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Two Grandmothers Broke The Tradition And Gave Their Grandkids The Best Wedding Blessing Ever

Two Grandmothers Broke The Tradition And Gave Their Grandkids The Best Wedding Blessing Ever

Grandparents are such amazing people that newlyweds Josh and Maggie Wakefield knew they both wanted their grandmothers to have a big role in their wedding.

Instead of opting for the traditional walk down the aisle as the honorary grandparent and being seated first out of the immediate family members, the Wakefields decided to ask their grandmothers to be flower girls instead. While this duty is usually reserved for little girls, these grandmas rocked this role.

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    Joyce Benedict, 75, Maggie’s grandmother, and Drue Fitzgerald, 74, Josh’ grandmother, proudly strolled down the aisle during their grandchildren’s summer wedding in Pennsylvania in June, fulfilling their duty of scattering white rose petals from the woven basket they shared as they walked. The grandmothers loved the smiles they received from wedding guests, who equally loved seeing the grandmothers in their special wedding spotlight. Joyce and Drue even picked out matching formal dresses to wear while they walked.

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      It only surprised the wedding guests for a moment when they saw the grandparents so involved in the wedding. That’s because the couple visits the grandparents quite frequently, sharing meals and shopping together. Joyce even raised Maggie and her older sister, creating an even tighter bond. Joyce’s husband Ronald Benedict, Sr., Maggie’s grandfather, also walked the bride down the aisle. It meant the world to the newlyweds to have their grandparents as involved in their wedding as they were.

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        In fact, because Maggie’s father died of colon cancer in 2013, the couple wanted to have as many loved ones as they could participating with them on their wedding day. To memorialize her father on her special day, Maggie carried a locket in her bouquet that contained a picture of her father, so it was almost as he if was present, helping walk her down the aisle, too.

        The newlyweds were thrilled to see their grandparents have as much fun as they did at the wedding reception, dancing together and laughing. It was a wonderful wedding and reception for both generations.

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          The Benedicts and Fitzgerald have been shocked at the attention they’ve received in their role with the wedding. They giggle and smile about it still today.

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          What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

          What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

          Some people just seem to float through life with a relentless sense of happiness – through the toughest of times, they’re unfazed and aloof, stopping to smell the roses and drinking out of a glass half full.

          They may not have much to be happy about, but the simplicity behind that fact itself may make them happy.

          It’s all a matter of perspective, conscious effort and self-awareness. Listed below are a number of reasons why some people are always happy.

          1. They Manage Their Expectations

          They’re not crushed when they don’t get what they want – or misled into expecting to get the most out of every situation. They approach every situation pragmatically, hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

          2. They Don’t Set Unrealistic Standards

          Similar to the last point, they don’t live their lives in a constant pursuit towards impossible visions of perfection, only to always find themselves falling short of what they want.

          3. They Don’t Take Anything for Granted

          Happiness rests with feeling fulfilled – those who fail to stop and appreciate what they have every now and again will never experience true fulfillment.

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          4. They’re Not Materialistic

          There are arguing viewpoints on whether or not money can really buy happiness; if it can, then we know from experience that we can never be satisfied because there will always be something newer or better that we want. Who has ever had enough money?

          5. They Don’t Dwell

          They don’t sweat the small things or waste time worrying about things that don’t really matter at the end of the day. They don’t let negative thoughts latch onto them and drain them or distract them. Life’s too short to worry.

          6. They Care About Themselves First

          They’re independent, care for themselves and understand that they must put their needs first in order to accommodate the needs of others.

          They indulge, aim to get what they want, make time for themselves and are extremely self-reliant.

          7. They Enjoy the Little Things

          They stop to smell the roses. They’re accustomed to find serenity when it’s available, to welcome entertainment or a stimulating discussion with a stranger when it crosses their path. They don’t overlook the small things in life that can be just as important.

          8. They Can Adapt

          They’re not afraid of change and they work to make the most out of new circumstances, good or bad. They thrive under pressure, are not overwhelmed easily and always embrace a change of pace.

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          9. They Experiment

          They try new things, experience new flavors and never shy away from something they have yet to experience. They never order twice from the same menu.

          10. They Take Their Time

          They don’t unnecessarily rush through life. They work on their own schedule to the extent that they can and maneuver through life at their own relaxing pace.

          11. They Employ Different Perspectives

          They’re not stuck in one perspective; a loss can result in a new opportunity, hitting rock bottom can mean that there’s no where to go but up.

          12. They Seek to Learn

          Their constant pursuit of knowledge keeps them inspired and interested in life. They cherish information and are on a life-long quest to learn as much as they can.

          13. They Always Have a Plan

          They don’t find themselves drifting without purpose. When something doesn’t go as planned, they have a plan for every letter in the alphabet to fall back on.

          14. They Give Respect to Get It

          They are respectful and, in turn, are seen as respectable; the respect they exude earns them the respect they deserve.

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          15. They Consider Every Opportunity

          They always have their eyes open for a new road, a new avenue worth exploring. They know how to recognize opportune moments and pounce on them to make the most of every situation. Success is inevitable for them.

          16. They Always Seek to Improve

          Perpetual self-improvement is the key towards their ongoing thirst for success. Whatever it is they do, they take pride in getting better and better, from social interactions to mundane tasks. Their pursuit at being the best eventually materializes.

          17. They Don’t Take Life Too Seriously

          They’re not ones to get offended easily over-analyze or complicate matters. They laugh at their own faults and misfortunes.

          18. They Live in the Moment

          They don’t live for tomorrow or dwell on what may have happened yesterday. Every day is a new opportunity, a new chapter. They live in the now, and in doing so, get the most out of every moment.

          You can learn how to do so too: How to Live in the Moment and Stop Worrying About the Past or Future

          19. They Say Yes

          Much more often than they say no. They don’t have to be badgered to go out, don’t shy away from new opportunities or anything that may seem inconvenient.

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          20. They’re Self-Aware

          Most important, they’re wholly aware of themselves. They self-reflect and are conscious of their states of mind. If somethings bothering them, they fix it.

          We’re all susceptible to feeling down every now and again, but we are all equipped with the necessary solutions that just have to be discovered.

          Lack of confidence, inability to feel fulfilled, and susceptibility to stress are all matters that can be controlled through the way we handle our lives and perceive our circumstances.

          Learn about How Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life.

          Final Thoughts

          The main philosophy employed by the happiest includes the idea that life’s simply too short: life’s too short to let things get you down, to take things for granted, to pursue absolute and unrealistic perfection.

          For some, employing these characteristics is a second nature – they do it without knowing. For others, a conscious effort must be put forth every now and again. Self-Awareness is key.

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