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5 Steps to Fixing Your Posture and Saying Goodbye to Back Pain

5 Steps to Fixing Your Posture and Saying Goodbye to Back Pain

The statistics are clear: our screen resolutions have never been higher, and our immune systems have never been weaker. Constantly wired, we spend much of our time clicking from our seats. While some generate social media traffic and others complete side quests, we’ve all become accustomed to a mostly sedentary life. Even when brainstorming, we remain bent over our desks, with our minds constantly rushing and our bodies inactive.

It takes little time and even less effort to become inert and slouchy, but such habits shortly and inevitably lead to pain. Sore backs, necks, and shoulders are then frequently followed up by poor breathing, digestive issues, tension headaches, and even stress and depression. Still, all of these burdensome consequences can be easily nipped in the bud or alleviated once they start emerging — all it takes is a bit of awareness. Here are our five tips for offloading back pain by fixing your posture.

1. Stretch, Ready, Go

Over the years, we’ve all become experts at finding a good excuse for not being physically active. Either we work hard and have no time to devote to exercising, or it’s simply too hard to begin with. Well, fitness programs have come a long way since gyms were the only places equipped for working out. Nowadays, there are hundreds of them for each muscle group, specific purpose, and particular lifestyle habits available online, and most of them require not more than a half an hour per day.

Even if some toning exercises are too demanding, good posture routines never are. All they require is a bit of stretching, a couple of shoulder rolls, chest releases, a pyramid, a chair pose, and some standing side bends — basically, it’s a 7-step routine we’ve all done on our PE classes that lasts no longer than 20 minutes.

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As simple as they are, these exercises will not only relieve you of aches and allow you to breathe, sit and function normally, but they will also grant you a couple of minutes of unadulterated peace and harmonize your body and mind. It’s a few drops of sweat a day for a lifetime of being pain-free.

2. Tech Support

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    However bad for our health, slouching seems quite impossible to avoid. Described as the “smoking of our generation,” it’s a habit easily developed not only by passionate bingers and enthused gamers, but by anyone with long studying and working hours as well. Luckily, smart technology has been significantly improving our lives for the last decade, and when this particular issue is in question, it can help a great deal.

    Meet wearable tech! It’s clever and intuitive, cool, unnoticeable, and above all, hugely beneficial for our alignment. A fine selection of magnetic sensors, posture braces, activity trackers, and posture improvement devices are now available and mostly affordable for most of us in need of something to remind us of our bodies while our brains are working hard.

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    The principle of work behind these wearables varies from simple sitting correction to complex signal reminders. Some of them emit tiny vibrations to your lower back each time your spine starts to curve while sitting, some monitor walking posture, and others simply prevent your back from slouching by keeping them straight. Taken together, they are an important addition to regular exercises and a much-needed support for your sitting body.

    3. Legs on the Floor, Eyes on the Screen

    An ergonomically correct workstation needs much more than a comfortable chair. It’s a space you spend most of your time, whether focused on long-term business plans and current exams or excited about that heart-stopping landscape view from the ruins of Drahim Castle. Having it properly set up will not only make your sitting hours more pleasurable but will keep your spine, joints and muscles pressure-free and healthy in the long run.

    The natural sitting posture, as experts claim, is quite similar to your driving pose. Scoot your chair from the desk, and try adopting it. Once you find the position that keeps you straight but feeling comfortable enough, start adjusting your environment accordingly. The space between your keyboard and mouse should allow your arms to form a 90-degree angle, and your screen should be at proper distance and height in order for you to avoid “turtling.”

    Only when all of these elements are in place, your ergo chair can do its magic. Choose it to suit the shape, length, and height of your body and, if needed, find one that won’t allow you to change your pose too often.

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    4. Harmonize Your Body and Mind

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      Keeping your back straight and your shoulders and neck in perfect alignment may take some time getting used to. While the mind concentrates on work, the body relaxes and starts to slouch; before you finally become aware of your poor posture, a couple of hours have already passed. Luckily, there are a few magical tricks that can keep you in contact with your body, and remind your brain to send signals down to your spine.

