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Friends Don’t Let Friends Drive Drunk

Friends Don’t Let Friends Drive Drunk

All too often, we hear of someone who has been injured or killed because they have either been drunk behind the wheel, or they have been in an accident with a drunk driver. Drinking and driving is a leading cause of death in the United States, especially with young people who have not yet learned how to drink responsibly. But, you can help to cut down on the number of drinking and driving incidents, simply by being a good friend. Here are some things you can do.

1. Be Assertive

Sometimes, you just have to come out and ask someone if they really are okay to drive. Often, people will tell you that they are, but other times, they will sit back and take a look at the situation and see that they indeed are too drunk to drive. Don’t be afraid to ask your friends if they are okay to drive.

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2. Get Friends Together

If you can’t talk your friend out of drinking and driving, it is time to gang up on them. Gather other friends together, and get them to help convince your friend that they really are too drunk to drive.

3. Keep Them Drinking

While this may sound strange, if you keep buying drinks, they will stick around long enough for the cab or other ride you have called to arrive. Then, all you have to do is tell them that their ride is there, and they will get home safely without any arguments (most of the time).

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4. Plan For Transportation

If you are hosting a party, plan to have transportation for all of your guests. Let them know in advance, and they can take a taxi, bus, etc. to your place rather than driving. Then, there will be no temptation for them, and they will definitely make it home alive and well.

5. Take Their Keys

“There are times when a person who has been drinking just isn’t going to listen, and will insist that they are sober enough to drive. Take it from me, they are in no place to reason their way out of a DUI,” says Grant Scheiner from the Scheiner Law Group. You know better, and you don’t want anything to happen to them or to anyone else. In cases where someone is being this stubborn, sometimes your only option is to take away their car keys. Often, you can trick them into handing over their keys, simply by asking to borrow their car to go on a beer or pizza run.

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6. Be A Designated Driver

If you are not planning on drinking, you can offer to be a designated driver for everyone you are out with who is. Everyone can have a great time and drink as much as they want, and you will make sure that they all make it home safe and sound.

7. Call Them A Cab

There is usually that one person who drinks way too much at a party, and then proceeds to drive everyone crazy. This is when it is time for them to leave. Instead of letting them drive, make sure that they get home safely by calling a taxi for them. If they don’t have money for a cab, pay for it yourself. It is a small price to pay to keep your friends alive.

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8. Let Them Sleep Over

One of the absolute best ways to keep your friends from drinking and driving is to offer them a place to sleep it off for the night. Let them crash at your place so they can sober up before they drive home. If they argue, offer an incentive, such as a tasty meal that they will want to stay to enjoy.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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