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Are Times Tough? Hone These 3 Virtues To Make You Tougher

Are Times Tough? Hone These 3 Virtues To Make You Tougher

Whether you like it or not, whether you have accepted it or not, the fact still remains that all actions have consequences. In some scenarios, the consequence may be a positive one. In others, the consequences come as a form of punishment or repercussions for careless, reckless, and ignorant behavior. Regardless of whatever the case may be, I am not here to judge or condemn. The intention of this article is to get you to focus on specific attributes that will help guide you through your toughest of times. Let me start off by admitting that I have put myself in more than my fair share of precarious positions in the past. Thankfully, I’ve been able to make it out of every single one of them alive. Now, it is my duty to share with you the 3 virtues that helped me endure my trying times. These virtues have helped me get through every single one of my bad days and will continue to get me through any rough patches I may stumble across. Hone these 3 virtues and evolve into the strongest version of yourself.

1. Patience

I’m sure you’ve heard the old adage that patience is a virtue. Not only is it a virtue, it is one of the most important virtues one can possess. Especially in times of crisis. Demonstrating patience can be the difference between getting caught in the middle of the storm or seeking refuge and restrategizing until the storm blows over. Circumstances may not be ideal, they may even be catastrophic. But if you’ve already done all that you can do, the only thing left to do is to trust your survival instincts and patiently wait as the world revolves around you. Don’t rush into making decisions. Let thing’s play themselves out. When opportunity presents itself to you, seize the moment!

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2. Timing

Patience and timing go hand-in-hand with one another. By demonstrating good patience, opportunity will eventually arise. Once that opportunity does arise, it is solely your responsibility to recognize and take advantage of it. That is when timing truly becomes everything. We, as humans, should always be honing this virtue. Timing can virtually affect every aspect of your life, from relationships, to health, to work, to finances, to whatever you can name; timing impacts it. Timing is often overlooked and some embrace tardiness as almost a social norm. Let me ask you this; how trustworthy is the person that is constantly late, says or does inappropriate things at inappropriate times, or doesn’t know when to seal the deal?

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3. Confidence

Confidence is widely known as the most attractive quality one can possess. Why is that? Because confidence is believing in yourself. Confidence is trusting yourself. There is nothing more appealing than someone who believes in themselves. When you exude confidence, who’s going to doubt your abilities? Having the confidence in knowing that everything will be alright as opposed to casting doubt can literally help change the way your body performs. Studies have proven that self-confidence directly correlates with performance. Instead of worrying and doubting your abilities, remember that you’ve made it through 100% of your bad days. Know that you will be able to handle whatever is coming your way. Even if the situation is out of your control, have confidence that things will eventually work out. Have confidence in your faith. Have confidence in humanity. Regardless of what happens, don’t lose confidence. Having confidence will give you strength and courage in times where it may be lacking.

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Be The Best Version Of Yourself

Unfortunately, pain and suffering will always be a part of life. The good news is that since information is available at our fingertips, new treatments and techniques to manage pain and suffering will always surface. Honing these three virtues will not guarantee invincibility (nothing is guaranteed, except death and taxes). But when you develop and strengthen these virtues—which every human possesses– your perception will change, emotions will be easier to manage, and you will suffer less anxiety. I could almost guarantee that developing these three virtues would be life changing, but you know my stance on guarantees. Instead of taking my word for it, why don’t you try it for yourself? You have nothing to lose and the world to gain!

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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