Taekwondo Instructor Telling A Boy “It’s OK To Cry” Has Touched Millions Of People

Taekwondo Instructor Telling A Boy “It’s OK To Cry” Has Touched Millions Of People

How many times have you heard the saying “Boys don’t cry”? Probably too many. Boys (and men) are expected to be tough when they face challenges. They are forced to suck up their emotion and are often afraid to show how they’re feeling. This notion is wrong, but one Taekwondo instructor has the perfect response.

Why Are You Crying?

    Noticing his student was crying, he questioned what his student was upset about. The student proceded to tell him it hurts to punch through the wood with his left hand.


    So I Don’t Mind You Crying

      I Cry Too


        He then let the student know that it’s okay to cry and that he cries too.

        And It’s Good To Cry


          So You Can Work Through That Emotion


            He reminds his student it’s good to cry; that crying helps you get through emotions. This is exactly what we should be telling boys everywhere. They should not be told to hold back their tears. They should not be afraid that someone is going to bully them for showing raw emotion.

            And It’s Going To Take Tears

              And Your Sweat (Diligence) To Break Through It


                The instructor then lets the boy know it’s going to take tears (as well as sweat and diligence) to get through this challenge.


                This lesson goes far beyond this challenge, however. I believe the instructor taught the young boy a very valuable lesson, that hopefully the boy will remember forever: It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel challenged. It’s okay to try over and over, no matter how much it hurts you.

                  Because of the instructor’s lesson, the young boy became much more confident and punched through the wood. Way to go, kiddo.


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                  20 Healthy and Tasty Family Meals Ideas to Try This Week

                  20 Healthy and Tasty Family Meals Ideas to Try This Week

                  It’s 5 p.m., and you’re exhausted. The kids are hungry, but no one knows what they want to eat for dinner. With very little energy, you force yourself into the kitchen and look through every cabinet, hoping for a spark of inspiration. Eventually, you toss a few ingredients together and hope for the best. It won’t win any prizes and falls short of what you consider “healthy,” but it fills everyone’s stomachs.

                  Feeding a family can be stressful, even tiresome. It’s hard to find the energy and creativity needed to cook healthy but simple family meals. It’s easy to fall into the “anything goes” mentality. When you’ve got a busy lifestyle, meals become more about survival and less about nutrition.

                  Here are 20 quick and healthy—but tasty—recipes followed by tips on making these family meals more nutritious. These recipes can help you have a healthy family meal on the table in an hour or less. Remember, swap ingredients out if someone in your family has dietary restrictions or if you avoid certain foods.

                  1. Mini Meatloaves With Green Beans and Potatoes

                    These miniature meatloaves come together quickly and cook faster, too. You can have a family favorite on the table, paired with seasoned potatoes and fresh green beans, in just 40 minutes.

                    Get the recipe here.

                    2. One-Pan Chicken Parmesan Pasta

                      This classic will taste like you spent hours cooking, but the preparation and clean-up couldn’t be quicker. One-pot cooking makes this dish practical, while fresh basil, parmesan, and garlic add a special touch.

                      To try this recipe, go here.

                      3. Sheet-Pan Chicken Fajitas

                        Skip the restaurant and make fajitas at home. The ingredients go on one sheet pan, meaning you won’t spend all night cleaning. Zesty chicken, bell peppers, and warm tortillas can be on the table in 40 minutes. Add sour cream, salsa, guacamole, lettuce, diced tomato, and any other favorite toppings.

                        Check out the recipe here.

                        4. Philly Cheese Steak Stuffed Peppers

                          Lose the carbs but keep the cheesesteak flavors with this quick family meal. Kids will love the pepper “bowls,” and you’ll love giving them a meal full of veggies and protein to keep them healthy.


                          Try it tonight. Get the recipe here.

                          5. Chipotle Chicken Quinoa Burrito Bowl

                            This veggie-packed meal adds an extra boost by using the superfood quinoa instead of rice. Flavorful yet simple, this meal makes an excellent packable lunch or dinner for your whole family.

                            Find the recipe here.

                            6. Spinach and Chicken Skillet With Lemon and Parmesan

                              The complex flavors of lemon and parmesan come together nicely in this gourmet-like dish, but you don’t have to exert the effort or spend as much as a gourmet meal.

                              Get the recipe for this dish here.

                              7. Oven-Fried Fish and Chips

                                Fish and chips can also sometimes be healthy as evident in this oven-fried version. You won’t miss the calories with this favorite family meal.

                                You can find the recipe here.

                                8. Pineapple-Teriyaki Chicken

                                  Tangy pineapple and sweet teriyaki will have everyone coming back for seconds. Frozen vegetables make this simple family dish even easier to make and enjoy.

