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4 Countries To Visit If You’re In Asia

4 Countries To Visit If You’re In Asia

Being on a plane or on a train, they will always bring upon new memories and interesting adventures. For a traveler it feels like being on a constant treasure hunt. Despite the mainstream reasons of self-discovery and liberation, travelling encompasses even more.

Being half Asian and half African gave me a chance to enjoy various cultures plus growing up in Malaysia, I was in the center point for all Asian countries. From a very young age I was constantly exposed to travelling and different cultures hence change never surprised me.

However, I recently realized the difference in opinions and skepticism regarding travelling to other continents. It was surprising hence I thought I would shed some light to one of my favorite continents regarding a few countries one should visit.

Its summer and if you’re looking for a cheap getaway then this is it.

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1.Japan- Land of Food, Culture and Nature.

Japan has been a country famous for its outrageous style, beautiful nature, freshest of fish and anime’s. That nation has been an example for hard work, perseverance and success throughout history. Tokyo, the capital of this wonderland is the home for the new generation of fashion and style while also becoming the nation’s capital for food and culture.

Fugu one of the most delicate cuisine is served by the highly qualified chefs of Japan. These Chefs are from the highest class and belong to the 35% of those who passed. Fugu being the most dangerous yet sought after dish in the world is among the arrays of Japanese cuisine and fishes. If you’re a fan of fish, food and people this is one place to visit and if you happen to pass by the Harajuku train station make sure to visit the Michelin Star sushi restaurant, even if you don’t get to enjoy the meal at least you can watch him preparing one.

Sakura’s or Cherry Blossoms have been the highlight of Japanese culture for years, we see them in brochures, advertisements, movies and anime’s. It’s been embedded in our souls that Japanese is surrounded by this beautiful romantic flowers and this has aided to the large Japanese wedding industry.  Every Spring has become an attraction for people from all around the world to have their dream kimono wedding beneath the sea of Sakura’s. Hence, even if it’s too late to watch the Sakura’s be sure to catch the beautiful view from Mount Fuji and all the scenic nature.

So if you’re planning to head to Japan this year, make sure to enjoy your adventures with a fine glass of Sake.

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2.Taiwan – The Bridge Between Wild Night and Wild Life.

Individuality depends on one’s perspective, it defines us and defines our principals, likes and dislikes. This same concept defines our preferred vacation and what we would like to see. When you speak of Asia, you’ll find a huge bridge between the young and the old. You’ll notice the wild souls of the young doesn’t match the calm and centered souls of the old.

In a world where taboos are the dividend within culture, Taiwan has surpassed all the odds and bridged both the old and new together. Taipei the nation’s capital has become the hub spot of the latest night life and entertainment. It allows the young to enjoy a cultural form of night life and fun. Therefore, becoming the colorful neon city we have all known it for.

On the other side, for those nature enthusiasts there are amazing rainforest and beautiful mountains to take upon a hiking challenge. Among the countries national treasures are its amazing flora and fauna as well as its beautiful temples. For many this temple becomes a meditation spot and a place of self-discovery.

Therefore, if you’re heading to Taiwan make sure to indulge in the street cuisine before heading for a wild adventure.

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3.India – An Alice in Wonderland.

Alice’s Wonderland is the perfect description for India. For those who are planning to travel to India, then the time between April till the end of August is a terrible idea for a visit.as the heat and humidity will make your travel a nightmare. So always plan your trip to India a year ahead.

However, despite the heat and humidity and its imperfections, India has one of the most welcoming population in the world. From its Kumbha Mela in Varanasi where you get to see all form of holy processions till it’s beautiful mountain tops, India will definitely guarantee you an adventure. However, one must always remember India offers different experience in each state, the states in the North offer a more quiet, mature and historic experience while the states in the South from Kerala to Chennai offer a variety of colors, music, spiciness and intuitive adventure.

You’ll find women tying sari’s cook the most divine food and street cuisine as equivalent as a 5 Star meal. Hence if you’re heading to India, make sure to enjoy the spicy food as much as you enjoy an adventure. As you reach the end of your trip, you might have just been part of a whole new wonderland.

