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Signs You’re Emotional and Mentally Strong at the Same Time

Signs You’re Emotional and Mentally Strong at the Same Time

As you know, life can be emotionally distressing. You’re sensitive, you can sense the people around you. You’ve been blessed or cursed with this uncanny ability to feel. You feel that your extrasensory perception gives you more information about your environment. You’re keen on how other people feel about you. Is it better to be mentally strong or emotionally strong? Perhaps emotional strength is a prerequisite of mental strength. Emotions strike an evocative chord within you, one that you could not control without mental strength.

You cry, wipe your tears, and take action.

While some may believe it is better to ignore your feelings and push through, this builds up unhealthy blockages. Crying when in distress is a sign of strength, authenticity, and being in tune with yourself. It’s far more damaging to let the tears build up and suddenly unleash on the wrong person.

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You don’t care how the world perceives your tears, they’re necessary. The emotional release of crying lets the negative emotions fly free. People who cry and get back to work have the wisdom that emotions can overtake you if you let them. This wisdom lets emotional people know that crying is necessary to free up emotional and mental space that you could be using for happiness and productivity.

You may be quick to anger, but you turn it into positivity.

Being so in touch with your state of emotion gives you quick access to your anger too. What does this really mean? Emotional people have to have more mental strength than the average individual. Your rushing waters of anger can quickly become a tsunami, but you control the tide.

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According to a study of the broaden-and-build theory of Barbara Fredrickson, positive emotions allow you to build more personal resources due to expanding your cognition and attention. You have the mental discipline to decide in an instant whether this intense energy will be destructive or creative. What kind of mental powerhouse converts fury into positive action? You, the master of your emotional physiology.

You use your emotionality intelligently to be empathetic & understanding.

Sometimes you walk into a room and feel the air electrified with emotions. You can feel the ones who are intensely working, strained, happy, and peaceful. Some people may notice your uncanny ability to “read people.” You simply sense the emotions of others because you feel them yourself.

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You feel compassion in the highest degree. This level of empathy requires more mental strength to not absorb the negativity of others. The fact that you’re emotionally adept benefits your relationships because you’re able to understand other people better. Those who don’t understand emotionality may think you would cry over spilled milk; this isn’t the case. You have the mental discipline to differentiate between when someone else’s emotions will affect you and when they absolutely will not.

You can be very sensitive, but know better than to be too serious.

Just because you have highly sensitive emotions does not mean you are high strung. You know how to relax and have fun just as much as anyone else. Emotional people who are self aware may have an air of maturity not to be confused with seriousness. Socially, you’re not on the hunt for comments to be offended by.

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The fact that emotionally sensitive people savor happy moments actually increases their emotional strength according to a study conducted at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. It was shown that those who harness the power of positive emotions have more life satisfaction and are more resilient.

You’re sensitive but you know how to keep your emotions in check. You don’t let your high sensitivity weaken your relationships. You use your powers for good by tuning into the emotions of others so you can further understand their thinking, lifestyle, opinions, and so much more.

Everyone should take the time to understand that emotionally sensitive people use a great deal of mental strength. You have to keep your own emotions from going haywire. You also have to  protect yourself from the barrage of emotions you feel around you. When in distress, you may be the first to cry, but you’ll also be the first to take the next step forward.

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Last Updated on February 18, 2019

Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

The ability to reinvent and redefine yourself is a bold, daring and purposeful choice. It doesn’t just happen. You have to make a conscious, intentional choice and then follow through.

If the thought of forging a new path, changing habits, thought patterns and your inner circle of friends scares you – you’re not alone. Change can be a very scary thing. It takes courage, fortitude and a bit of faith to decide to shed your old self and don a new persona. However, it is one of the most critical processes one must repeatedly endure in the pursuit of destiny. Change unlocks new levels of potential.

The Need for Change

Everyday when we wake up, we make a decision. We decide to follow our routine or we decide to go off script and shake things up a bit. For those who are creatures of habit, routine is comfortable, easy and produces very little stress. The problem with this is, after a while you stop growing.

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We all reinvent ourselves at some point in our lives. It is absolutely necessary to achieve certain levels of success.

Reflect back on who you were as a teenager and then who you were at 25. Those are two very different people. Most of us are completely different. Your thought patterns changed, your appearance, job, level of education and even your friends– changed. We like to refer to this as “growing up” or maturing and consider it to be one of life’s natural progressions. However the changes you made were purposeful and deliberate.

This process must be a lifelong and continuous cycle. You are never too old to refresh yourself.

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    Signs It’s Time to Redefine

    “Just as established products and brands need updating to stay alive and vibrant, you periodically need to refresh or reinvent yourself.”– Mireille Guiliano

    So how do you know when it’s time for a system upgrade? There are signs along the way that alert you that it is time for an overhaul. The first sign is the feeling of being stuck. If you feel like you are in a rut, you’re bored with life or you need some newness and excitement, a self reinvention may be in order. Re-evaluate your life vision and your goals. Is that vision still valid and are your goals consistent with your vision and–are they achievable? If you are off course, it’s time for a change. If you are not moving forward and making progress, it’s time for a change.

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    In life, there’s no such thing as neutrality–you’re either moving forward or you are moving backward. Time constantly moves forward and if you are standing still, you are actually losing ground. No matter your age or stage in life– there is always room for improvement.

    “You’re never too old to set another goal or dream a new dream.” ~C. S. Lewis

    The second sign that you are due for a change is the occurrence of major life events in which change is forced upon you. Getting married, starting a new job, being promoted, ending a relationship, becoming a parenting or relocating are all prime opportunities to completely overhaul your life.

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    When these major shifts occur in your life–you have to shift with them. You can’t have a single mentality and have a successful marriage. You can’t remain selfish and irresponsible, and raise a healthy, well-adjusted child. You can’t be promoted to a supervisory position and keep the same subordinate attitude. Each level of success requires something different from you.

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      Consider, for a moment, Arnold Schwarzenegger. People may have different opinions about his character and some of his life choices, but he is a master at reinventing himself. He achieved the ultimate success as a professional body builder by earning the title “Mr. Universe” three times. He then earned a tremendous amount of fame and fortune in the entertainment industry making action/adventure films. And in his latest role, he served two terms as the Governor of California. He succeeded as a professional body builder, a film star and a politician. Each role required massive amounts of change, commitment, strength and hard work.

      And if Arnold can do it…so can you!

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