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4 Breathtaking Places To Visit During Summer

4 Breathtaking Places To Visit During Summer

Every traveler’s first description upon reaching a place is the people and the nature. They observe the people, the sounds and the culture. As they say “Sawadekap” in Thai and “Vanakkam” in Tamil to be one of the locals. They immerse themselves in the culture and heritage of their host countries.

Our planet is filled with amazing nature and beautiful scenery. Some views are so breathtaking that one can only imagine if that’s even possible. Watching the Northern Lights take over the sky, one can only feel the goosebumps. Among all the negativity, tensions and tears that surround our planet; nature definitely offers the best comfort.

Since it’s summer and we are all in the midst of planning our trips, I’ve decided to put together four breathtaking places one should explore. Our planet is wondrous and beautiful. Being out there and discovering its hidden secrets is the best part of life, so go out and explore the world.

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1. Bora-Bora, Philippines.

So let’s start with one of the most famous regions of the world, Bora-Bora Island, Philippines. This island has become one of the biggest tourist hub spots after Bali, Indonesia and Phuket, Thailand. Every year after the end of monsoon, it receives more than 100,000 tourists from all around the world.

It’s white sand beaches make it perfect for snorkeling and diving. Its amazing sea habitat makes everyone want to explore more of it. However, the secret attraction is its hiking trails that go through the forest, which often leads to amazing waterfalls. Some say, it’s a drop of heaven; well, what else do you need if you’ve got good food, white sandy beaches, and amazing waterfalls?

Plus, the nightlife is traditional, wild and exciting; always leading you to unexpected adventures. If you haven’t decided on a place, then this is the perfect place to go to this summer.

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2. Reykjavik, Iceland.

Iceland is known for its gender equality, feminism and it’s high living standards. It’s also known for its Viking heritage, beautiful glaciers and its unique languages. For many, it’s the “Frozen” wonderland; living there would be a fairy-tale come true. However, the highlight of Iceland is its breathtaking nature.

Its glaciers are well preserved and the Northern Lights can be seen in the sky almost every night. Even from the capital, one can witness these lights taking over the sky. The usual explanations I hear is a fantasy vision of how the Northern Lights appeared. In reality, however, the Aurora Borealis are rather mellow and light. If you’re lucky you might find a few shades of colors; if not, they usually appear in apple green, holy yellow and slightly blue. They’re best viewed from mid-August till the end of September.

Compared to Sweden, Finland, and Norway, the Aurora Borealis is best viewed from Iceland. The country is small in size and with few towering skyscrapers, which allows the lights to be seen more clearly. So if you’re in Europe, skip crowded Rome and head to Iceland.

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3. Borneo, Malaysia.

Malaysia is a country known for its startups, multiculturalism, immense traditions and shopping. It’s also famous for its good food and friendly culture. Nominated as one of the most progressive countries in Asia after Japan and Singapore, it’s a thriving nation for the young and old.

With approximately 7 million people, it’s a country which is surrounded by amazing rain-forests as well as beautiful islands. However, there are two parts of Malaysia, the East Malaysia, and the West Malaysia. Borneo is from the West Malaysia. Borneo is a land which still holds strongly to its traditions as well as to its flora and fauna.

Malaysia is suitable for a visit almost all year except during its Monsoon period, which would be from November to February. If you’re there, you’ll be able to enjoy the beautiful nature with all kinds of insects and animals such as Orangutans, Tigers, and Tapirs while taking a relaxing walk through the forest. Furthermore, if you enjoy culture, then you’ll be able to enjoy the various tribes that are still maintaining the sacredness of Borneo.

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Finally, if you want to give yourself a challenge, then take a hike up Mt. Kinabalu to experience the fresh mountain air and watch the breathtaking view.

4. Mount Damavand, Iran.

Over the centuries, Iran has become a prominent country. It has been portrayed in romantic novels and Persian legends. It is the only nation that practices Parsi or Farsi. They are famous for their amazing food, beautiful culture, traditional colorful mosques and amazing films.

