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Speaking More Than One Language Makes You Have Closer Relationships With Others, Here’s Why

Speaking More Than One Language Makes You Have Closer Relationships With Others, Here’s Why

We’ve all heard that knowing more languages can broaden our working opportunities and would make traveling around the world easier. We seldom think that speaking more than one language can make us connect more deeply with others. Here’s how.

It Leads to Insights of Different Aspects of Life

Susan Ervin-Tripp, from the University of California Psychology department, says in her paper titled Emotion in Bilingualism:

“When we are in situations demanding a change in language, we may have a strong sense of a shift in values and feelings. Some bilinguals even report they have two personalities.”

In this way language can be used to help us appreciate and gain insights into important morals, beliefs and passions.  Speaking multiple languages can help us connect with ourselves.

Knowing how to express emotions and love in different tongues can also help you understand the different facets of love, life and happiness. Having insight into these aspects of life can help you connect better with friends and loved ones.

It Leads to A Deeper Understanding of Your Own Personality First

If you are bilingual, you have the ability to relate to yourself in two languages. In a way this gives you two distinct perspectives on your inner self.  In a way it allows you to see yourself in different ways and this can result in a better understanding of yourself. By understanding how you work you may also be able to understand how you relate to others. Insight into your relationships can lead to deeper and more meaningful connections

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It Heightens Your Ability to Monitor Your Surroundings – People & Environment

Being bilingual appears to improve cognition because the individual needs to wrestle between two simultaneously active language systems. The main distinction between bilinguals and people who speak one language may be a heightened ability to monitor the environment.

“Bilinguals have to switch languages quite often — you may talk to your father in one language and to your mother in another language. It requires keeping track of changes around you in the same way that we monitor our surroundings when driving.” says Albert Costa, a researcher at the University of Pompeu Fabra in Spain.

By being more aware of your environment, you gain insights into how you relate to people and things around you. You’re more aware of others’ reactions and thus you know how to adjust yourself to adapt to the ever-changing environment.

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It Enhances Your Creativity in Connecting with People

study relayed by Medical Daily found that being bilingual helps with problem solving and creativity. The study involved the observation of 120 nine year-old students.

Dr. Fraser Lauchlan, the lead author of the study said that:

“Our study has found that it can have demonstrable benefits, not only in language but in arithmetic, problem solving and enabling children to think creatively. We also assessed the children’s vocabulary, not so much for their knowledge of words as their understanding of them. Again, there was a marked difference in the level of detail and richness in description from the bilingual pupils.”

When you are more creative, you have the capacity to think about yourself in unique ways. This means you can see yourself in original and imaginative ways, which may lead to a deeper understanding of how you relate to people and the world around you.

Summation

Speaking different languages can help you gain a unique perspective on your inner self. This can lead to greater insight into who you are. It can also help you lean about how you relate to people and your environment. If you already know more than one language you may have experienced these benefits; if however, you are mono-lingual and you strive to make more meaningful connections with others then you may want to consider learning a new language.

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Rebecca Beris

Rebecca is a wellness and lifestyle writer at Lifehack.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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