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How To Have A Memorable Vacation As A Couple.

How To Have A Memorable Vacation As A Couple.

Many couples believe they’re perfect for each other, they move in together or get married too soon and regret their decisions fast enough.

How do you know if your partner is the right person? They say traveling together is the best way to understand one another. A memorable vacation strengthens any relationship.

1. Be Excited and Don’t Hold Back On Ideas

When I’m planning for my annual vacation, I’m as excited as I’m on Christmas morning. A month or sometimes two months before our vacation, we each have a list of countries we want to go to. Though finances often come in between, we always set our goals and work towards it. Our schedules are tight, but we always take the weekends to plan our vacations. Excitement and ideas is what gets us to look forward to our trip and gives us a sense of hope.

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Some may say that excitement is overrated or even hold themselves back from being excited, but this rush of endorphins and adrenaline is what takes your relationship to the next level. Understanding and working together becomes the fun part of the whole planning.

How do you do it? Never hold back on your ideas. Always sit and do your research together, this will create a sense of communication and trust. This by itself becomes the start of an amazing vacation.

I think we all familiar with the phrase, “As Hardworking as an Otter.” Sometimes everyone needs a break, even otters take breaks during winters.

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2. Always Choose Places of Mutual Interest

Sometimes during planning it’s hard to come to a decision. As individuals, we all have our opinions and sometimes it’s just hard to accept a NO. The world is a big place and choosing one country to explore can be difficult hence, always decide on what would you want to do during your vacations.

Every couple has their own style and rhythm, some prefer a relaxed vacation while others prefer adventure. My partner is a precise planner, I’m a spontaneous adventurer and often times this causes a huge clash during planning. Hence we divide our holidays: the first 2 weeks for adventure and the last two weeks for historic explorations and relaxation.

This form of communication allows us to understand each other and choose interesting places. The more exotic the places are, the more fun we have trying to communicate the languages and experience new food. The more interesting stories you have together, the closer your bond would be and your relationship would transcend towards a harmonious connection.

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3.Being Organized Is an Important Quality

As a person who’s generally the least organized, I can emphasize on its importance. Being a creative it’s hard to constantly be organized because my brain is drawing a complicated map of its own, hence whilst traveling my partner constantly struggles with my tardiness. Sometimes this leads to huge arguments and ruins our day. Such negativity and arguments lead to unnecessary tension and makes it harder to keep a harmonious relationship.

We all learn our lessons, and that’s the reason why I constantly emphasize on myself in being organized. I tend to keep things categorized, filed and scheduled and often times set tons of reminders to not create chaos. Hence, if one of you finds it hard to be organized, try working together to fix the problem. You complement each other with your best and worst qualities, that’s what makes your relationship unique.

4. Explore The New Country

Flying or taking a train to a new land can be exciting, it’s made even better when you’re traveling with your partner. Try embracing every moment, from the terrible flight food to the most intense train ride, often times this becomes your best memory.

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In a new country, language may become a huge hurdle especially if the locals aren’t familiar with English. However, this is the time where you have to work as a team, navigating using sign language and moving your way across Google Translate. Sometimes reading signboards and getting lost may seem like a frequent problem, however, try to enjoy being lost and find a random restaurant which serves strange local food. Explore to the best and enjoy every moment of a new country. Remember this will change your perspective as well as your partner’s towards your relationship.

In a nutshell, every relationship is unique. We all thrive under the same basic beliefs which are understanding, trust, and teamwork. If you’re able to attain this, you can create a blissful version of Romeo and Juliet in your own life.

Featured photo credit: Google Images via fluentin3months.com

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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