      “It’s very important for us to be able to stretch and open up and improve our range of motion,” says Jonathan F. Bean of Harvard Medical School in Boston. Every half an hour, if not more frequently, stand up from your seat and stretch your legs or simply sit up, straighten your spine, pull your shoulders back and breathe. Until you adopt this as a regular habit, scribble a note to yourself on your computer screen as a reminder.

      Even if you don’t have many difficulties with this, consider introducing a yoga session to your weekly routine. There’s simply not a better technique for reconnecting your mind with your body — it will straighten your core but make you more flexible at the same time and remind you to breathe properly. Most importantly, one yoga class a week will make you aware of the utter importance of living healthy and taking care of both your spirit and physique.

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      5. Inhale; Exhale

      Hyperkyphosis, as scientists call it, or bad posture, as we all know it, unavoidably results in restricted and shallow breathing. The two are always interconnected, which is why improving them both is paramount for your overall health.

      Apart from being much healthier, breathing through a diaphragm is actually the only normal respiratory technique. Unlike upper chest breathing, which forces a lot of air out and thus causing us to feel breathless, agitated, and tired, this technique lets just enough air and does so in a controlled and deliberate manner. Additionally, it helps you to stay focused and aware of your body, something you’ll definitely need for improving your posture.

      However beneficial, these five tips are highly unlikely to get you anywhere if practiced alone. Once you start exercising regularly and breathing correctly, alter your sitting habits to support your back, shoulders, and neck, and embrace wearable tech to remind you of the importance of sitting straight in case you do eventually slip, your posture will finally be perfect, and your body pain-free.

      Featured photo credit: https://www.pexels.com/u/scott-webb-39047/ via pexels.com

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      Last Updated on February 20, 2019

      13 Tips to Face Your Fears, Grow with Them and Enjoy the Ride

      13 Tips to Face Your Fears, Grow with Them and Enjoy the Ride

      Fear. I spend my life talking about fear — fighting fears, fixing fears and understanding fears. And yet I doubt I get 10 calls a year from people saying “Mandie can you help me fix my fear?”

      Why is this so critically important to you?

      The realization for me is that fear is not the fundamental driving force in your life it’s what regardless of whether I’m talking to a doctor, a teacher, a CEO’s, a senior citizens or teenager – every single one of those conversations has a direct correlation with your world.

      Fear can range from the overwhelming desire to look away or stop in your tracks to literally fleeing your country and the life you knew. In this article, I will share you with 13 tips to face your fears and enjoy the ride.

      1. Know That Fear Is Real, but Can Be Overcome

      Right now around the world people are facing fear — real fear. Fear that I pray my children and I will never experience. Does that lessen my fears or your fears in your relativity safe 21st century life?

      When I look at the world we all live in, I find that fear like so many other emotions can mean so many different things to so many different people:

      • The child who has to be physically dragged to their first day of school.
      • The man facing the judge.
      • The woman with her hand poised over the buttons over her phone because she has to walk down a dark corridor late at night alone.
      • The man as the surgeon says “count backwards from 10 Mr Smith.”
      • The woman that’s told “We are sorry, we can’t help you.”
      • The man that faces the empty circle of a gun and prays for his very existence.

      These and a million more (Portrayed in every kind of movie, book or song you could imagine) are what make us human. We face fear and somehow move forward or are stopped in our tracks.

      Like the rabbit in the headlights of the car that veers off through the field away from the tyres of the car or stays still praying for salvation. Like someone will save them. Sound familiar?

      Fear is huge. Fear is everywhere and yet fear can be overcome, controlled and can even be a power for good.

      2. Accept Your Fear

      Firstly if you aren’t facing the barrel of the gun, atrocities that make the news or impeding death, that’s a good start. However it doesn’t mean your fear is any less real.

      We are quick to say “I can’t moan, my life is not as bad as X.” While in theory, that’s honorable your appreciation of Mr. or Mrs. X’s horrific life won’t change anything directly. So accept your fear is relative to you.

