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9 Signs You’re Dating Someone You Don’t Need To Impress At All

9 Signs You’re Dating Someone You Don’t Need To Impress At All

The media is always telling us what to wear, what to say, etc. to impress people. However, to be with someone happily you don’t have to do so. It’s really important to be ourselves and feel worthy of ourselves instead of trying hard to impress and caring too much about what others think. When you can find such a person, never let him/her go. Below are the signs you’re dating someone you don’t have to impress at all.

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    1. You don’t mind revealing your shortcomings

    Maybe you’re the messy type that knows where everything is located. Perhaps it’s known that for you, making dinner is a struggle. It’s okay, you’re loved anyway. You know you’ll never be put on the spot for your bad cooking when the person you’re dating steps up and shares the responsibility with you. Your date surprises you with dinner or teaches you to cook as opposed to bringing over friends and family expecting you to turn into a chef.

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    2. You can admit what you don’t know without feeling ashamed

    Everyone is an expert on something. More than likely, you appreciate if your date has a high intellect. If anything they impress you with their knowledge. If your date finds that you clearly don’t know something, they never make you feel ashamed. You get the relief of telling them you don’t know and they never make you feel any less for it. You may notice your differences bringing you closer together, rather than further apart.

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      3. You can reveal your past mistakes and feel understood but not judged

      You really know where you stand with your date when you can reveal mistakes you made with no fear of being ridiculed. They take the time to relate to you and understand your actions. You’re not made to feel ashamed of the things you’re not proud of. They don’t see you as less than perfect, but the human being that you are.

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        4. You don’t mind showing your silly sides

        You can be goofy as often as you want and it’s all taken in good fun. They know you can be serious, but they bring so much playfulness and joy out of you. You’re more willing to be vulnerable and get in touch with your inner child than you would be with most people. You give each other comic relief. They get just as silly as you and give you laughter as medicine.

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          5. You don’t feel the need to change your inner self to make him/her more satisfied

          The person you don’t need to impress makes you want to express more of who you are, not alter it for them. They know who you are and never ask you to be anything different. They don’t make you feel like you have to adjust to eating what they like and take up the same hobbies. No need to sharpen your fantasy football skills or take up hiking if that’s not your thing.

          6. You can always be frank and there’s no guessing game

          What a relief to be able to say exactly what is on your mind without having to soften it. You don’t have to water down your strong, opinionated views. The two of you don’t give each other much of an opportunity to misinterpret each other because you’re direct and honest with each other.

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            7. You’re treasured because of your personality but not because of what you have

            They love the gifts you bring to the world more than the gifts you buy. The enthusiasm you experience dating each other comes from excellent chemistry of your personalities. Your material objects are not mentioned much because you’re the real treasure. You find that you spend more time genuinely talking about each other than emphasizing your possessions.

            8. You don’t mind showing your weak sides and can vent your emotions freely

            They not only listen to your troubles, they want to hear them. Your relationship has surpassed simply impressing them when they request you count on them when you’re not at your best. They’re actually disappointed if you don’t reach out to them when you’re sad. They want to talk to you when you feel weak or low not because misery loves company, but because they know you’re a human being. You cycle through an array of emotions and the person you’re dating wants to experience it with you.

            9. You can enjoy quiet time without each other without worrying what to say next

            Rest in peace awkward silence, you just don’t have these moments anymore. The silence is peaceful and charges the air with loving, comforting energy. Sometimes a glance in the eyes or a smile says it all. For many, enjoying the company of someone else in silence for the first time is the official point of reaching ultimate comfort with the one you’re dating. When the person you’re dating helps you clean up your house, car, or helps you with any weakness, you know they care. How relieving is it that you get to continue being your awesome self and appreciated for it? Soak in every comforting moment, confide in them, and know that your possessions are only just that. Every bit of what you have to say is appreciated, whether it’s a corny joke or you’re suffering a loss. Everyone likes feeling acknowledged. The beauty about dating this person is that they never expected you to impress them anyway.

