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Why People Who Have Much Younger Siblings Are Amazing Friends

Why People Who Have Much Younger Siblings Are Amazing Friends

Do you have younger siblings? Do you remember growing up having to put aside what you wanted to do because you needed to help your parents out? Sure, as a child that may have been frustrating, but as an adult you must have found that having younger siblings taught you valuable lessons from an early start.

Often, those who have younger siblings assume a parental role early on in life. Younger siblings view older siblings as an authority figure in just about everything. Personally, being an older sister has afforded me many valuable life lessons from an early age, and have benefited me into my adult years.

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Here are a few common characteristics of people who have much younger siblings:

They Take Pride In Taking Care Of Others

Having a younger sibling affords the older sibling a duty to take care of others from an early beginning. This transpires into their adult lives. Friends who have younger siblings naturally come to the rescue when someone they know needs help. It has become their second nature, and they take pride in their ability to take this initiative.

They Are More Mature Than Their Peers

I know this first hand. I have two younger siblings, and I can recall memories from my childhood where my friends would call me “boring” or “not fun” because I would often become critical of immature behaviour. Being an older sister required me to put aside childlike tendencies, and assume a more mature role. This trait has continued to resonate in my adult life, although I feel my peers are finally catching up at this point!

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People with younger siblings are molded into a role that requests that they lead by example and demonstrate responsible decision making.

They Are More Responsible

When you have a younger sibling or two, maybe even three, your parents have probably asked you to take on more responsibility when you were younger. Whether it would be caring for your younger siblings by watching them, playing with them, or teaching them, you were trained at an early age to assume the leading role. Often, people with younger siblings are more responsible in their adult lives, because they were ingrained with this sense of duty.

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They’re Natural Leaders

People who have younger siblings have natural tendencies to act like parents. They tend to look out for others, offer guidance, and generally lead. Because of these traits, those with younger siblings tend to be that friend that can act a little maternal at times.

They Have Keen Self-Awareness

Often when you assume the role of a caregiver at an early age, it requires that you have keen awareness. Meaning, you have awareness of others that you serve, but you’re also mindful and completely aware of what you need as well. Because of this keen self-awareness, those who have younger siblings can be the type of people you’ll often want to call upon when life gets tough.

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They Are Considerate

Being an older sibling requires that you be considerate of others and this starts at a very early age. It isn’t always about you, and those with younger siblings know this first hand. When it comes to friendships, those who have had to put others in front of themselves make great friends, since they learned to be considerate and compassionate from a young age.

Conclusion

If you have younger siblings, or have a friend that has younger siblings, you will likely notice them having the traits listed above. These traits are what help an individual become more reliable and a better lifelong friend. You will definitely want to keep someone like this around!

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Last Updated on October 15, 2018

Why Helping Others Actually Helps Yourself

Why Helping Others Actually Helps Yourself

Helping others: it’s a fundamental part of humanity, bonding together and helping a fellow man or woman. In times of tragedy, the stories of those who help others are inspiring, such as helping the nation recover from national disasters and terrorist attacks. Some men and women even devote their lives to helping others, from the police force that protects our cities, to the fire departments who run into burning buildings, to the service men and women who risk their lives for the common good.

“No one has ever become poor by giving.” ― Anne Frank, diary of Anne Frank

But helping others isn’t limited to these grand gestures or times of tribulation. Helping others can be done each and every day. And contrary to what you may have heard, helping others doesn’t always have to be a selfless act. It’s important to understand that helping others can actually help yourself. No matter what the motivation, getting out and helping others is the key. So in that spirit of motivation, here are 5 reasons why helping others actually helps yourself.

1. Quid Pro Quo

When you help someone, they will be more likely to help you. This is the basic, unspoken agreement that fuels nearly every move. I’ll spend my entire day lugging boxes, but you owe me. It’s much easier to find help when someone knows you’d do the same for them. They may not always live up to their end of the bargin, and you may not either. But if you help enough people and do many good deeds, it will be given back when needed.

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2. Karma goes both ways.

All too often, the idea of Karma is described in a negative way. If you do bad, bad will come find you. But it works the other way too. When you are a good person and help people, good things seem to happen. And while you may not believe in an inter-connected universe that rewards good deeds, there is something to be said about how helping others changes your perspective. When you’re helping others, you will often feel better about yourself, increasing the likelihood that your next experience will be a positive one, rather than a negative one.

3. Doing good feels good.

It’s maybe the most cited benefit of doing good: you’ll feel great. Helping others is a great way to feel better about yourself. Seeing a smile or even tears of joy makes it all worth it. It’s as simple as that.

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4. Good publicity is the best publicity.

People notice when you’re doing good. It may not be the reason you help out, but someone is always watching. Even the simplest gesture can make an awesome impression.

When I was in college, I had a class that helped out at a school for a full day. I worked with a small group of high school students who were incredibly interested in writing, and I had a great time. I asked the teacher if I could come back on my own time and work with these students to finish this project we were working on, to which she agreed.

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I went two more times that week, thinking nothing more about it. Fast forward a few weeks: I received a letter in the mail stating I had been chosen as a Presidential Grant Recipient for the summer and received a $2,000 stipend to work with a group of students and professors on a research project over the summer. I was floored, as I hadn’t even applied. I was nominated by that teacher who appreciated the work I did with her students. It wasn’t expected, but helping others ended up opening a door I never would have known was even available.

5. Helping others looks good on a resume or application.

Is your resume looking a little thin? Does your college application need a bit of pizzaz? Volunteering your time and energy to help others makes your resume and applications look as good as it makes you feel. Hiring managers look favorably on volunteer work and many acceptance committees use it to separate similar candidates. So read to some first graders, volunteer at the homeless shelter, and volunteer at your local Boys and Girl Club. Your resume will thank you.

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