      And here’s what can be done.

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      3. Get Some Perspective

      I found myself asking anyone that would answer “what is your worst fear”. The answer that intrigued me the most came from my daughter (15 years old and she usually has a copy of Fight the Fear – my book – in her school bag so she can help someone else be as positive and confident as her. No matter what life throws up.)

      And her fear, surprised me — heights. I pointed out that we live in a sprawling bungalow (one storey) and the highest she goes is two storeys’ at school! She laughed but added, fear isn’t like that Mum. I know it’s not a real fear, but it’s like when you stand on a chair and feel unsafe.

      That girl will go far. Because she truly gets fear.

      We know something is scary and yet we still do it. Why? Because we have a perspective to the fear. When you lose perspective, it can feel too big, and too scary.

      So look around you to get some perspective on your fear:

      • Are you really at risk?
      • Will this kill you?
      • Which leads us on to..
      • If the worse was to happen what would it be?

      4. Hold a Hand

      As a coach, it is my job to holds someone’s metaphorical hand and help them face a fear.

      Like the child petrified of the thunder storm or the teen that can’t get back in a car again after failing their test, your job as a parent is to reassure, encourage, enable and motivate someone to face something that ideally they never would choose to again.

      We know many of our fears aren’t real. However, it is only when someone guides us with love, respect, lack of judgement and safety are we able to get through fear. And trust me, you can get through your fears. I’ve seen it so many times.

      Ask yourself:

      • If the worse were to happen, what would that be?
      • Could that really happen?
      • If the worse did happen, how would you recover?
      • If the worse were to happen, what would you need to do next?

      By seeing fear as not the end destination but part of being human, you can see through it’s wily evil ways and move forward.

      5. Know Whose Hand You Hold Either Physically or Emotionally

      This helps with fears for the rest of your life.

      Think of someone you can always rely on (and ideally you won’t just answer yourself because that adds a lot of pressure to your existence!) And you will find that you’ve already found a way to get through fear.

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      The beauty of this is that it means that fear becomes part of life not something to be feared and shied away from.

      It means you know you can turn to your friend, partner, colleague, parent, sibling and say “Right I need to deal with this, and I’m going to need you to help me.”

      For one moment, think about it from the other person’s view point. When we get to help other people we feel valued, loved, respected and lots of other positive emotions and we get a good dose of positive chemicals setting off in our bodies too.

      Your fear, and your determination to fight it, helped someone else too. Now that’s cool right?

      6. Understand That There Are Some Things Fear Will Never Touch

      I like to find role models in life — people who have faced heroism, history changing moments, war, atrocities, miracles, life saving inventions.

      Not everyone was looking for greatness, however they all found it. And one of my favourite books to date is written about Alistair Urquhart, the forgotten highlander. If this doesn’t get turned into a film in the future, then no man’s story is likely to.

      Alistair went through the most horrific experiences in the 2nd world war. If you think of one of the awful things that happened back then in our world, Alistair went through at least 3 of them! Asked afterwards how did you cope? He talked about how whatever they did to his body, no matter how they starved, tortured, threatened or mocked him, they couldn’t have his mind. In his mind he was free.

      Of all the people’s voices I’ve heard in my head over the years, this is one of those statements that reminds me anything is possible if you have faith and hope.

      Look for the things in life that fear can’t touch. They will create confidence and faith for the future, whatever you face. And they will give you a sense of why being you is awesome.

      Of all the billions of people on this planet, no one will have an answer identical to yours!

      7. Process Your Fears to Carry on with Life

      Being brave is not about sticking your chest out and smiling regardless of what hell you endure. It is about finding a way to emotionally process your fears to be able to keep going.

      I have a tool kit of things I can rely on – tools, strategies, techniques. They include people to hug or talk to, music. hobbies, walks on the beach and even my favourite food. It sounds mad but at the times where I have questioned “how will I get through this?” I’ve found immense joy in doing the most unlikely of thing that makes me smile.

