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Five Ways To Maintain Happiness

Five Ways To Maintain Happiness

Happiness isn’t necessarily challenging, but many people make it out to be. Anybody who is reading this post has free access to knowledge, which is absolutely free. Sure, we experience hardships and adversity, but if you compare it to children who have no access to clean water to bathe or drink, food to eat, clothing or shelter, then you’ll realize your problems always have a defined solution. Learn how to rationalize and use deductive logic; these tools will help you overcome any adversity that you may face. When misfortunes fall upon us, they are due to our wrongdoings; they don’t apply to anybody else. Be held accountable for what you do and only blame yourself.

Handle Your Responsibilities

Bills are a part of life, and we all wish they paid for themselves–but they won’t. These tasks mentioned are small potatoes on the scale of responsibilities. Handling your labor is important, but looking after your health is number one. The first path on the way to being disciplined is being conscious of what you put into your body. Dietary habits play a huge part in your emotional stability. The quote you are what you eat is one of the truest statements of life. You could be aesthetically pleasing to others eyes, but eat horribly, which may cause you to be irritable and moody.

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Love Yourself More Every Single Day

Sometimes you need to be a little selfish–which implies you aren’t considering others; this isn’t true. Everyone needs to dedicate time to themselves. Solitude doesn’t only increase productivity and focus, but it helps you reflect on what’s happening in your life. Self-discovery is a resource you need to tap into every day. And if you aren’t willing to love yourself, then you won’t be capable of discovering yourself. Enjoy who you are, and devote the same amount of love you give to others to yourself. Happiness is only achieved by being sure of yourself, and recognizing when things are starting to go sour. Once the warning signs are addressed, you will alleviate your stress.

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Be Honest With Yourself

It’s commendable and respectable not to lie to others. What is that even worth if you’re constantly lying to yourself? The answer is absolutely nothing. Face the reality of what you’re going up against and fight. And when you aren’t experiencing adversity or turmoil, be thankful for the peaceful times, and understand your mentality is what makes or breaks you. If you’re truly happy, then being at peace during the rough times is possible with the correct perspective. Just ensure you’re well aware of your environment and love the good times and the bad. For a rainbow to exude its beauty, the storm must pass.

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Live In The Moment

Every moment is fleeting, and our time on this earth is short. Everything that we experience is only temporary; nothing lasts forever. Focus on the now, and what you can do to enhance the situation to workout in your favor. Getting comfortable during times of peace isn’t a suitable practice. Letting your guard down isn’t necessary. Always ascertain the beauty of every moment, and build for the future today.

Honor Your Family

These individuals don’t have to be blood-related. This really means anyone who genuinely cares about your well-being (which won’t be a lot of people), because those who truly care have to know who you are. And most people won’t truly know you, they just have an opinion and know about you. Look after them at all costs, spend time with them, and enjoy each others company. This level of companionship is insurmountable and infinitely precious.

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Last Updated on January 3, 2020

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

 I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

 2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

7. Positive people smile a lot!

When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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8. People who are positive are great communicators.

They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

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