4.Bhutan- Being Calm Is a Way of Life.

Our lives are filled with hassle and stress, despite various articles suggesting otherwise, the truth is we are all stressed to a certain extent. We all want to achieve certain things in life and motivational quotes makes us push harder and faster. We never stop to catch a breath until we are absolutely forced to take one.

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If that’s the case, then Bhutan is the place to be. Bhutan is a land locked country with around 700000 to 800000 inhabitants. It’s a country is small in size but huge in character and beliefs towards calmness and balance of the universe. Interestingly, they are also the biggest followers of the Phallic religion, which features the male genitalia. It represents fertility, growth and prosperity hence if you’re lucky you might catch the once in a life time parade.

Apart from that, you’ll also be able to enjoy beautiful nature and interesting cuisines, that represent their culture and heritage. However, do keep in mind to always respect their traditions and beliefs as it’s the core of their lives.

Asia is an amazing continent, full of surprises, good food and various culture hence this places are a handful of names from my experience. However, if you would prefer to visit other parts of Asia there are various channels that could offer you great help.

Travelling is an amazing feeling, do experience it to the fullest.

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Published on May 4, 2021

How To Spot Fake People (And Ways To Deal With Them)

How To Spot Fake People (And Ways To Deal With Them)

They say we are the average of the five persons we spend the most time with. For a minute, consider the people around you. Are they truly who your “tribe” should be or who you aspire to become in the future? Are they really genuine people who want to see you succeed? Or are they fake people who don’t really want to see you happy?

In this article, I’ll review why it is important to surround yourself with genuine individuals—the ones who care, bring something to our table, and first and foremost, who leave all fakeness behind.

How to Spot Fake People?

When you’ve been working in the helping professions for a while, spotting fake people gets a bit easier. There are some very clear signs that the person you are looking at is hiding something, acting somehow, or simply wanting to get somewhere. Most often, there is a secondary gain—perhaps attention, sympathy, or even a promotion.

Whatever it is, you’re better off working their true agenda and staying the hell away. Here are some things you should look out for to help spot fake people.

1. Full of Themselves

Fake people like to show off. They love looking at themselves in the mirror. They collect photos and videos of every single achievement they had and every part of their body and claim to be the “best at what they do.”

Most of these people are actually not that good in real life. But they act like they are and ensure that they appear better than the next person. The issue for you is that you may find yourself always feeling “beneath” them and irritated at their constant need to be in the spotlight.

2. Murky in Expressing Their Emotions

Have you ever tried having a deep and meaningful conversation with a fake person? It’s almost impossible. It’s because they have limited emotional intelligence and don’t know how they truly feel deep down—and partly because they don’t want to have their true emotions exposed, no matter how normal these might be.

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It’s much harder to say “I’m the best at what I do” while simultaneously sharing “average” emotions with “equal” people.

3. Zero Self-Reflection

To grow, we must accept feedback from others. We must be open to our strengths and to our weaknesses. We must accept that we all come in different shapes and can always improve.

Self-reflection requires us to think, forgive, admit fault, and learn from our mistakes. But to do that, we have to be able to adopt a level of genuineness and depth that fake people don’t routinely have. A fake person generally never apologizes, but when they do, it is often followed with a “but” in the next breath.

4. Unrealistic Perceptions

Fake people most often have an unrealistic perception of the world—things that they want to portray to others (pseudo achievements, materialistic gains, or a made-up sense of happiness) or simply how they genuinely regard life outside themselves.

A lot of fake people hide pain, shame, and other underlying reasons in their behavior. This could explain why they can’t be authentic and/or have difficulties seeing their environment for the way it objectively is (both good and bad).

5. Love Attention

As I mentioned earlier, the biggest sign that something isn’t quite right with someone’s behavior can be established by how much they love attention. Are you being interrupted every time you speak by someone who wants to make sure that the spotlight gets reverted back to them? Is the focus always on them, no matter the topic? If yes, you’re probably dealing with a fake person.

6. People Pleaser

Appreciation feels nice but having everyone like you is even better. While it is completely unrealistic for most people to please everyone all the time, fake people seem to always say yes in pursuit of constant approval.