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      It may be a short lived moment of happiness. However, it reminded that nothing stays the same and I can find away.

      One client told me that it was crazy when it felt like their world was falling around their ears to run a bath to the brim (you don’t waste water) get the best bath oils, light too many candles, lock the door and drink a glass of bubbly (champagne is only for special occasions.)

      Did that moment fix the disaster that my clients life felt? No, however it gave them a moment of calm and the brain is far quicker to find solutions, resolve and motivation to keep going when you do that.

      It may feel like madness to do something you love, however it can be a powerful way to help you find solutions to the fears you face in life.

      8. Assume the Worse

      If you read the statement from the client above. Notice how they assumed it was wrong to fill the bath up to the top? How bubbly is only for special occasions?

      Think how naughty they felt to be doing something that was not allowed?

      • Think about what age it may have made them feel?
      • Think about how they feel about champagne?
      • What special moments it’s been a part of in their lives?

      And you can see how the assumptions they made about their “right” to have these things was not healthy.

      When I drag the assumptions out of people’s words for them to see, they are often struck by how negative the words make them feel.

      Don’t assume your words aren’t impacting on you. You can go through fear and actually enjoy the ride when you take the time to understand how you are letting words get to you.

      9. Take a Fear That Feels Insurmountable Right Now.

      If you were to repeat it to me out loud, what would you say?

      Would you have blame on yourself in there? Would you assume others can do it and it’s just you? Would you feel small, unsuccessful, useless, unworthy?

      Usually, when you do this exercise, you are able to spot the untruths that run wild in your head convincing you that you are doomed. And rarely when we are faced with our assumptions is there is a lot of evidence to them.

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      10. You Are Not Defined by Your Fear

      One fear does not define your life – be mindful of that. It is likely to lead you to thinking of all the times you’ve succeeded and bring a moment of calm, confidence and faith back to you.

      11. Go with Fear

      When you learn to go with fear, you could find yourself actually having fun, no seriously – having fun.

      I have a few amazing clients I’m working with right now who would describe themselves as life long worriers, or pessimists. In the past that has served them well, enabling them to keep safe, steer clear of risks and even develop strategies in the event of disasters. However, now they find it’s becoming hard to break the cycle and they really want to because it’s holding them back.

      Notice how they’ve found their hidden fears and want to face them?

      One client said “I knew this was going to be tough, and I knew I couldn’t fight it alone and I knew you would be the one to help me.” Before I sat an incredibly successful, confident, capable business owner with a family and a social life to die for.

      However, I’ve learned that the most successful looking lives can hide things that impact on life, success, love, happiness and business.

      We didn’t start with the fear that they felt was holding them back, we broke the fear down, and found lots of little obstacles that had been deemed as “life” and “unchangeable” and “that’s just the way it is” by developing awareness to the little steps on the road to their obstacles to happiness and success they were able to tackle them in a different way.

      12. Discover Great Skills in Your Scary Moments

      And in that clients words “I came here to work with you to grow my company, and my own personal skills. I didn’t expect to get the children to be cleaning up after themselves and my partner being more attentive! It all feels a little magic.”

      The moral is that out of the scariest of moments, we can find great skills we didn’t know we had. Find better, healthier, happier ways to live and find ways to enjoy life more. (And have a bit of magic!)

      What a great place to be in ready for the next fear that thinks it’s going to get in the way of you, right?

      13. Own Your Fear

      Think back over these tips and come up with at least one example for each one. Write them down. Put them on your phone. Turn them into a piece of art. Turn them into a poem. Frame them. Go for a fast walk across the fields, beach, down town and repeat these things in your head to the sound of your feet on the ground.

      We rarely take the time to appreciate how far we have come, how much we can achieve or what we are capable of – by really owning the tips in this article you will have given your brain a big fat dose of “Damn right I can do this!” and the motivation and accountability to say “Let’s find a way” through any fear.

      You can’t help but feel good when you see that can you? And fear doesn’t stand a chance, does it?

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