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How to Turn Your Blog Into a Money-Making Business

How to Turn Your Blog Into a Money-Making Business

With more and more of our lives being spent online, all of the creative folks out there should look for ways to use this to your advantage. A great way to go about this is by turning your blog into a money-making business. Easier said than done — I know — but here are some easily, actionable tips that you can use to get started.

Actually Start Your Blog

This might seem ridiculously obvious, and apologies to those who are already up and running, but it’s amazing how many people just don’t take the plunge and actually get started on their blog in the first place. There is simply no excuse for this as starting a blog really is incredibly easy.

Don’t let what you don’t know hold you back. Blogging is something that almost everybody has to learn as they go. All personal blogs start out small. Just get started and on your feet before you start thinking about how you are going to turn your blog into a money-making business.

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Share Your Posts

Your blog is setup, and you’re pretty happy with the way everything is going. The problem is that nobody is actually reading it.

One of the easiest ways to get your blog out there is for you to start promoting your blog by sharing your posts on all of your social media channels. If your friends start liking your links, their friends will start to see that too. Little by little, you will start to build your audience.

On top of this you should also look at and engage with the more established blogs of people who are producing content in a similar field to your own. If those blogs have a comment section, let these guys know that you like what they are doing. Chances are that this will bring you to their attention, too.

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Do Some Studying

The world of SEO is probably a mystery to most people, but this is something that needs to change if you want a Google search to direct people to your blog. You don’t need to get a Masters in SEO, or even become an SEO expert, but you do need to know the basics.

Getting an understanding of SEO will only take up a little bit of your time, but it will prove invaluable as you look to turn your blog into a money-making business.

Sell Your Space

Once you have developed your blog to the point where you are attracting a regular audience, the next step is for you to start selling advertising space on your page. One of the simplest methods of doing this is through Google’s AdSense. Sign-up is easy and once done you will automatically begin to earn money every time a reader clicks on one of the ads on your blog.

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If your audience is really starting to grow, you may want to think about branching out beyond AdSense and looking at which affiliates could be interested in offering you some bigger money.

Branch Out

Depending on what your blog specializes in, you may be able to generate a whole new revenue stream through merchandise.

Photographers can sell their prints directly to their readers. Writers and poets could offer custom made pieces of unique work. And anyone who has some cute little logo or any other kind of recurring motif, can develop this into a recognizable brand that can be emblazoned on just about anything you can think of.

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Merchandise isn’t the only field that your blog could diversify into. For your loyal readers, and the people who pay attention to these kinds of things, you are now a valuable commodity. Whether you develop this through online workshops, consulting, guest-blogging, a book, or even TV and radio appearances, there are numerous viable and profitable ways for you to step out from behind the screen and give your blog a face people can connect with.

Really Turning Your Blog Into a Money Making Business

At a certain point, where you have become successful beyond your wildest dreams, you will need to start think about actually running your blog more like a business. This involves a whole new set of challenges, but simplification will be the key now as you need to focus on keeping your baby ticking over whilst managing the new expectations that come along with it.

When your blog is this developed you will probably need help in maintaining it. This doesn’t mean that you will no longer control the content, but you may need somebody else to actually be keeping track of things and publishing your posts for you. A good lawyer would also be somebody you should have picked up by this point.

The world is your oyster, but you’re going to need professional assistance to make sure you continue to keep harvesting pearls!

Featured photo credit: Ed Gregory via stokpic.com

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Published on April 7, 2021

6 Signs Of A Controlling Person To Be Aware Of

6 Signs Of A Controlling Person To Be Aware Of

Some of the most manipulative people are so good at what they do that their words and actions can convince you into thinking they truly care about what’s best for you when in reality, it’s quite the opposite. The most common signs of a controlling person are rarely obvious to outside observers. And for someone enmeshed in a controlling relationship or friendship, it can be incredibly challenging to stay away from this toxic person, even if you’re aware of their emotionally abusive tendencies.

While it’s ultimately up to you to decide whether to preserve or leave a lopsided, unfulfilling relationship, it’s nevertheless critical to understand the following six signs of controlling people so you can better advocate for yourself and mitigate the influence of their manipulative tendencies in your own life.

1. They Push Their Own Personal Agenda

Do you know someone who always tries to micromanage the words, behaviors, and attitudes of people around them? Does this person act like they have the right to know anything they want about you, including your location, what you’re doing in a given moment, who you’re talking to online, or any other private information about you? And when planning events and special occasions, does this person dominate conversations, steer plans in their own preferred directions, disparage others’ suggestions, and refuse to collaborate with anyone who might disagree with them?

If you answered “yes” to some of the above questions, then those are clear signs of a controlling person whom you absolutely need to be cautious around. Controlling people are reluctant to even consider alternative ideas, let alone enthusiastically work with people who have differing views. They prefer to be the captain of every ship—regardless of how much or how little an issue personally impacts them—and they have an arsenal of manipulative tactics to deploy if someone stands in the way of them achieving their own personal agendas.

In long-term relationships with controlling people, you may feel constantly pressured to meet their demands, follow their schedule, and focus on whatever they feel is most important. It’s not an exaggeration to say that these people act like the universe revolves around them, which can be exhausting to deal with for their family members, friends, and colleagues.

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2. They Make Everything Transactional

Controlling people aren’t always self-centered, but they’re not too empathetic either. Empathy for them tends to appear in the form of strategic concessions they use as a means to get what they want. They typically view interpersonal relationships as transactional opportunities to extract more value from people surrounding them, which can have a draining effect on those they interact with.