One of their best festivals is their New Year Festival, Nowruz. It’s celebrated at the start of Spring, with a spread of nuts, flowers, and good food. It’s celebrated to embrace and thank the harvest.

However, the best part of Iran is its beautiful nature, in particular, the Mount Damavand. It’s located 80 Kilometers outside Tehran and usually takes up to two whole days of travelling to reach the peak. For those passionate about hikes and enjoy a nice mountain view, this is definitely a treat. This is the mountain which features in various Persian Folktales and is usually a part of various inspiring stories. Surprisingly this is one mountain that’s covered in snow all year long.

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Published on May 4, 2021

How To Spot Fake People (And Ways To Deal With Them)

How To Spot Fake People (And Ways To Deal With Them)

They say we are the average of the five persons we spend the most time with. For a minute, consider the people around you. Are they truly who your “tribe” should be or who you aspire to become in the future? Are they really genuine people who want to see you succeed? Or are they fake people who don’t really want to see you happy?

In this article, I’ll review why it is important to surround yourself with genuine individuals—the ones who care, bring something to our table, and first and foremost, who leave all fakeness behind.

How to Spot Fake People?

When you’ve been working in the helping professions for a while, spotting fake people gets a bit easier. There are some very clear signs that the person you are looking at is hiding something, acting somehow, or simply wanting to get somewhere. Most often, there is a secondary gain—perhaps attention, sympathy, or even a promotion.

Whatever it is, you’re better off working their true agenda and staying the hell away. Here are some things you should look out for to help spot fake people.

1. Full of Themselves

Fake people like to show off. They love looking at themselves in the mirror. They collect photos and videos of every single achievement they had and every part of their body and claim to be the “best at what they do.”

Most of these people are actually not that good in real life. But they act like they are and ensure that they appear better than the next person. The issue for you is that you may find yourself always feeling “beneath” them and irritated at their constant need to be in the spotlight.

2. Murky in Expressing Their Emotions

Have you ever tried having a deep and meaningful conversation with a fake person? It’s almost impossible. It’s because they have limited emotional intelligence and don’t know how they truly feel deep down—and partly because they don’t want to have their true emotions exposed, no matter how normal these might be.

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It’s much harder to say “I’m the best at what I do” while simultaneously sharing “average” emotions with “equal” people.

3. Zero Self-Reflection

To grow, we must accept feedback from others. We must be open to our strengths and to our weaknesses. We must accept that we all come in different shapes and can always improve.

Self-reflection requires us to think, forgive, admit fault, and learn from our mistakes. But to do that, we have to be able to adopt a level of genuineness and depth that fake people don’t routinely have. A fake person generally never apologizes, but when they do, it is often followed with a “but” in the next breath.

4. Unrealistic Perceptions

Fake people most often have an unrealistic perception of the world—things that they want to portray to others (pseudo achievements, materialistic gains, or a made-up sense of happiness) or simply how they genuinely regard life outside themselves.

A lot of fake people hide pain, shame, and other underlying reasons in their behavior. This could explain why they can’t be authentic and/or have difficulties seeing their environment for the way it objectively is (both good and bad).

5. Love Attention

As I mentioned earlier, the biggest sign that something isn’t quite right with someone’s behavior can be established by how much they love attention. Are you being interrupted every time you speak by someone who wants to make sure that the spotlight gets reverted back to them? Is the focus always on them, no matter the topic? If yes, you’re probably dealing with a fake person.

6. People Pleaser

Appreciation feels nice but having everyone like you is even better. While it is completely unrealistic for most people to please everyone all the time, fake people seem to always say yes in pursuit of constant approval.

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Now, this is a problem for two reasons. Firstly, these people are simply saying yes to things for their own satisfaction. Secondly, they often end up changing their minds or retracting their offer for one reason or another (“I would have loved to, but my grandmother suddenly fell ill.”), leaving you in the lurch for the 100th time this year.

