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8 Reasons People Who Like Spending Time Alone Are Smarter and Stronger

8 Reasons People Who Like Spending Time Alone Are Smarter and Stronger

Today’s society encourages us to spend as much time as possible with other people; even when we are alone, we are texting, emailing, phoning, and Skyping each other. We are always expected to be doing something or going somewhere, but there are actually lots of benefits to spending time alone.

Solitude isn’t very popular in our constantly connected world, and often people who spend time alone are assumed to be lonely or sad. However, this is rarely the case; lots people enjoy spending time alone because it benefits them psychologically. Spending time alone is actually good for us, and it gives us the chance to relax and recharge.

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1. Spending Time Alone Will Make You More Confident

Unconfident people often rely on others to help with decisions, but spending time alone encourages you to make decisions for yourself. When you are alone, you can ignore other people’s opinions and ideas so that you can really focus on your own thoughts. You get the opportunity to weigh up all of the pros and cons so that you make the best possible decision, which helps to inspire confidence within ourselves.

2. Spending Time Alone Will Boost Your Productivity

When we are around other people, we often become distracted from our goals and priorities. When we are alone, we get the chance to really think about what matters to us, from work to family to money. This helps us to decide our goals and it also motivates us to work towards achieving our goals.

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3. Spending Time Alone Helps You to be Creative

Everyone is creative in different ways, but when we are around other people, we are more likely to do what the rest of the group is doing. When we are alone, outside influences are removed and we can do exactly as we please. Some people enjoy drawing or painting, and others might enjoy cooking, reading, writing, or making music. There are lots of different ways to be creative, and when we are alone we get the chance to explore our individual interests and abilities.

4. Spending Time Alone Will Clear Your Mind

Our society is filled with information and we often overload on the endless stream of information coming from work, social media, and our friends and family. Sometimes it is essential to take a break from the stream of information so that we can think about our lives and assess everything that is happening. Spending time alone allows us to clear our minds, which makes us happier and more relaxed.

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5. Spending Time Alone Will Help You to Solve Problems

The best solutions often come to us when we are alone and reflecting on our problems. Spending time alone helps us to work through a problem as we get the chance to really think about it. We can think about what caused the problem, as well as all the different ways we can do to solve the problem. We also get the opportunity to think about what we really want, which helps us to think of effective solutions.

6. Spending Time Alone Will Help You to Get Things Done

Most people have a list of things that they need to do, but it is difficult to tick anything off the list when you are always with people. When you are alone, you get uninterrupted time to work on your to-do list, and we often achieve a lot more when we are alone as there are no distractions. Even if it isn’t fun to work through the list, you will feel happy and productive when you finish working.

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7. Spending Time Alone Relieves Stress and Anxiety

Lots of people today suffer from stress and anxiety, and spending time alone helps us to de-stress and relax. When we are alone we don’t have to listen to other people’s problems or issues; we can just relax and do as we please.

8. Spending Time Alone Encourages You to be More Independent

One of the main benefits to spending time alone is that it inspires us to be more independent. When we are alone we can focus on personal progress, problem solving, and enjoying ourselves, which all encourage independence and self-love.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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