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7 Signs You Were A Spirited Child And That’s Really Great

7 Signs You Were A Spirited Child And That’s Really Great

Spirited children are wonderful. It’s like a gift. Strength, independence and an understanding of the world around you.

Were you a spirited child? If so, it has likely enhanced many areas of your adult life in ways you probably don’t even realize. Creativity, passion and imagination are mere examples of the potential unlocked by your spirited lifestyle. Teachers may have been annoyed at your wandering mind, parents could have been frustrated at your constant questioning, and friends may have shrugged at your suggestions. But with curiosity and energy comes intelligence.

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Here are 7 signs that prove you were a spirited child:

You were busy exploring all the time

A spirited child doesn’t just sit on his or her hands. They explore the environments available to them; looking under rocks for new insects, searching the new house in its entirety, swimming to the bottom of the lake, breaking away from the excursion group to see what’s behind the ‘do not pass’ sign. Limitations bore a spirited child. Exploration unravels secrets, opens up new possibilities and allows you to become reliant on yourself rather than others.

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You don’t conform easily, you would debate a lot

Some children believe everything they hear…but not you. Curiosity sparked questioning, which in turn built learning and intelligence. If a statement sounds untrue to you, you’ll debate it with all the relevant points you can think of. Challenging others and believing in your own views makes you an individual. And if there’s a group building? You don’t just conform and fall in line. You question them; why should I join you? What do you stand for? What are the alternatives?

You could be easily distracted

Sitting in class, seeing that spider try to squeeze through the window while your maths teacher rabbles on about algebra. The outside world offered so much more than the blackboard, so distractions as a child were a constant. A spirited child grows bored with repetition, seeking something new to analyze. This has stemmed into your profession as an adult. There’s no way you’ll be someone like an accountant, because you need more stimulation than that. Creative fields such as the arts allowed you to make your own fun, and removed the ease of distraction. But listening and watching other people tell you what to do didn’t resonate.

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You had unlimited energy

Who needs 8 hours sleep when there’s so much to do and see? Red Bull and coffee wasn’t needed to run around the house at top speed, pretending to be your favorite animal. Sugar hits weren’t necessary to play in the backyard all day with your pets. Having unlimited energy meant you didn’t miss an opportunity; you were never ‘too tired’ to take an adventure. And when you look back now, you can only dream of that energy, and how amazing it was to have those natural levels.

You were very rich in emotions and cry quite a lot

Emotions can be sold as a negative during childhood, but an early understanding of emotions benefits your progression into an adult. It builds empathy, it creates a base of knowledge on how to react in certain situations and it helps you deal with the problems in your life. A movie, or a song, or a book may have reduced you to tears, because of the characters feeling more real than the people around you. Anger, fear, sadness; they are all elements of the spirit, and you felt them greatly in your stages of growth. But having that background, and with more control, you’re a stronger person because of it.

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You could be easily stimulated by the environment

Video games were great, but the great outdoors inspired you more than a flashing screen. Fresh air fueled your adventures. Fresh green leaves, bright blue water in the ocean, the sounds of waves crashing against the rocks; these were the greatest stimulants in your childhood. People remained in the periphery, when the facts of nature were involved. Animals, plant life, the smells of the wild: all these factors were boosts to the energy levels, especially if the majority of your time was confined to a big city.

You were eager to try new things and do things yourself

Reliance is overrated. Your independence grew from trying new things yourself. Dive right in and see what the consequences were. You didn’t need a teacher to hold your hand, or a parent to watch you; often, it was even better without a friend over your shoulder. Spirited children test their limits and boundaries from a young age, so by the time they reach the teenage years (and adult life) they have a greater understanding of themselves. They walk tall in any situation, reliant on their own abilities.

If you were a spirited child, these 7 signs will resonate. They are the greater positives of being a kid, and they involved fantastic attributes that continue to be a part of your make-up today. Think back to all those memories, and know your life was more full due to your renegade lifestyle.

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Last Updated on June 19, 2019

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

I’ve stood on the edge of my own personal cliffs many times. Each time I jumped, something different happened. There were risks that started off great, but eventually faded. There were risks that left me falling until I hit the ground. There were risks that started slow, but built into massive successes.

Every risk is different, but every risk is the same. You need to have some fundamentals ready before you jump, but not too many.

It wouldn’t be a risk if you knew everything that was about to happen, would it? Here’re 6 ways to be a successful risk taker.

1. Understand That Failure Is Going to Happen a Lot

It’s part of life. Everything we do has failure attached to it. All successful people have stories of massive failure attached to them. Thinking that your risk is going to be pain free and run as smooth as silk is insane.

