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4 Things To Keep In Mind If You’re A Millennial

4 Things To Keep In Mind If You’re A Millennial

Over the years, the baby boom age has transcended to the millennial boom age: where most of us are either entering into college, graduating, job searching or forging our own business to the way of life. We grew to become humans who aren’t only fighting to survive, but fighting to leave a mark, a legacy and becoming someone to be looked on as an inspiration.

However, many obstacles stand in our way such as finances, responsibilities, loans and commitments to others and ourselves. This leads to many weird decisions, sometimes rash and irrational, bringing on many unexpected consequences. Unfortunately, no one ever gave us a guideline on how to navigate the 21st-century millennial boom. We were given books of knowledge and wisdom, but not the guidelines to understanding this century.

To be able to navigate the maps, you need to understand the geography and its components. Here are some tips to navigate the millennial jungle. I hope this can help many overcome the various obstacles ahead of them.

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1. Adapt Your Steps to Deal With The “Now”.

Growing up with parents, teachers, guardians or anyone from the 90’s always leads to the advices of what worked in their times. Unfortunately many have failed to realize that many of these advices don’t work in this 21st century. When we are taught to continuously follow the old ways of life, we find it hard to leave the past behind and adapt to the new. This leads us to be left behind in the dust of our competitors.

We need to accept and understand that the old methodology and advices aren’t viable for our present world. We are here to make our own rules and forge our way to the future. Creativity and leadership may be scary, however; these are the principles that will eventually get you ahead.

2. Being An All Rounder Is A Good Thing

Have you ever been told to calm down, to chill and that you don’t need to know everything? If you have, then you’re not the only one. Over the years, many have been advised it’s better to be the master of one than to be the jack of all. However, in today’s world, knowing a little of everything will help you navigate through the seas of the unknown.

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If you’re in the field of marketing, it’s definitely useful for you to know about the latest on Kim Kardashian, the teams in EURO2016, the best restaurants in the world, the techniques of make pasta, the skills of Photoshop and so much more. This increases your knowledge and makes you a more interesting person .

However, you should also be open to listening to others and their opinions, because knowledge is power.

3. Learn To Manage Your Finances Smartly

One of the biggest problems millennial’s face these days is managing their finances. Most of were not given any financial education while growing up. So we lacked financial literacy when we entered the world of adulthood. We jump upon the wrong deal and make poor choices. This leads us into losing money or being in a bigger debt.

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Read and understand about investment and money. Recently in many countries, various independent banks have been formed with the sole purpose of helping millennials. They help manage your finances as well as give you the savings plans needed to ensure a secure future. Research and make a smart decision before committing to anything financially.

4. Do Not Take Big Bites Too Early

The biggest mistake millennials do these days is to take on a huge commitment before even being ready for it. When we graduate and move out on our own, we aim for a proper apartment and a car on a mortgage. However, we fail to realize that when we are at the beginning of our career and our lives, it is risky to take on big financial responsibilities.

Before spending on a car or apartment, take a step back and organize the timeline for your lives. Cut back on the unnecessary costs and investments identified. Do not bite more than you can chew. Use public transport and if you’ve got to move in with your parents for a short while, take that opportunity to save some money.

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one-step at a time when it comes to money and investments. You’ll eventually be able to live comfortably on your own. These tips will definitely help many to live successfully and could help prevent some unexpected setbacks along the way.

When life offers you lemons, use these recipes to make a killer lemonade.

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Last Updated on October 22, 2019

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

When someone says, “I can’t do it” . . . I say to myself, “What do you mean you can’t do it?” Maybe you don’t want to do it, but saying you “can’t” do it is a completely different story.

With the right mindset, positive attitude, and a clear vision of what you want to accomplish, the only thing that is holding you back is yourself.

Can’t is a terrible word and it has to be taken out of your vocabulary.

By saying you can’t do something, you’re already doubting yourself, submitting to defeat, and you’re making that barrier around your life tighter.

So today, right now, we are going to remove this word for good.

From now on there is nothing we can’t do.

“Attitude is Tattoo”

Your attitude is everything; it’s your reason, your why and how, your facial expression, emotions, body language, and potentially the end result. How you approach an opportunity, and the result of it, is solely based on you — not your boss or your co-worker or friend.

If you enter a business meeting with a sour attitude, that negative energy can spread like wildfire. People can also feel it — maybe even taste it. This is not an impression you want to leave.

