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6 Reasons Traveling With Your Mom Is The Best Experience You’ve Ever Had

6 Reasons Traveling With Your Mom Is The Best Experience You’ve Ever Had

Not everyone realizes how traveling with your mom quickly becomes a cherished life experience. Some may write the whole idea as uncool, but in actual fact, they are missing out big time!

Traveling with your mom is not just for kids, in fact, it becomes the best travel experience as an adult. It’s a completely different feeling to holidaying with a significant others or friends. Having mom at your side more closely resembles traveling with a best friend, except with a whole host of unique benefits.

The scenery and location pale in insignificance to the wealth of emotional situation it creates. Here’s what makes traveling with your mom so exciting!

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1. You Feel Safer Knowing She’s There if Things Go Wrong

While growing up, it’s likely your mom’s protective nature felt more like a bane than a blessing. But that sense of knowing she’ll always have your back never leaves, even into adulthood.

If you’re jetting off around the globe and exploring new foreign cities, this feeling of confidence will broaden your stride. If ever an unsavory character was unlucky enough to cross paths with you, mom always has your back!

Similarly, if things start to go awry, mom always has the answers and offers vital reassurance. Even being lost in foreign lands is not half as bad when you are with your mom.

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2. Mom Always Helps You Appreciate the Smaller Things

As far as travel buddies go, moms are tough to beat. As partners in crime, you’ll end up on little adventures that make the whole experience more special. Even if you get carried away with wine tasting and miss your flight, you’ll notice she always keeps an attitude of gratitude.

Moms have an amazing ability to notice and point out the finer details such as passionate bartenders, intricate architecture or even delicate linen sheets! This subtle mindset shift will immediately rub off on you, making your entire trip more enjoyable.

3. Travelling With Your Mom is Wonderfully Therapeutic

The stresses of daily life may have fuelled disagreements between the two of you, but everything changes when your out on the road. You’re away from the day-to-day and into relaxing environments, wandering the cobbled streets of old forgotten cities or lazing away on the beach.

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Conversations begin to flow almost effortlessly, you’ll notice you both fell more open and honest. If either of you have skeletons in your closet, this is the best time to banish them. You’ll find it far easier to share and understand each other’s grievances. By the end of the trip, your relationship will be stronger than ever.

4. You Gain a Deep Insight into Your Mom’s Real Personality

Back home in the usual family settings everyone naturally gravitates to their designated roles. Yet when it’s just the two of you off traveling, these roles soon dissolve. It’s a liberating experience, not just when conversing but in actions too! If you’re lucky, may see a completely different side of the loved one you call mom.

Apart from the odd embarrassing “mom moments”, you may learn more about the depth of her personality and past. You may be shocked to realize she’s actually pretty damn cool after all! Gaining such a refreshing insight makes it one of the best travel experience you could ask for!

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5. You Share Quality Time and Whimsical Memories

Compared to those manic family gatherings you have at home, time almost seems to slow down when it’s just you and mom traveling together. The mere act of travel and the new experiences has a profound effect on our minds, sharing it with your beloved mom reinforces your bond. The memories you’ll have together will be invaluable.

By breaking away from the norm, both mentally and physically, you’ll introduce an exciting new dynamic between you that lasts a lifetime.

6. It’s a Perfect Way to Express Your Gratitude To Her

Let’s not forget, your mom has done an awesome job in raising you. It’s not always been easy, but thankfully she devoted the time, energy, money and love to get you where you are today.

Upon reflection, many of us feel we should do more to reward our beloved moms. Whether you take her on a relaxing or exciting trip, will be both the best travel experience and a huge token of your gratitude.

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Last Updated on September 16, 2019

How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

You have a deadline looming. However, instead of doing your work, you are fiddling with miscellaneous things like checking email, social media, watching videos, surfing blogs and forums. You know you should be working, but you just don’t feel like doing anything.

We are all familiar with the procrastination phenomenon. When we procrastinate, we squander away our free time and put off important tasks we should be doing them till it’s too late. And when it is indeed too late, we panic and wish we got started earlier.

The chronic procrastinators I know have spent years of their life looped in this cycle. Delaying, putting off things, slacking, hiding from work, facing work only when it’s unavoidable, then repeating this loop all over again. It’s a bad habit that eats us away and prevents us from achieving greater results in life.

Don’t let procrastination take over your life. Here, I will share my personal steps on how to stop procrastinating. These 11 steps will definitely apply to you too:

1. Break Your Work into Little Steps

Part of the reason why we procrastinate is because subconsciously, we find the work too overwhelming for us. Break it down into little parts, then focus on one part at the time. If you still procrastinate on the task after breaking it down, then break it down even further. Soon, your task will be so simple that you will be thinking “gee, this is so simple that I might as well just do it now!”.

For example, I’m currently writing a new book (on How to achieve anything in life). Book writing at its full scale is an enormous project and can be overwhelming. However, when I break it down into phases such as –

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  • (1) Research
  • (2) Deciding the topic
  • (3) Creating the outline
  • (4) Drafting the content
  • (5) Writing Chapters #1 to #10,
  • (6) Revision
  • (7) etc.

