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5 Reasons It Pays To Trust Your Gut

5 Reasons It Pays To Trust Your Gut

Decision-making is a fundamental part of life and of human experience. We make and take decisions, big and small, every single day. But what’s the best way to make decisions – using facts, experience and data, or trusting your gut?

It’s an age-old question, one we’ve never really been able to answer. That quirky urge, the unusual tingle, an angel on your shoulder, that little voice in your head – these are all signs of gut feeling. But should we rely on these little signs to navigate our way through this thing called life?

Here are 5 reasons you should trust in your gut when you make decisions, whether they’re big, life-changing ones like buying a house, getting married or on a bit smaller in scale, like what to have for breakfast or what to wear on a night out.

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1. Trusting your gut could get you ahead at work

It comes as no wonder that many of the most well-known business minds, from Richard Branson to Steve Jobs, have vouched for the power of instinctive gut thinking for make decisions. Jobs himself famously said:

“You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.”

Looking to your gut rather than your brain could well help you in your career. This infographic from gaming experts 888 Casino shows that intuitive decision-making can be effective as much as 90% of the time. 62% of business executives say they rely on gut thinking to help them make key decisions

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2. It could help you spot a liar

Want to yell: ‘Liar, liar pants on fire!’ and be sure of it? Trust your gut. Research has found gut instinct is better than our conscious minds when it comes to spotting fibbers. The study found, perhaps surprisingly, that instinctive, automatic assumptions could well be more helpful when spotting truth-avoiders.

3. It could help you sort the wheat from the chaff

It seems first impressions really do count. It might be possible, using gut instinct, to weigh up whether a person is a good egg or not, in a matter of seconds – 10 to be precise, according to social psychologist David Myers, who wrote the book ‘Intuition: Its Powers and Perils.’ His book argues that early humans who could quickly detect whether a stranger was friend or foe were more likely to survive.

“If you don’t trust somebody, even if it turns out to be inaccurate, it is something to pay attention to,” intuitive psychiatrist Judith Orloff told Care2.com. “If you’re walking down the street at night and you get the feeling ‘stay away from that person,’ just cross the street.”

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4. Gut instinct could help you spot your soulmate

Sometimes you meet someone and they literally take your breath away. When it comes to relationships, instinctive intuition could well be the best watermark for figuring out if the person you’ve just met is someone you’re going to spend the rest of your life with…or not. The Casino infographic shows that, with 80% accuracy, it takes just 3 minutes to work out whether a couple will stick together or end up getting divorced. So when it comes to soulmates and spirit animals, trust your gut.

5. Intuition could guide you through life

You might be familiar with the book ‘The Dice Man’, which is about a psychiatrist who decides to make his life decisions based on the casting of dice. In the end this gets him into all manner of trouble. He would have been better off trusting his gut, because in general, making decisions on gut instinct alone can help you make the right call up to 90% of the time.

It really does pay to trust your gut.

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Last Updated on March 31, 2020

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How often do you find yourself procrastinating? Do you wish you could procrastinate less? We all know how debilitating procrastination can make us feel, and it seems to be a challenge we all share. Procrastination is one of the biggest hindrances to moving forward and doing the things that we want to in life.

There are many reasons why you might be procrastinating, and sometimes, it is really difficult to pinpoint why. You might be procrastinating because of something related to the past, present, or future (they are all intertwined), or it could be as simple as biological factors. Whatever the reason, most of us follow a cycle when we procrastinate, from the moment we decide to do something to actually getting it done, or in this case, not getting it done.

The Vicious Procrastination Cycle

For some reason, it helps to understand that we all go through the same thing, even though we often feel like the only person in the world who struggles with this. Do you resonate with the cycle below?

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it!

2. Apprehension Starts to Come Up

The beginning stages of optimism are starting to fade. There is still time, but you haven’t done anything yet, and you start to feel uneasy. You realize that you actually have to do something to get it done, and that good intentions are not enough.

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3. Still No Action

More time has passed. You still haven’t taken any action and probably have a lot of excuses why. You start to panic a little and wish you had started sooner. Your panic starts to turn into frustration and perhaps even irritability.

4. Flicker of Hope Left

You can still make it; there is a little time left and you ponder how you are going to get it done. The rush you get from leaving your task until the last minute gives you a flicker of hope. There is still time; you can do this!

5. Fading Quickly

Your hope starts to quickly fade as you try desperately to understand why you just can’t do this. You may feel desperate and have thoughts like, “What is wrong with me?” and “Why do I ALWAYS do this?” You feel discouraged, or perhaps angry and resentful at yourself.

6. Vow to Yourself

Once the feeling of anger or disappointment disappears, you most likely swear to yourself that this will never happen again; that this was the last time and next time will be different.

Does this sound like you? Is the next time different? I understand the devastating effect that procrastination has on many lives, and for some, it is a really serious problem. You also have, on the other hand, those who procrastinate but it doesn’t affect them in any way. You know whether it is affecting you or not and whether it undermines your results.

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How to Break the Procrastination Cycle

Unless you break the cycle, you will keep reinforcing it!

To break the cycle, you need to change the sequence of events. Here is my suggestion on how you can effectively break the vicious cycle you are in!

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it! The first stage is always the same.

2. Plan

Thinking alone will not help; you need to plan your actions. I always put my deadlines one or two days in advance because you know Murphy’s Law! Take into consideration everything that you need to do, how long it will take you, and what you will need to get it done, then plan the individual steps.

3. Resistance

Just because you planned doesn’t mean that this time is guaranteed to be different. You will most likely still feel the resistance so expect this. This stage is key to identifying why you are procrastinating, so when you feel the resistance, try to identify it immediately.

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What is causing you to hesitate in this moment? What do you feel?  Write them down if it helps.

4. Confront Those Feelings

Once you have identified what could possibly be holding you back, for example, fear of failure, lack of motivation, etc. You need to work on lessening the resistance.

Ask yourself, “What do I need to do to move forward? What would make it easier?” If you find that you fear something, overcoming that fear is not something that will happen overnight — keep this in mind.

5. Put Results Before Comfort

You need to keep moving forward and put results before comfort. Take action, even if it is only for 10 minutes. The key is to break the cycle and not reinforce it. You have more control that you think.

6. Repeat

Repeat steps 3-5 until you achieve what you first set out to do.

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Final Thoughts

Change doesn’t happen overnight, and if you have some deeper underlying reasons why you procrastinate, it may take longer to finally break the cycle.

If procrastination is holding you back in life, it is better to deal with it now than to deal with the negative consequences later on. It is not a question of comfort anymore; it is a question of results. What is more important to you?

Learn more about how to stop procrastinating here: What Is Procrastination and How to Stop It (The Complete Guide)

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