Expect some pain and failure. Actually, expect a lot of it. Expect the sleepless nights with crazy thoughts of insecurity that leave you trembling under the covers. It’s going to happen, no matter how positive you are about the risk you are about to take.

When failure hits, the only options are to keep going or quit. If you expect falling into a meadow of flowers and frolicking unicorns, then you’re going to immediately quit once you realize that getting to that meadow requires you to go through a rock filled cave filled with hungry bats.

2. Trust the Muse

Writing a story isn’t a big risk. It’s really just a risk on my time. So when I start writing a story, I’m scared it will be time wasted. Of course, it never really is. Even if the story doesn’t turn out fabulous, I still practiced.

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When I’ve taken risks in my life, the successful ones always seemed to happen when I followed the muse. Steven Pressfield describes the muse,

“The Muse demands depth. Shallow does not work for her. If we’re seeking her help, we can’t stay in the kiddie end. When we work, we have to go hard and go deep.”

The muse is a goddess who wants our attention and wants us to work on our passion.

If you’re taking a risk in anything, it’s assumed that there is some passion built up behind that risk. That passion, deep inside you, is the muse. Trust it, focus on it, listen to it.

The most successful articles and stories I write are the ones I’ve focused all my attention on. There were no interruptions during their creative development. I didn’t check my phone or go watch my Twitter feed. I was fully engaged in my work.

Trust the muse, focus your attention on your risk, let the ideas and path develop themselves, and leave the distractions at the side of the road.

3. Remember to Be Authentic

Taking a risk and then turning into something you’re not, is only going to lead to disaster. Whether you are risking a new relationship or new opportunity, you must be yourself throughout the entire process.

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How many times have you acted like you loved something just because the men or woman you just started going out with loved it?

For example, I’m not an office worker. I have an incredibly hard time working in a confined timeline (ie. 9-5). That’s why I write. I can do it whenever the mood strikes, I don’t have somebody breathing down my neck, telling me that I’m five minutes late, or missed a comma somewhere. I don’t have to walk on eggshells wondering if what I’m writing will get me fired or make me lose a promotion. I can just be myself, period.

One girlfriend didn’t understand that. She believed solely in the 9-5 motto, specifically something in human resources because that was a very stable job. I was scared for my future, but I stuck with the relationship because of my own insecurities and acted like I would do it to make her happy.

Here’s a tip: NEVER take away from your happiness to make somebody else satisfied (note I didn’t say happy).

Making somebody else happy will make you happy. Doing something to satisfy somebody is murder on your soul.

4. Don’t Take Any Risks While You’re Not Clearheaded

I’d been considering the risk for a couple weeks. It all sounded good. I was 22 and I could be rich in a couple of years. That’s what they were selling me, anyways.

One night, while at a house party with some friends, I found myself at a computer. A couple of my friends were standing nearby and asked me what I was doing. I told them I was considering starting my own business and it was only going to cost me $1,500.

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Of course, when a bunch of drunk people are surrounded by more drunk people, things get enthusiastic. It sounded like the best business venture in the world to everybody, including me. So I signed up and gave them my credit card number.

A few painful months and close to $4,000 dollars lost later, I quit the business. I was young and fell into the pyramid scheme trap. It was an expensive drunk decision.

Drinking heavily and making decisions has a proven track record of failure. So when you have something important to decide, don’t let your emotions take over your brain.

5. Fully Understand What You’re Risking

It was the start of my baseball comeback. I got a tryout with a professional scout and killed it. After the tryout, he talked to my girlfriend and myself, making sure we understood I would be gone for up to 6 months at a time. That strain on the relationship could be tough.

We understood. I left to play ball, chose to stay in the city I played in, and a year later we broke up. Not because of baseball, see point 3 above. Taking big risks can have massive impacts on everything in your life from relationships to money. Know what you’re risking before you take the risk.

If you believe the risk will be worth it or you have the support you need from your family, then go ahead and make the leap.

You can get more guidance on how to take calculated risks from this article: How to Take Calculated Risk to Achieve More and Become Successful

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6. Remember This Is Your One Shot Only

As far as we know officially, this is our one shot at life, so why not take some risks?

The top thing people are saddened by on their deathbeds are these regrets. They wish they did more, asked that girl in the coffee shop out, spoke out when they should have, or did what they were passionate about.

Don’t regret. Learn and experience. Live. Take the risks you believe in. Be yourself and make the world a better place.

Now go ahead, take that risk and be successful at it!

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