7. Sarcasm and Cynicism

Behind the chronic pasted smile, fake people are well known for brewing resentment, jealousy, or anger. This is because, behind the postcard life, they are often unhappy. Sarcasm and cynicism are well known to act as a defense mechanism, sometimes even a diversion—anything so they can remain feeling on top of the world, whether it is through boosting themselves or bringing people down.

8. Crappy friend

Fake people are bad friends. They don’t listen to you, your feelings, and whatever news you might have to share. In fact, you might find yourself migrating away from them when you have exciting or bad news to share, knowing that it will always end up one way—their way. In addition, you might find that they’re not available when you truly need them or worse, cancel plans at the last minute.

It’s not unusual to hear that a fake person talks constantly behind people’s backs. Let’s be honest, if they do it to others, they’re doing it to you too. If your “friend” makes you feel bad constantly, trust me, they’re not achieving their purpose, and they’re simply not a good person to have around.

The sooner you learn to spot these fake people, the sooner you can meet meaningful individuals again.

How to Cope With Fake People Moving Forward?

It is important to remind yourself that you deserve more than what you’re getting. You are worthy, valuable, precious, and just as important as the next person.

There are many ways to manage fake people. Here are some tips on how to deal with them.

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1. Boundaries

Keep your boundaries very clear. As explained in the book Unlock Your Resilience, boundaries are what keep you sane when the world tries to suffocate you. When fake people become emotional vampires, make sure to keep your distances, limit contact, and simply replace them with more valuable interactions.

2. Don’t Take Their Behavior Personally

Sadly, they most likely have behaved this way before they knew you and will continue much longer after you have moved on. It isn’t about you. It is about their inner need to meet a void that you are not responsible for. And in all honesty, unless you are a trained professional, you are unlikely to improve it anyway.

3. Be Upfront and Honest About How You Feel

If your “friend” has been hurtful or engaged in behaviors you struggle with, let them know—nicely, firmly, however you want, but let them know that they are affecting you. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, you’ll feel better and when you’re ready to move on, you’ll know you tried to reach out. Your conscience is clear.

4. Ask for Advice

If you’re unsure about what you’re seeing or feeling, ask for advice. Perhaps a relative, a good friend, or a colleague might have some input as to whether you are overreacting or seeing some genuine concerns.

Now, don’t confuse asking for advice with gossiping behind the fake person’s back because, in the end, you don’t want to stoop down to their level. However, a little reminder as to how to stay on your own wellness track can never hurt.

5. Dig Deeper

Now, this one, I offer with caution. If you are emotionally strong, up to it, guaranteed you won’t get sucked into it, and have the skills to manage, perhaps you could dig into the reasons a fake person is acting the way they do.

Have they suffered recent trauma? Have they been rejected all their lives? Is their self-esteem so low that they must resort to making themselves feel good in any way they can? Sometimes, having an understanding of a person’s behavior can help in processing it.

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6. Practice Self-Care!

Clearly, putting some distance between the fake person and yourself is probably the way to go. However, sometimes, it takes time to get there. In the meantime, make sure to practice self-care, be gentle with yourself, and compensate with lots of positives!

Self-care can be as simple as taking a hot shower after talking to them or declining an invitation when you’re not feeling up to the challenge.

Spotting fake people isn’t too hard. They generally glow with wanna-be vibes. However, most often, there are reasons as to why they are like this. Calling their behavior might be the first step. Providing them with support might be the second. But if these don’t work, it’s time to stay away and surround yourself with the positivity that you deserve.

Final Thoughts

Remember that life is a rollercoaster. It has good moments, tough moments, and moments you wouldn’t change for the world. So, look around and make sure that you take the time to choose the right people to share it all with.

We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with, so take a good look around and choose wisely!

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