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6 Things To Know Before Hiring Online Counselling Services

6 Things To Know Before Hiring Online Counselling Services

If you read the statistics on depression and unhappiness, you will find them really shocking. What is more shocking is the fact that most people never consider taking help either as counselling or medications to treat this potentially life threatening condition. A 2015 statistics published in Huffington Post suggests that globally, there are almost 350 Million people  who are affected by some form of depression and 11% of the population have depression disorder by the time people reach the age of 18.

To effectively deal with the depression and its symptoms, people resort to different practices: either they use medications, start meditation practices or take on individual counselling. Counselling however, can either be delivered through personal one to one coaching sessions or even through online sessions.

If you wish to explore online counselling services and want to hire an online coach, here is what you need to know:

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You need to search and find credible coaches and experts

Online world is full of fake experts- people with fake credentials can pose themselves as expert counsellors and coaches. You need to find credible and professional coaches who carry good repute and word-of-mouth. There are many online sources or directories where you can find local as well as international online counsellors.

You can even find coaches through coachme app which is now considered as one of the leading sources of online coaches offering services in different segments. Angie’s list can also be a great source for you to find some really good professionals in your local area or online. A quick search on yellow pages or even yelp can help you a great extent in this regard. Yelp is also good in the sense you can find professionals from other international cities also to whom you can contact also for Skype sessions.

Pricing of good counsellors will often be same

Finding an online coach can be great time saving activity but it may not save you cost when it comes to doing therapy sessions with well-known and qualified persons. You need to be sure about the cost and negotiate if you can, before you pay online. A call to the office of the counsellor may do wonders for you, before booking an online session. If you are seeking help through mutual exchange of emails (one of the cheapest methods of securing online help from a professional counsellor than it may cost you around $25 to $125 per email exchange. Normally, therapists will charge you on per minute or per hour basis also.

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Buying the right plan

Online booking for a counselling session is not as simple as it looks, there may be different pricing plans available. It is always extremely important that you call the person and understand the pricing plans before opting for any plan.

Normally, the pricing plans are tiered and are quoted on per session basis however; there can be further costs as you opt for per minute or per hour pricing. Your counselor generally knows how long the session will take, but if she is booking you for an unusually big session, it is most probably an attempt to get more money from you – so alway workout the pricing before you book.

Make sure you have the right equipment

To effectively utilise the online training session you need a high speed internet connection and a PC or a Smartphone. Most coaches offer Skype sessions therefore make sure you also have a headphone/earphone ready.

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If you are planning to take sessions through your tab or smartphone, make sure you are sitting somewhere and not running around or doing other stuff while taking the therapy session.

Your counsellor may not give you more time

One of the key reasons as to why counsellors prefer to serve clients online is to increase their client base. High levels of client base however, also means less time given to each client. When booking a professional counsellor, always makes sure she is ready to give you the required amount of time and as per the rates charged.

Always go local

Online counselling is a virtual world and you can encounter many experts at international level, however it is always great if you can find a local expert who is willing to offer you online sessions.

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Therapy sometimes requires one to one interaction in real-time environment, therefore you need to have access to a person who is approachable and local. But what is important is that you should not stop going for online counselling if you can’t find local providers. In most cases, remote providers may be the best option for you.

Finding an online counsellor is easy. The key is to find the one who is professional and offers you value for the money. You need to do your homework before opting for any external help. A quick tip or recommendation from your existing therapist can also do wonders for you.

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Last Updated on March 13, 2019

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

1. Work on the small tasks.

When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

2. Take a break from your work desk.

Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

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3. Upgrade yourself

Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

4. Talk to a friend.

Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

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6. Paint a vision to work towards.

If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

7. Read a book (or blog).

The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

8. Have a quick nap.

If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

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9. Remember why you are doing this.

Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

10. Find some competition.

Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

11. Go exercise.

Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

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Here’re 15 Tips to Restart the Exercise Habit (and How to Keep It).

12. Take a good break.

Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

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