            Featured photo credit: Woman with hair blowing in wind by Michael Fertig via Magdeleine

            Featured photo credit: by Michael Fertig via magdeleine.co

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            50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

            50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

            Life is filled with highs and lows —happiness and struggles that will test your resilience and integrity, push you to overcome challenges and leave you with lessons that will make you even stronger on your way up.

            It’s the way you feel and think about yourself, including your expectations and beliefs about what is possible to you, greatly determines everything that happens to you.

            It all starts with your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, you transform the quality of your life. (Right, Nancy’s story is a typical example!)

            Below is a list of the best motivational quotes to inspire you to start your day with a blast:

            Quotes for self-assurance

            1. Don’t downgrade your dream just to fit your reality, upgrade your conviction to match your destiny.

              2. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.

                3. You are confined only by the walls you build yourself.

                  4. The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others

                    5. You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want great, then be great.

                      6. It’s not who you are that holds you behind, it’s who you think your are not.

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                        7. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think of what could go right.

                          8. You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it is experience.

                            9. Falling down is an accident, staying down is a choice.

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                              10. If you have the power to make someone happy, do it. The world needs more of that.

                                11. Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.

                                  12. Don’t be afraid to give up the good and go for great.

                                    13. Remember that life’s greatest lessons are usually learned from worst times and from the worst mistakes.

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                                      14. Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.

                                        15. Never stop doing great just because someone doesn’t give you credit.

                                          16. Discipline is doing what needs to be done, even if you don’t want to.

                                            17. Work while they sleep. Learn while they party. Save while they spend. Live like they dream.

                                              18. The key to success is to focus our conscious mind on things we desire, not things we fear.

                                                19. Never apologize for having high standards, people who really want to be in your life will rise to meet them.

                                                  20. If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.

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                                                    21. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it, time will pass anyway.

                                                      22. Don’t fear failure. Fear being in the exact same place next year as you are today.

                                                        23. A hill is just another opportunity to leave your competition behind.

                                                          24. Don’t quit. You’re already in pain. You’re already hurt. Get a reward from it.

                                                            25. Hustle until you no longer need to introduce yourself.

                                                              26. You didn’t come this far only to come this far.

                                                                27. Be selective in your battles for sometimes peace is better than being right.

                                                                  28 If we keep doing what we are doing, we’re going to keep getting what we’re getting.

                                                                    29. You will never know your limits until you push yourself to them.

                                                                      30. Do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do.

                                                                        31. The man on top of the mountain didn’t fall there.

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                                                                          32. If your dreams don’t scare you, they are not big enough.

                                                                            33. If you can’t handle stress, you won’t manage success.

                                                                              34. Don’t be pushed by your problems, be led by your dreams.

                                                                                35. Don’t mistake silence for weakness. Smart people don’t plan big moves out loud.

                                                                                  36. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

                                                                                    37. Obsessed is the word the lazy use to describe dedicated.

                                                                                      38. You become who you spend your time with.

                                                                                        39. Be stubborn about your goals and flexible about your methods.

                                                                                          40. Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.

                                                                                            41. If you don’t build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

                                                                                              42. Between stimulus and response is our greatest power –the freedom to choose.

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                                                                                                43. What comes easy won’t last, what lasts won’t come easy.

                                                                                                  44. Don’t limit your challenges, challenge your limits.

                                                                                                    45. Work until your idols become your rivals.

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                                                                                                      46. Formal education will make you a living. Self-education will make you a fortune.

                                                                                                        47. I create new enemies every day, it’s called business.

                                                                                                          48. When you have a Million Dollar vision, don’t surround yourself with 1 cent minds.

                                                                                                            49. You can’t get rich thinking poor.

                                                                                                              50. Doing what is comfortable is rarely profitable.

                                                                                                                51. If you can count your money, work harder.

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