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How You Can Enjoy A Relationship By Dating Someone You Don’t Have To Impress

How You Can Enjoy A Relationship By Dating Someone You Don’t Have To Impress

Being in a relationship can be a fulfilling, loving experience – or it can be the total opposite. Some relationships can be stressful and upsetting, especially if you are going out with someone who you feel like you need to impress.
The best relationships are the ones where neither partner feels like they need to impress each other, as they love each other for who they are. Here are 6 things that happen when you are in a relationship with someone you don’t have to impress.

1. You Can Always Be Honest

Date someone who doesn’t make you want to lie. Date someone who won’t laugh at your embarrassing secrets. Date someone who wants to hear all of the stories from your childhood. Date someone who is interested in finding out your dreams and fears. Date someone who listens to you without judging you, someone who understands that everyone make mistakes. Date someone who can comfort you when you tell them sad stories from your past.

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2. They Will Still Want To Be In A Relationship With You When You’re Having A Bad Day

Date someone who wants to give you a hug after a hard day, instead of someone who doesn’t like to be around you when you’re in a bad mood. Date someone who supports you through both the good and bad times. Date someone who tells you that you can be yourself and still be loved and cared for. Date someone who still thinks you are amazing, even on your worst days.

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3. You Can Be Silly Together

Date someone who you are happy to be silly with. Date someone who embraces your silly side, rather than someone who makes you feel childish or stupid. Date someone who chooses to be silly with you, as it makes them just as happy as it makes you. Date someone who doesn’t expect you to behave in a certain way. Date someone who makes you cry with laughter. Date someone who can always put a smile on your face.

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4. They Won’t Care About Status Or Reputation

Date someone who doesn’t worry about what others think of them. Date someone who doesn’t care about impressing other people, because they are too busy having fun and enjoying their life. Date someone who doesn’t care about job titles or status. Date someone who is humble and grateful for what they already have. Date someone who doesn’t try to impress you. Date someone who doesn’t think of people as trophies to be collected.

5. They Will Always Think You Look Beautiful

Date someone who thinks you are truly beautiful, even when you’re tired, ill and pale. Date someone who doesn’t expect you to always make an effort with your appearance. Date someone who regularly compliments you, rather than someone who tries to put you down. Date someone who doesn’t compare you to other people, to make you feel less attractive or undesirable. Date someone who doesn’t think that beauty is the most important trait in a partner, and instead loves you for your personality.

6. They Will Accept You For Who You Are

Most importantly, date someone who accepts you for who you are. Date someone who loves every part of you, even your flaws. Date someone who doesn’t make you feel like you’re losing a race. Date someone who always gives you love and attention, so that you don’t feel like you need to compete for their affections. Date someone who accepts all of your flaws, and loves them. Date someone who tells you that you are perfect as you are. Date someone who doesn’t want to play games, because they are very happy with what they have already have.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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