars and restaurants. And as you strike up conversations with some of the locals who eat there, you may make some friends who will be willing to show you around a bit.

3. Hang Out At A College Or University

This may sound like a strange tip, but one traveler tells a story about how he went to the college campus and into a classroom building. He walked into a large class and sat down. When the class was over, he began to talk a bit with a couple of the students there and they ended up going out to lunch. One of the students even offered his couch to the traveler to stay overnight. Getting into the home of a local is always a great way to learn more.

4. Engage With The CouchSurfing Community

This is just one of many websites that will help you get right into the local “scene.” It has locals from nearly every country in the world opening their homes for travelers to stay while they are in that town. If you plan in advance, you can have all of your lodging taken care of by staying overnight in locals’ homes.

Alternatively, it’s just a cool place and a community to ask for all sort of travel tips, get to know the best hole-in-the-wall bars, and meet locals who will walk around town with you for a few hours.

5. Eat Where The Locals Eat

Arguably, the best way to “learn a country” is through food. Yet so many travelers eat in their hotels or in the typical restaurants that serve foreigners. The food at these places is nothing like what the locals eat.

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Always choose restaurants that are filled with locals, even if they look less alluring than your typical diner.

You can make friends with your waiter and the bartender and return every day. Pretty soon, they will be offering to take you places when they are off work.

You can also find families that open up their homes to foreigners for a meal. Some charge a bit, but the bigger value is to eat real food and have a conversation with local people. They will also be great sources of information about where to go to have a more local experience in the country.

6. Find Out About Local Events Before You Leave

There may be holidays or special events or festivals going on while you are there, so be sure you find out about these and plan to attend them. If you have not taken the time to do this, you can always ask that waiter or bartender you made friends with.

You want to see and understand how people in your host country celebrate, what they wear, what they eat, and what the events and festivals mean to their cultural history.

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7. Find A Crafted Vacation Planner                     

Because many people now want to travel outside of the typical tour group, there are lots of companies that plan personalized trips. They are connected to locals in countries and will arrange for personal local tour guides and even opportunities to stay in homes or share meals with local families. One of the advantages of this method is that the locals are already known to the company so they are safe hosts for a foreigner. These planners can also be great sources of information about where to go and what to see for a really “local” experience rather than just the “tourist” one.

Now you have 7 ways to connect with the locals in any country you visit. You should also try doing the same when foreigners come to your country. You can sign up on the websites that were mentioned in this post and offer your home for a meal or arrange to meet a traveler and show them around your town.

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Last Updated on March 13, 2019

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

1. Work on the small tasks.

When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

2. Take a break from your work desk.

Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

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3. Upgrade yourself

Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

4. Talk to a friend.

Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

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6. Paint a vision to work towards.

If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

7. Read a book (or blog).

The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

8. Have a quick nap.

If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

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9. Remember why you are doing this.

Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

10. Find some competition.

Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

11. Go exercise.

Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

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Here’re 15 Tips to Restart the Exercise Habit (and How to Keep It).

12. Take a good break.

Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

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