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How Knowing More Than One Language Makes You Much More Empathetic

How Knowing More Than One Language Makes You Much More Empathetic

If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his own language, that goes to his heart.
‒Nelson Mandela

Have you ever tried to communicate with someone you cannot understand? There are many ways that we can understand another person. But to know them the best, attempting to share a language can be a great way to truly understanding somebody, and a direct route to their heart. It can also be an incredible way to further yourself as a human being, and it can create much more empathy within us as people. We can experience an absolute shift in our emotional range, when our horizons expand through new languages. Understanding another’s culture means understanding each other as an entire race – the human kind.

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It strengthens your mind and makes you more receptive to others’ emotions and personal experiences

Studies have shown that we can train our brains. Like any muscle, your brain is trained and developed into good health when you expand your knowledge. Our minds need constant feeding to be kept healthy, and to be able to continuously grow. The best way to connect our emotional growth with our mental health is to expand our knowledge and our learning. This means more than simply exercising a muscle, it means opening up our hearts too. When we learn a language, it makes us more intelligent; we are more creative, and more receptive to others’ emotions and personal experiences. We are also more connected with our fellow human beings; this happens when we learn to understand our differences.

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A study on infants and children that learn at least one other language during their development showed cognitive benefits as opposed to children who did not. Other studies report that there may be scientific evidence for the protection against diseases like Alzheimer’s and Dementia in patients that have learned more than one language in their lifetime. The theory is similar to the idea of flexing a muscle; the brain is kept healthy with the knowledge of multiple languages- even into old age.

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It allows deeper kind of self-reflection

You cannot learn a language in one day, it’s just not possible. Just like how you can’t learn all there is to know about the world in a day, a month, a year or even a lifetime. But there is something in the heart, mind, or the soul one might say, that connects us more deeply when we communicate through certain languages; through a persons native tongue. It shows a kind of respect and common ground, allowing a connection that runs much deeper than the surface.
Being bilingual for example, means tapping into further parts of our brain, like a stretched and flexed muscle. We become open to furthering our creativity, which then allows us a deeper kind of self-reflection and insight into our world. We also better understand our beliefs, and our passions by having a view of this greater picture we develop. We are boosting our brain power and boosting our ideas.

It enables you to integrate with other cultures and understand people’s lifestyles

This asset is second to none. Our world opens up in so many new ways when we know another language. Obviously, we become more capable of understanding others, but we are also able to integrate with other cultures and understand people’s lifestyles. A language is like a universe, and so the more languages we know, the more universes open up to us. Studies further this theory by indicating that there is richness, depth of understanding, and knowledge, within children who are bilingual. Their minds are stretched beyond a simple one-track focus- beyond the mere understanding of their own immediate surrounds and single culture.  

One language sets you in a corridor for life. Two languages open every door along the way.
‒Frank Smith

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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