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8 Indicators To Help Identify The Narcissists Around You

Do you know anyone near you, who claims to have extensive knowledge on everything? Do they always opt for “me, my, and I?” Do not second guess ignoring them, because they are most likely a narcissist. There are people out there who will make an effort to connect with you, but once their self-interest is served, they will walk away. It’s time to wade through the chore of identifying narcissists around you. If you have ever been startled by such people in your life, and you want to spot them out, read through the indicators below to identify the narcissists beside you.

1. They Try to Win Every Conversation

There may be a person at your table—along with your other mates—who won’t give you the chance to speak. You’ll first ignore this behavior, but they seem to dominate conversations and never hold back. They often cause sensitive people to feel embarrassed. They tell tall tales with eccentric gestures, and amuse others– stay away from such people, they will waste your time with their narcissistic attitude.

2. They Think They are the Smartest People Ever

People who are smart and creative don’t talk about their success stories everywhere they go. They in fact, usually try and show people something real and innovative. However, if you are among narcissists, then you can expect to watch them regale a group of people with exaggerated tales. If they ever see something worth mentioning, they’ll quote it a dozen times, dressing it up with baseless facts to personalize it for their own benefit. In reality however, these people run away from any situation that truly requires intelligence and determination.

3. They are Not Well Read in True Meaning

Do you ever notice that person—surrounded by some others— constantly getting praise for discussing topics that usually require extensive research? Make sure you check for their accuracy, because you may be falling victim to “narcissist talk”. They have shallow knowledge, and sham it to the highest degree of perfection. You can’t beat them, because they have experience, and it is not their first time encroaching fabricated information on others. Just keep this in mind next time you see this happen, and avoid dealing with them.

4. They Lack Empathy and Apathy

Narcissists have no care at all. They get an idea and execute it without concern for people’s feelings. This often causes serious inconveniences. They pretend to have a smitten with you, but may later on decide to let you down. Their jesting remarks may hurt you a lot, but it really doesn’t matter because they don’t care. In fact, these people are addicted to their habits; their initial interests and enthusiasms come to an end once their own goals are realized. They will then leave you because they are simply, narcissists.

5. They Make Use of Triangulation

Narcissists look for every possibility to belittle you. To inflict and validate their points on others, they bring the opinions of a third party into their conversations in order to help back their cases. Triangulation, according to a book Psychopath Free by Peace, is an important method narcissists use for controlling your emotions. It helps them grab you perfectly, so that their nefarious desires of jealousy weaken your relationships, and move your loved ones far away from you.

6. They Hold Grudges Until the End

There is no limit to the resentment narcissists have against people—who unfortunately get stuck in dealing with them. They will grab every opportunity to take a jab at you. They still remember that past month’s conversation that led them to humiliation in front of many people. Karyl McBride, a PHD from The Union Institute in clinical psychology, described the feeling saying, “It feels like a huge assault, a personal attack.” Actually, such people think that they have a distinctive image in other people’s minds, and they don’t want that image to shatter. You can see these types of people near you, in a ceremony, at function halls, everywhere.

7. They Won’t Shoulder Responsibilities

You’ll find narcissists always trying to stand out in a crowd or group. Once something becomes less than convenient for them, they will sneak out. This is how their strategy works; if you confront them about leaving their responsibilities behind, you will get a list of excuses on how they are independent from the situation. “He did that, I never got there, and I’m not responsible.”

8. They Will Push Others to the Edge

There are people around you—if you recognize them—who will try to get the most out of you for nothing in return. They are narcissists with a parasitic nature. It doesn’t matter if you get injured or whatever, they will always turn a deaf ear once you try and express your concerns. They don’t work hard to achieve real success in their lives; their whole system is coded into duping others.

Put them under the red flag, and make your life safe and carefree by watching out for all these 8 indicators!

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