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7 Types Of Friends That Are Worth Spending Time With

7 Types Of Friends That Are Worth Spending Time With

Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves. Everyone needs a best friend who can make us laugh until we cry.

People also all need someone who we can call after a tough day, as well as someone who is brutally honest – and someone at work who can make the whole office a happier place. Most people need lots of types of friends, who can support them and help them in totally different ways. When they have lots of different friendships, they can express more of themselves.

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Here are 7 types of friends that everyone should have for a happy and fulfilling life.

1. The Crazy Friend

The crazy friend is the person who constantly pushes you out of your comfort zone. They challenge you as a person, and together you do things that you would never do alone. This friend encourages you to experience new things, and because of them, you have become a more fearless person. Whether they suggest skydiving or a night of drinking, you say yes because you know it’s going to be an awesome time.

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2. The Honest Friend

Sometimes you have to hear the truth, even if it is harsh. If you are in a negative relationship or slacking at work, some friends won’t say anything; they will just let you get on with your life. However, the honest friend will always tell you the truth, which is refreshing and constructive. Although it may be hard to hear at the time, you know that they always have your back and want you to be happy.

3. The Long-Term Friend

The long-term friend has known you for years, and sometimes it seems like they know you better than you know yourself. They know all about your flaws and past mistakes, but they don’t judge you and they love you unconditionally. You know that this friendship is for life, and you love having someone in your life that you can always rely on.

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4. The Gossipy Friend

After a drama-filled day, you are feeling stressed and annoyed. Someone has got on your nerves, and you need to vent. This is when the gossipy friend comes in handy; they are always happy to listen to your problems, and when you have finished ranting, they always have advice or a joke to improve your mood. After you speak to them, you feel like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders.

5. The Work Friend

If you have a full-time job, you spend a lot of your waking hours at work, so it is important to have a work friend who can make you smile during the day. Work can be stressful and difficult, but this friend is always willing to listen and have a chat. You can relate to each other as you have similar careers, and they are the only person who truly understands your work struggles.

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6. The Loyal Friend

This is the friend who you can tell all of your secrets to, and you know that they will never tell anyone else. They don’t judge you, and they will always be there for you. You trust them implicitly, and you know that they are a friend for life.

7. The Friend You Admire

This is a friend who you look up to and admire. They inspire you, and they encourage you to be the best version of yourself. When you are with them you feel like a better person, and they are a mentor to you. You hope to follow in their footsteps because they have a successful and happy life. It is important to have a friend like this as they push you forward in life and help you to reach your goals.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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