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3 Things To Remember If Your Pet Enjoys Adventures

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3 Things To Remember If Your Pet Enjoys Adventures

As you scroll down your Facebook feed, you find various cat or dog videos that make you giggle on the inside. It cheers you up watching those animals running around and creating their own mayhem. You’ve always wanted a pet or you’ve noticed that your friends seem much happier when they’ve got a pet. You’d love a pet who enjoys the outdoors and is active, but at the same time you love animals that are pretty and elegant.

The biggest question is: what are your responsibilities when you have a pet that’s the best of both worlds?

Recently, I got a bright, fluffy and red Persian cat who encompassed all of these qualities. Two days after taking it for a hike to the forest, I came back to find her hair tangled with twigs and leaves within her beautiful coat. Here are a few of the points I’ve picked up that will help you as a new pet owner.

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1. Understand Your Pet Needs As Much Grooming As You Do.

Have you tried to avoid grooming yourself for days? In other words, would you be able to resist a shower after running around in the forest or the city all day? I assume that a nice bath isn’t only calming for your soul but creates wonders for your skin. Hygiene and grooming are as important for pets as they are for us. Not paying importance to this need for grooming is a form of negligence towards your pets.

To avoid this, you first need to know your pet and its breed. Second, knowing what’s needed for its grooming and hygiene is important. If you have a long-haired or a rather curly haired pet, make sure to brush them regularly. If you’re taking them on one of your nature walks, then be sure to brush them and wash them as soon as you’re back. Avoid leaving dirt in their fur, as it may cause the hair to be severely tangled, which may require the hair to be shaved.

Some pet owners assume that bathing their pet isn’t necessary. However, the truth is that regular washing of your dog or cat is necessary to avoid attracting any form of parasite or developing skin diseases.

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2. Creating A Bond Of Trust With Your Pet Is Important.

It doesn’t matter if it’s a bond like that between a teacher and student, mother and a daughter, or husband and wife, they say the key to a lasting relationship is trust. The possibility to allow someone to approach you at your most vulnerable state is what the word “trust” entails. Therefore, this formation of trust is the first step in any relationship.

How is this different in our relationship with our pets then?

For an adventurous and outgoing pet, you need to build a bridge of trust, commitment, and love. As we all are aware of, pets are very instinctive animals, they “smell” your fear, love, temper, sadness, and happiness. Therefore, it is impossible for one to trick their pet into falling for them — unlike humans, their strongest sense is emotions.

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Hence, before going on any adventure, build a connection with your pet. Allow it to be part of your life as much as you would want to be to part of its life. Show your pet compassion and love and allow your pet to do the same. Once you’ve reached the pivotal point of separation anxiety, you know that you and your pet have officially built a bridge.

3. Always Watch Your Pet’s Diet.

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying that our bodies are our temples and we have to constantly watch what we put in them. Diet is the most important part of every living being on this planet. A perfect diet ensures our health and our energy throughout our lifetime and helps us avoid the hospital in the long run. This same concept applies to our pets as well — a perfect diet allows your pet to have the energy it needs to be active throughout the day.

If you’ve got a pet that loves the outdoors, loves playing and being an explorer, then you’ve got to keep an eye on its diet. Some pet owners, out of love, tend to overfeed their pets. In the long run, this is unhealthy. This is because our pets aren’t built to sustain more food than their bodies can handle. Therefore, overfeeding them will lead straight to obesity.

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This eventually restricts their freedom and their will to be constantly active due to a severe lack of energy. To avoid this situation, check with your veterinarian on what kinds of food you should feed your pet and follow the feeding table accordingly. This ensures that your pet will be constantly happy and active throughout its lifetime.

In a nutshell, if your pet loves adventure and has the spirit of an explorer, then let it embrace that freedom. Take the time to have an adventure together and enjoy life. I for one can guarantee that you won’t regret it .

Featured photo credit: Dog Travel via flipkey.com

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Last Updated on November 18, 2021

10 Proven Ways to Judge a Person’s Character

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10 Proven Ways to Judge a Person’s Character

We all fall into the trap of judging a person’s character by their appearance. How wrong we are! All too often, the real character of the person only appears when some negative event hits them or you. Then you may see a toxic person emerging from the ruins and it is often a shock.

A truly frightening example is revealed in the book by O’Toole in Bowman called Dangerous Instincts: How Gut Instincts Betray Us. A perfectly respectable, charming, well dressed neighbor was found to have installed a torture chamber in his garage where he was systematically abusing kidnapped women. This is an extreme example, but it does show how we can be totally deceived by a person’s physical appearance, manners and behavior.

So, what can you do? You want to be able to assess personal qualities when you come into contact with colleagues, fresh acquaintances and new friends who might even become lifelong partners. You want to know if they are:

  • honest
  • reliable
  • competent
  • kind and compassionate
  • capable of taking the blame
  • able to persevere
  • modest and humble
  • pacific and can control anger.

