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7 Types Of Friends That Are Worth Spending Time With

7 Types Of Friends That Are Worth Spending Time With

Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves. Everyone needs a best friend who can make us laugh until we cry.

People also all need someone who we can call after a tough day, as well as someone who is brutally honest – and someone at work who can make the whole office a happier place. Most people need lots of types of friends, who can support them and help them in totally different ways. When they have lots of different friendships, they can express more of themselves.

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Here are 7 types of friends that everyone should have for a happy and fulfilling life.

1. The Crazy Friend

The crazy friend is the person who constantly pushes you out of your comfort zone. They challenge you as a person, and together you do things that you would never do alone. This friend encourages you to experience new things, and because of them, you have become a more fearless person. Whether they suggest skydiving or a night of drinking, you say yes because you know it’s going to be an awesome time.

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2. The Honest Friend

Sometimes you have to hear the truth, even if it is harsh. If you are in a negative relationship or slacking at work, some friends won’t say anything; they will just let you get on with your life. However, the honest friend will always tell you the truth, which is refreshing and constructive. Although it may be hard to hear at the time, you know that they always have your back and want you to be happy.

3. The Long-Term Friend

The long-term friend has known you for years, and sometimes it seems like they know you better than you know yourself. They know all about your flaws and past mistakes, but they don’t judge you and they love you unconditionally. You know that this friendship is for life, and you love having someone in your life that you can always rely on.

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4. The Gossipy Friend

After a drama-filled day, you are feeling stressed and annoyed. Someone has got on your nerves, and you need to vent. This is when the gossipy friend comes in handy; they are always happy to listen to your problems, and when you have finished ranting, they always have advice or a joke to improve your mood. After you speak to them, you feel like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders.

5. The Work Friend

If you have a full-time job, you spend a lot of your waking hours at work, so it is important to have a work friend who can make you smile during the day. Work can be stressful and difficult, but this friend is always willing to listen and have a chat. You can relate to each other as you have similar careers, and they are the only person who truly understands your work struggles.

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6. The Loyal Friend

This is the friend who you can tell all of your secrets to, and you know that they will never tell anyone else. They don’t judge you, and they will always be there for you. You trust them implicitly, and you know that they are a friend for life.

7. The Friend You Admire

This is a friend who you look up to and admire. They inspire you, and they encourage you to be the best version of yourself. When you are with them you feel like a better person, and they are a mentor to you. You hope to follow in their footsteps because they have a successful and happy life. It is important to have a friend like this as they push you forward in life and help you to reach your goals.

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Last Updated on July 3, 2020

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

In today’s world, true peace must come from within us and our own actions. Here are 30 small things you can do on a regular basis to increase your overall sense of harmony, peace, and well-being:

1. Don’t go to every fight you’re invited to

Particularly when you’re around those who thrive on chaos, be willing to decline the invitation to join in on the drama.

2. Focus on your breath

Throughout the day, stop to take a few deep breaths. Keep stress at bay with techniques such as “square breathing.” Breathe in for four counts, hold for four counts, then out for four counts, and hold again for four counts. Repeat this cycle four times.

3. Get organized and purge old items

A cluttered space often creates a cluttered spirit. Take the time to get rid of anything you haven’t used in a year and invest in organizational systems that help you sustain a level of neatness.

4. Stop yourself from being judgmental

Whenever you are tempted to have an opinion about someone else’s life, check your intentions. Judging others creates and promotes negative energy.

5. Say ‘thank you’ early and often

Start and end each day with an attitude of gratitude. Look for opportunities in your daily routine and interactions to express appreciation.

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6. Smile more

Even if you have to “fake it until you make it,” there are many scientific benefits of smiling and laughing. Also, pay attention to your facial expression when you are doing neutral activities such as driving and walking. Turn that frown upside down!

7. Don’t worry about the future

As difficult as this sounds, there is a direct connection between staying in the present and living a more peaceful life. You cannot control the future. As the old proverb goes, “Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it won’t get you anywhere.” Practice gently bringing your thoughts back to the present.

8. Eat real food

The closer the food is to the state from which it came from the earth, the better you will feel in eating it. Choose foods that grew from a plant over food that was made in a plant.

9. Choose being happy over being right

Too often, we sacrifice inner peace in order to make a point. It’s rarely worth it.

10. Keep technology out of the bedroom

Many studies, such as one conducted by Brigham and Women’s Hospital, have connected blue light of electronic devices before bed to adverse sleep and overall health. To make matters worse, many people report that they cannot resist checking email and social media when their cell phone is in reach of their bed, regardless of the time.

11. Make use of filtering features on social media

You may not want to “unfriend” someone completely, however you can choose whether you want to follow their posts and/or the sources of information that they share.

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12. Get comfortable with silence

When you picture someone who is the ultimate state of peace, typically they aren’t talking.

13. Listen to understand, not to respond

So often in conversations, we use our ears to give us cues about when it is our turn to say what we want to say. Practice active listening, ask questions, process, then speak.

14. Put your troubles in a bubble

Whenever you start to feel anxious, visualize the situation being wrapped in a bubble and then picture that sphere floating away.

15. Speak more slowly

Often a lack of peace manifests itself in fast or clipped speech. Take a breath, slow down, and let your thoughtful consideration drive your words.

16. Don’t procrastinate

Nothing adds stress to our lives like waiting until the last minute.

17. Buy a coloring book

Mandala coloring books for adults are becoming more popular because of their connection to creating inner peace.

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18. Prioritize yourself

You are the only person who you are guaranteed to live with 24 hours a day for the rest of your life.

19. Forgive others

Holding a grudge is hurting you exponentially more than anyone else. Let it go.

20. Check your expectations

Presumption often leads to drama. Remember the old saying, “Expectations are premeditated resentments.”

21. Engage in active play

Let your inner child come out and have some fun. Jump, dance, play, and pretend!

22. Stop criticizing yourself

The world is a hard enough place with more than enough critics. Your life is not served well by being one of them.

23. Focus your energy and attention on what you want

Thoughts, words, and actions all create energy. Energy attracts like energy. Put out what you want to get back.

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24. Assign yourself “complaint free” days.

Make a conscious decision not to complain about anything for a whole day. It might be harder than you think and the awareness will stick with you.

25. Surround yourself with people you truly enjoy being in the company of

Personalities tend to be contagious, and not everyone’s is worth catching. Be judicious in your choices.

26. Manage your money

Financial concerns rank top on the list of what causes people stress. Take the time each month to do a budget, calculate what you actually spend and sanity check that against the money you have coming in.

27. Stop trying to control everything

Not only is your inner control freak sabotaging your sense of peace, it is also likely getting in the way of external relationships as well.

28. Practice affirmations

Repeat positive phrases that depict the life and qualities you want to attract. It may not come naturally to you, but it works.

29. Get up before sunrise

Personally witnessing the dawn brings a unique sense of awe and appreciation for life.

30. Be yourself

Nothing creates more inner discord than trying to be something other than who we really are. Authenticity breeds happiness.

Featured photo credit: man watching sunrise via stokpic.com

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