Suddenly it seems very manageable. What I do then is to focus on the immediate phase and get it done to my best ability, without thinking about the other phases. When it’s done, I move on to the next.

2. Change Your Environment

Different environments have different impact on our productivity. Look at your work desk and your room. Do they make you want to work or do they make you want to snuggle and sleep? If it’s the latter, you should look into changing your workspace.

One thing to note is that an environment that makes us feel inspired before may lose its effect after a period of time. If that’s the case, then it’s time to change things around. Refer to Steps #2 and #3 of 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity, which talks about revamping your environment and workspace.

3. Create a Detailed Timeline with Specific Deadlines

Having just 1 deadline for your work is like an invitation to procrastinate. That’s because we get the impression that we have time and keep pushing everything back, until it’s too late.

Break down your project (see tip #1), then create an overall timeline with specific deadlines for each small task. This way, you know you have to finish each task by a certain date. Your timelines must be robust, too – i.e. if you don’t finish this by today, it’s going to jeopardize everything else you have planned after that. This way it creates the urgency to act.

My goals are broken down into monthly, weekly, right down to the daily task lists, and the list is a call to action that I must accomplish this by the specified date, else my goals will be put off.

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Here’re more tips on setting deadlines: 22 Tips for Effective Deadlines

4. Eliminate Your Procrastination Pit-Stops

If you are procrastinating a little too much, maybe that’s because you make it easy to procrastinate.

Identify your browser bookmarks that take up a lot of your time and shift them into a separate folder that is less accessible. Disable the automatic notification option in your email client. Get rid of the distractions around you.

I know some people will out of the way and delete or deactivate their facebook accounts. I think it’s a little drastic and extreme as addressing procrastination is more about being conscious of our actions than counteracting via self-binding methods, but if you feel that’s what’s needed, go for it.

5. Hang out with People Who Inspire You to Take Action

I’m pretty sure if you spend just 10 minutes talking to Steve Jobs or Bill Gates, you’ll be more inspired to act than if you spent the 10 minutes doing nothing. The people we are with influence our behaviors. Of course spending time with Steve Jobs or Bill Gates every day is probably not a feasible method, but the principle applies — The Hidden Power of Every Single Person Around You

Identify the people, friends or colleagues who trigger you – most likely the go-getters and hard workers – and hang out with them more often. Soon you will inculcate their drive and spirit too.

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As a personal development blogger, I “hang out” with inspiring personal development experts by reading their blogs and corresponding with them regularly via email and social media. It’s communication via new media and it works all the same.

6. Get a Buddy

Having a companion makes the whole process much more fun. Ideally, your buddy should be someone who has his/her own set of goals. Both of you will hold each other accountable to your goals and plans. While it’s not necessary for both of you to have the same goals, it’ll be even better if that’s the case, so you can learn from each other.

I have a good friend whom I talk to regularly, and we always ask each other about our goals and progress in achieving those goals. Needless to say, it spurs us to keep taking action.

7. Tell Others About Your Goals

This serves the same function as #6, on a larger scale. Tell all your friends, colleagues, acquaintances and family about your projects. Now whenever you see them, they are bound to ask you about your status on those projects.

For example, sometimes I announce my projects on The Personal Excellence Blog, Twitter and Facebook, and my readers will ask me about them on an ongoing basis. It’s a great way to keep myself accountable to my plans.

8. Seek out Someone Who Has Already Achieved the Outcome

What is it you want to accomplish here, and who are the people who have accomplished this already? Go seek them out and connect with them. Seeing living proof that your goals are very well achievable if you take action is one of the best triggers for action.

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9. Re-Clarify Your Goals

If you have been procrastinating for an extended period of time, it might reflect a misalignment between what you want and what you are currently doing. Often times, we outgrow our goals as we discover more about ourselves, but we don’t change our goals to reflect that.

Get away from your work (a short vacation will be good, else just a weekend break or staycation will do too) and take some time to regroup yourself. What exactly do you want to achieve? What should you do to get there? What are the steps to take? Does your current work align with that? If not, what can you do about it?

10. Stop Over-Complicating Things

Are you waiting for a perfect time to do this? That maybe now is not the best time because of X, Y, Z reasons? Ditch that thought because there’s never a perfect time. If you keep waiting for one, you are never going to accomplish anything.

Perfectionism is one of the biggest reasons for procrastination. Read more about why perfectionist tendencies can be a bane than a boon: Why Being A Perfectionist May Not Be So Perfect.

11. Get a Grip and Just Do It

At the end, it boils down to taking action. You can do all the strategizing, planning and hypothesizing, but if you don’t take action, nothing’s going to happen. Occasionally, I get readers and clients who keep complaining about their situations but they still refuse to take action at the end of the day.

Reality check:

I have never heard anyone procrastinate their way to success before and I doubt it’s going to change in the near future.  Whatever it is you are procrastinating on, if you want to get it done, you need to get a grip on yourself and do it.

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