The secret is to reserve judgment and take your time. Observe them in certain situations; look at how they react. Listen to them talking, joking, laughing, explaining, complaining, blaming, praising, ranting, and preaching. Only then will you be able to judge their character. This is not foolproof, but if you follow the 10 ways below, you have a pretty good chance of not ending up in an abusive relationship.

1. Is anger a frequent occurrence?

All too often, angry reactions which may seem to be excessive are a sign that there are underlying issues. Do not think that every person who just snaps and throws his/her weight around mentally and physically is just reacting normally. Everyone has an occasional angry outburst when driving or when things go pear-shaped.

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But if this is almost a daily occurrence, then you need to discover why and maybe avoid that person. Too often, anger will escalate to violent and aggressive behavior. You do not want to be near someone who thinks violence can solve personal or global problems.

2. Can you witness acts of kindness?

How often do you see this person being kind and considerate? Do they give money to beggars, donate to charity, do voluntary work or in some simple way show that they are willing to share the planet with about 7 billion other people?

I was shocked when a guest of mine never showed any kindness to the weak and disadvantaged people in our town. She was ostensibly a religious person, but I began to doubt the sincerity of her beliefs.

“The best index to a person’s character is how he treats people who can’t do him any good, and how he treats people who can’t fight back.”

Abigail Van Buren

3. How does this person take the blame?

Maybe you know that s/he is responsible for a screw-up in the office or even in not turning up on time for a date. Look at their reaction. If they start blaming other colleagues or the traffic, well, this is an indication that they are not willing to take responsibility for their mistakes.

4. Don’t use Facebook as an indicator.

You will be relieved to know that graphology (the study of that forgotten skill of handwriting) is no longer considered a reliable test of a person’s character. Neither is Facebook stalking, fortunately. A study showed that Facebook use of foul language, sexual innuendo and gossip were not reliable indicators of a candidate’s character or future performance in the workplace.

5. Read their emails.

Now a much better idea is to read the person’s emails. Studies show that the use of the following can indicate certain personality traits:

  • Too many exclamation points may reveal a sunny disposition
  • Frequent errors may indicate apathy
  • Use of smileys is the only way a person can smile at you
  • Use of the third person may reveal a certain formality
  • Too many question marks can show anger
  • Overuse of capital letters is regarded as shouting. They are a definite no-no in netiquette, yet a surprising number of  people still use them.

6. Watch out for the show offs.

Listen to people as they talk. How often do they mention their achievements, promotions, awards and successes? If this happens a lot, it is a sure indication that this person has an over-inflated view of his/her achievements. They are unlikely to be modest or show humility. What a pity!  Another person to avoid.

7. Look for evidence of perseverance.

A powerful indicator of grit and tenacity is when a person persists and never gives up when they really want to achieve a life goal. Look for evidence of them keeping going in spite of enormous difficulties.

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Great achievements by scientists and inventors all bear the hallmark of perseverance. We only have to think of Einstein, Edison (who failed thousands of times) and Nelson Mandela to get inspiration. The US Department of Education is in no doubt about how grit, tenacity and perseverance will be key success factors for youth in the 21st century.

8. Their empathy score is high.

Listen to how they talk about the less fortunate members of our society such as the poor, immigrants and the disabled. Do you notice that they talk in a compassionate way about these people? The fact that they even mention them is a strong indicator of empathy.

People with zero empathy will never talk about the disadvantaged. They will rarely ask you a question about a difficult time or relationship. They will usually steer the conversation back to themselves. These people have zero empathy and in extreme cases, they are psychopaths who never show any feelings towards their victims.

9. Learn how to be socially interactive.

We are social animals and this is what makes us so uniquely human. If a person is isolated or a loner, this may be a negative indicator of their character. You want to meet a person who knows about trust, honesty and loyalty. The only way to practice these great qualities is to actually interact socially. The great advantage is that you can share problems and celebrate success and joy together.

“One can acquire everything in solitude, except character.”

Stendhal

 10. Avoid toxic people.

These people are trying to control others and often are failing to come to terms with their own failures. Typical behavior and conversations may concern:

  • Envy or jealousy
  • Criticism of partners, colleagues and friends
  • Complaining about their own lack of success
  • Blaming others for their own bad luck or failure
  • Obsession with themselves and their problems

Listen to these people talk and you will quickly discover that you need to avoid them at all costs because their negativity will drag you down. In addition, as much as you would like to help them, you are not qualified to do so.

Now, having looked at some of the best ways to judge a person, what about yourself? How do others see you? Why not take Dr. Phil’s quiz and find out. Can you bear it?

Featured photo credit: Jacek Dylag via unsplash.com

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