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Now, this is a problem for two reasons. Firstly, these people are simply saying yes to things for their own satisfaction. Secondly, they often end up changing their minds or retracting their offer for one reason or another (“I would have loved to, but my grandmother suddenly fell ill.”), leaving you in the lurch for the 100th time this year.

7. Sarcasm and Cynicism

Behind the chronic pasted smile, fake people are well known for brewing resentment, jealousy, or anger. This is because, behind the postcard life, they are often unhappy. Sarcasm and cynicism are well known to act as a defense mechanism, sometimes even a diversion—anything so they can remain feeling on top of the world, whether it is through boosting themselves or bringing people down.

8. Crappy friend

Fake people are bad friends. They don’t listen to you, your feelings, and whatever news you might have to share. In fact, you might find yourself migrating away from them when you have exciting or bad news to share, knowing that it will always end up one way—their way. In addition, you might find that they’re not available when you truly need them or worse, cancel plans at the last minute.

It’s not unusual to hear that a fake person talks constantly behind people’s backs. Let’s be honest, if they do it to others, they’re doing it to you too. If your “friend” makes you feel bad constantly, trust me, they’re not achieving their purpose, and they’re simply not a good person to have around.

The sooner you learn to spot these fake people, the sooner you can meet meaningful individuals again.

How to Cope With Fake People Moving Forward?

It is important to remind yourself that you deserve more than what you’re getting. You are worthy, valuable, precious, and just as important as the next person.

There are many ways to manage fake people. Here are some tips on how to deal with them.

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1. Boundaries

Keep your boundaries very clear. As explained in the book Unlock Your Resilience, boundaries are what keep you sane when the world tries to suffocate you. When fake people become emotional vampires, make sure to keep your distances, limit contact, and simply replace them with more valuable interactions.

2. Don’t Take Their Behavior Personally

Sadly, they most likely have behaved this way before they knew you and will continue much longer after you have moved on. It isn’t about you. It is about their inner need to meet a void that you are not responsible for. And in all honesty, unless you are a trained professional, you are unlikely to improve it anyway.

3. Be Upfront and Honest About How You Feel

If your “friend” has been hurtful or engaged in behaviors you struggle with, let them know—nicely, firmly, however you want, but let them know that they are affecting you. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, you’ll feel better and when you’re ready to move on, you’ll know you tried to reach out. Your conscience is clear.

4. Ask for Advice

If you’re unsure about what you’re seeing or feeling, ask for advice. Perhaps a relative, a good friend, or a colleague might have some input as to whether you are overreacting or seeing some genuine concerns.

Now, don’t confuse asking for advice with gossiping behind the fake person’s back because, in the end, you don’t want to stoop down to their level. However, a little reminder as to how to stay on your own wellness track can never hurt.

5. Dig Deeper

Now, this one, I offer with caution. If you are emotionally strong, up to it, guaranteed you won’t get sucked into it, and have the skills to manage, perhaps you could dig into the reasons a fake person is acting the way they do.

Have they suffered recent trauma? Have they been rejected all their lives? Is their self-esteem so low that they must resort to making themselves feel good in any way they can? Sometimes, having an understanding of a person’s behavior can help in processing it.

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6. Practice Self-Care!

Clearly, putting some distance between the fake person and yourself is probably the way to go. However, sometimes, it takes time to get there. In the meantime, make sure to practice self-care, be gentle with yourself, and compensate with lots of positives!

Self-care can be as simple as taking a hot shower after talking to them or declining an invitation when you’re not feeling up to the challenge.

Spotting fake people isn’t too hard. They generally glow with wanna-be vibes. However, most often, there are reasons as to why they are like this. Calling their behavior might be the first step. Providing them with support might be the second. But if these don’t work, it’s time to stay away and surround yourself with the positivity that you deserve.

Final Thoughts

Remember that life is a rollercoaster. It has good moments, tough moments, and moments you wouldn’t change for the world. So, look around and make sure that you take the time to choose the right people to share it all with.

We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with, so take a good look around and choose wisely!

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Featured photo credit: Priscilla Du Preez via unsplash.com

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