                                  Find the recipe here.

                                  9. Mozzarella, Basil, and Zucchini Frittata


                                    This egg dish is usually served for breakfast, but a frittata can make a fantastic dinner, too. High in protein, packed with zucchini, and delicious, there’s no reason to wait until morning.

                                    Try it tonight. Get the recipe here.

                                    10. Chicken and Sweet Potato Grill Packets

                                      Skip the pans and throw everything into foil with this fun family recipe. Kids will love loading ingredients into their pack, and you’ll love its versatility and simplicity.

                                      The recipe for this meal can be found here.

                                      11. Chicken and Spanish “Rice”

                                        Cauliflower takes the place of rice in this low-carb family meal, but it’s so flavorful and filling, no one will miss it.

                                        Find the recipe here.

                                        12. Honey Chicken Stir Fry

                                          This honey chicken stir fry is the healthier version of a restaurant favorite that can be served up quicker than you can order it.

                                          Find the recipe here.

                                          13. Chicken Skewers With Tzatziki

                                            Greek chicken and tzatziki sauce will have you yearning for the Mediterranean, but you can make this recipe at home for your family to enjoy.

                                            This easy recipe can be found here.


                                            14. Healthy Walking Tacos

                                              Traditional walking tacos are a party favorite, but they’re not usually healthy. However, this recipe keeps it fun while making it more nutritious.

                                              Find out how to make it here.

                                              15. Slow-Cooker Chicken Noodle Soup

                                                This classic comfort meal can be ready when you walk in the door. All you have to do is add noodles, and it’s ready to serve.

                                                The recipe can be found here.

                                                16. Cheesy Chicken and Rice Casserole

                                                  This usually takes a little over an hour, but the preparation time is only 30 minutes. You’ll love how easy it is, and the cheesy rice is sure to please.

                                                  Find the recipe here.

                                                  17. Crockpot Rotisserie-Style Chicken

                                                    Skip the checkout line and have a rotisserie-style chicken ready at home. A staple in many quick meals, you might find this family meal recipe among your most-used.

                                                    Get the recipe for this flavorful chicken here.

                                                    18. Santa Monica Street Tacos

                                                      Named after a simple taco found on the streets of California, you’ll be surprised that something with only a few ingredients can be so flavorful. Your kids will surely enjoy them.


                                                      Find the recipe here.

                                                      19. Pizza Pasta Salad

                                                        Enjoy the flavor of pizza without the hassle of making a crust. Use a fun pasta shape to make this even more appealing to your family, especially kids.

                                                        Try it tonight. Get the recipe here.

                                                        20. Slow-Cooker Lasagna Soup

                                                          Everyone loves lasagna, but it can be time-consuming and messy to make. However, this soup version has the taste you want but with the ease of a crockpot.

                                                          Get the recipe here.

                                                          Bonus: 3 Simple Ways to Make Meals Healthier

                                                          Eating healthy doesn’t have to take a lot of money, time, or thought. Any improvements are a big step in the right direction.

                                                          Here are three easy ways you can make meals healthier for your family.

                                                          1. Lose the Sugar

                                                          Are you looking to improve your health? Cut processed sugars from your diet—the more, the better, and that includes artificial sweeteners.[1] Why? Studies show that sugar increases the risks for weight gain, heart disease, acne, type-2 diabetes, depression, cancer, fatty liver disease, cellular aging, and low energy levels.[2]

                                                          2. Avoid Highly Processed Foods

                                                          Many processed foods are fine to eat. Even fresh fruit and vegetables go through some processing to stay fresh longer. However, highly processed foods have added salt, sweeteners, saturated fats, preservatives, and artificial colors. These types of food have been linked to heart disease, diabetes, and high blood pressure.[3]

                                                          3. Replace Simple Carbs for Complex Carbs

                                                          Lowering daily carbs can do wonders for your health. Studies show that low-carb diets lead to lower insulin levels, lower bad cholesterol levels, visceral fat loss, weight loss, reduced appetite, and can be therapeutic for many brain disorders.[4]

                                                          When eating carbs, choose complex carbs over simple carbs. Simple carbs, such as white flour, rice, and degermed cornmeal, lack nutrients and spike blood sugar levels. Complex carbs, such as sweet potato, brown rice, and oats, are usually more nutritious and aren’t digested as quickly, giving more sustained energy and less of an insulin spike.[5]

                                                          Enjoy Family Meals With Less Stress!

                                                          Dinner can be enjoyable again now that you’re armed with simple and nutritious recipes for your family. These healthy and tasty family meal recipes can help you feel even better about what you serve. Best of all, you’ll have the extra time and energy you saved from cooking and spend more time with your family.


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