For example, one sign of a controlling person may be their insistence on “keeping score.” This can involve doing nice things for you with the ulterior motive of demanding something from you at a later date in exchange for what you thought was just an act of kindness or a friendly support.

Perhaps they shower you in praise (also known as “love-bombing”) or gifts then blow up at you if you don’t intuitively know they’re expecting something back from you. None of us are mind-readers, but controlling people behave as though everyone else should think and act like they want others to and those who fall out of line are punished for failing to meet their impossible expectations.

A controlling person may also threaten to withhold support if you don’t adhere to their demands, but they do so in such subtle ways that the guilt they impose blinds you from the unreasonable nature of their behaviors.

Some statements to be wary of include:

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  • “I did ___________ for you. What do you mean you can’t do ___________ for me?”
  • “Remember how I helped you with ___________? That took a lot of time and energy from me, but I guess you didn’t appreciate my help.”
  • “I always give you ___________. Don’t you care about my needs too?”
  • “You’re so selfish!” or “You don’t care about me at all!” (gaslighting if you respond with hesitation or politely decline their request for help for perfectly valid reasons, such as not having enough time or resources to assist them)

3. They Criticize Everything

One of the most common telltale signs of a controlling person is their capacity to criticize anything and everything, even small things that seemingly don’t matter. As with many toxic traits in relationships, these problems typically start out so small that you may not even notice. At first, you may even agree with their criticism or at least be able to understand their perspective when they bring up an issue.

However, the criticism tends to get more intense, more constant, and more perplexing for people who maintain relationships with controlling people. You’ll likely notice how they rarely seem to criticize something they do. It’s almost always other-oriented and these types of people are so manipulative that any rationale they offer can seem plausibly legitimate.

Some warning signs of a controlling person who’s overly critical to the point of abusiveness include:

  • Criticizing things about you that you have little to no control over (e.g., appearance, disability, family)
  • Criticizing your personal choices and interests, such as educational pursuits, career, clothing, favorite music, time spent on your hobbies, etc.
  • Punishing you for expressing vulnerability by invalidating thoughts and feelings you share with them
  • Attacking you whenever you express an opinion counter to theirs

4. They Balk When Someone Criticizes Them

We all know the adage, “what goes around, comes around.” But this statement doesn’t apply as much to toxic, controlling people. They’d much prefer to dish out criticism without ever having to take it in return.

For instance, if your friend constantly talks about your appearance with little regard for your emotions but flips out if you make just a single comment about their appearance, there’s a possibility that they could have some hidden controlling tendencies left unchecked. Remember, these people aren’t just controlling in their behaviors towards others. They’re also actively trying to stay in complete control over every aspect of their lives, which includes how others view them.

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This seemingly insatiable desire for control can prompt them to lash out against even the smallest bits of criticism, leaving people around them too weary or scared to speak up again in the future. While it’s possible they may suffer from something called rejection sensitivity dysphoria, this does not excuse them from the consequences of their words and actions. They should seek professional help to better manage their reactions to criticism.

5. They Socially Isolate You

Not all controlling people do this, but for manipulative narcissists, socially isolating victims is a go-to strategy for maintaining control because it’s effective at preventing people from truly understanding how toxic their partner, family member, or friend is treating them. Think of it this way—if you don’t talk to many other people in your life, there’s less of a risk that you’ll damage their reputation by revealing their abusive tendencies.

Socially isolating others also gives the person more control over you and your life as it becomes more difficult to break away from them if you don’t have other healthier channels of communication and interpersonal support to turn to.

This process doesn’t happen overnight, nor is it something you can readily recognize as abusive. At first, it may seem reasonable, such as asking you to stop engaging so often with family members with whom both of you disagree on major social or political issues. As the social isolation progresses, they may suggest cutting people out of your life—especially if they don’t like that person, regardless of how you personally feel—or even conjure up high-stakes problems like “it’s me or them” under the guise of saving you from people in your life whom they don’t like for whatever reason.

In a controlling person’s life narrative, they’re always the protagonist who’s incapable of any wrongdoing. The blame is always redirected at someone else, whether that’s you or other people in your life. The more they isolate you from other supportive people in your life, the more susceptible you’ll be to falsely believing that they’re right and you “don’t need” your other friends and family when you have someone as perfect as this person.

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6. They’re Emotionally Abusive

It’s hard enough to be in control of your own emotions but when someone else is constantly belittling you and your interests or leveraging guilt and shame to manipulate you into saying or doing what they want, this can make it even more challenging to stay in control of your own life and emotional well-being.

Emotional abuse is another sign of a controlling person that is often overlooked in relationships. After all, human personalities vary widely in terms of passivity, and it’s not uncommon for one person in a relationship to be significantly more passive than the other. This becomes an issue when the controlling partner or friend exudes signs of emotional abuse, which can start subtly and become much more pronounced over time.

Concerning signs of emotionally abusive language or behavior to watch out for include:

  • Dismissing your needs and/or belittling your interests in counterproductive ways
  • Privately or publicly shaming or humiliating you
  • Making you feel as though you can never live up to their expectations or do anything right (according to their own vague, subjective standards)
  • Gaslighting you into thinking they said or did something that never actually happened (making you question your own reality)

Final Thoughts

It’s sometimes hard to see the negative things about someone with whom we have a relationship. We may sometimes unconsciously overlook the signs of a controlling person, especially if that person is someone we have known for a long time or are close to us. However, cutting them off your life is the best thing you can do for yourself. Just watch out for these six signs of a controlling person and take immediate action when you spot them.

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