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Signs You’re Emotional and Mentally Strong at the Same Time

Signs You’re Emotional and Mentally Strong at the Same Time

As you know, life can be emotionally distressing. You’re sensitive, you can sense the people around you. You’ve been blessed or cursed with this uncanny ability to feel. You feel that your extrasensory perception gives you more information about your environment. You’re keen on how other people feel about you. Is it better to be mentally strong or emotionally strong? Perhaps emotional strength is a prerequisite of mental strength. Emotions strike an evocative chord within you, one that you could not control without mental strength.

You cry, wipe your tears, and take action.

While some may believe it is better to ignore your feelings and push through, this builds up unhealthy blockages. Crying when in distress is a sign of strength, authenticity, and being in tune with yourself. It’s far more damaging to let the tears build up and suddenly unleash on the wrong person.

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You don’t care how the world perceives your tears, they’re necessary. The emotional release of crying lets the negative emotions fly free. People who cry and get back to work have the wisdom that emotions can overtake you if you let them. This wisdom lets emotional people know that crying is necessary to free up emotional and mental space that you could be using for happiness and productivity.

You may be quick to anger, but you turn it into positivity.

Being so in touch with your state of emotion gives you quick access to your anger too. What does this really mean? Emotional people have to have more mental strength than the average individual. Your rushing waters of anger can quickly become a tsunami, but you control the tide.

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According to a study of the broaden-and-build theory of Barbara Fredrickson, positive emotions allow you to build more personal resources due to expanding your cognition and attention. You have the mental discipline to decide in an instant whether this intense energy will be destructive or creative. What kind of mental powerhouse converts fury into positive action? You, the master of your emotional physiology.

You use your emotionality intelligently to be empathetic & understanding.

Sometimes you walk into a room and feel the air electrified with emotions. You can feel the ones who are intensely working, strained, happy, and peaceful. Some people may notice your uncanny ability to “read people.” You simply sense the emotions of others because you feel them yourself.

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You feel compassion in the highest degree. This level of empathy requires more mental strength to not absorb the negativity of others. The fact that you’re emotionally adept benefits your relationships because you’re able to understand other people better. Those who don’t understand emotionality may think you would cry over spilled milk; this isn’t the case. You have the mental discipline to differentiate between when someone else’s emotions will affect you and when they absolutely will not.

You can be very sensitive, but know better than to be too serious.

Just because you have highly sensitive emotions does not mean you are high strung. You know how to relax and have fun just as much as anyone else. Emotional people who are self aware may have an air of maturity not to be confused with seriousness. Socially, you’re not on the hunt for comments to be offended by.

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The fact that emotionally sensitive people savor happy moments actually increases their emotional strength according to a study conducted at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. It was shown that those who harness the power of positive emotions have more life satisfaction and are more resilient.

You’re sensitive but you know how to keep your emotions in check. You don’t let your high sensitivity weaken your relationships. You use your powers for good by tuning into the emotions of others so you can further understand their thinking, lifestyle, opinions, and so much more.

Everyone should take the time to understand that emotionally sensitive people use a great deal of mental strength. You have to keep your own emotions from going haywire. You also have to  protect yourself from the barrage of emotions you feel around you. When in distress, you may be the first to cry, but you’ll also be the first to take the next step forward.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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