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Now imagine you enter a business meeting with a positive attitude, that whatever happens in here is going to be your result, in your control, not someone else’s. Of course, we can’t always win, but even if the outcome is negative, your attitude and perception can turn it into a positive. The question is: can you do it?

Of course you can, because there is nothing in this world you can’t do.

It’s much better to be known for your positive attitude — your poise, your energy, the reason why things go so well because you are able to maintain such character. A negative attitude is easy. It’s easy to complain, it’s easy to be mad, and it’s even easier to do nothing to change it.

When I say your “attitude is tattoo”, it sounds permanent. Tattoos can be removed, but that’s not the point. Your attitude is like a tattoo because you wear it. People can see it and sometimes, they will judge you on it. If you maintain a negative attitude, then it is permanent until you change it.

Change your attitude and I guarantee the results change as well.

Believe You Can Do It

Do you know why most people say “can’t” and doubt themselves before trying anything?

It’s our lack of self-confidence and fear on many different levels. The one thing we have to purge from ourselves is fear — fear of bad results, fear of change, fear of denial, fear of loss, the fear that makes us worry and lose sleep. Worrying is the same as going outside with an umbrella, waiting for rain to hit it. Stop worrying and move on.

Confidence is fragile: It builds up slowly, but can shatter like glass. Project your confidence and energy into believing in yourself. This is a very important and groundbreaking step — one that is usually the hardest to take. Start telling yourself you can do something, anything, and you will do it the best to your ability. Remove doubt, remove fear, and stick with positive energy.

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Embrace Failure

Do not fear failure. Do not run away from it. Face it, learn from it, grow, and take action. Just remember: You will never know success if you have never failed.

Your confidence will bolster after embracing these facts. You will be immune to demoralizing results, and instead you will find ways to fix it, improve upon it, and make it better than before. You will learn to never say “can’t,” and will realize how many more opportunities you can create by removing that one word.

Don’t let one simple and ugly word plague your confidence. You’re better and stronger than that.

Start Making the Change

But to actually start the process of change is very challenging.

Why is that?

Fear? Time? Don’t know how — or where — to start?

It’s hard because what we’re doing is unlearning what we know. We are used to doing things a certain way, and chances are we’ve been doing them for years.

So here are some ways that I avoid using the word “can’t”, and actually take the steps to put forth the change that I wish to see. I hope you can incorporate these methods into your life.

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Write down What You Want to Change

Write it on post-its, notecards, whatever makes you comfortable — something you will always see. I usually write mine on post-its and put them all over the wall behind my monitor so I always see them.

Tell a Friend and Talk About It

Discussing your goals, what you want to change, is very effective when you say it out loud and tell another person other than yourself. It’s almost like saying, hey, I bet I can do it — watch me.

When you fulfill that goal and tell your friend, it feels rewarding and will motivate you to do it again in a different aspect. Who knows? Maybe your friend adopts the same mindset as you.

Stop Yourself from Saying the Forbidden Word

Sometimes,I can’t control myself in public when I’m with friends, so I have to be careful with the words I use so I don’t embarrass or insult anyone.

Treat the word “can’t” as the worst word you can possibly use. Stop yourself from saying it, mid-sentence if you must, and turn your whole perspective around — you can do it, you will do it, and nothing is impossible!

Repetition, Repetition, Repetition

You think this change will be overnight? No way. This is a practice. Something you’re going to be doing for the rest of your life from now until forever.

As I said earlier, you are unlearning what you know. You know how easy it is to say you can’t do something, so by unlearning this easy practice, you’re self-disciplining yourself to live without boundaries.

Practice this everyday, a little at a time, and before you know it, the word can’t will not be part of your language.

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Do Anything That Can Relieve Your Uncertainty

When I catch myself saying I can’t do something or I don’t know something, looking up information on that action or subject, doing research, educating yourself, relieves that uncertainty.

Sometimes, we think we can’t do something because the whole idea of it seems too large. We skip the small steps in our head and only focus on the end.

Before you say you can’t do something, rewind and slow down a little bit. Focus on what the first step is, then the next. Take it a step at a time, and before you know it you will have done something you previously thought you couldn’t do.

Final Thoughts

You know what you must do. The first step is right now. Once you begin this habit, and really start noticing some change, you’ll realize the door to opportunity is everywhere.

The funny thing is: Those doors have always been there. The evil word that we no longer use put a veil over our eyes because that’s how powerful that word is.

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