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Why People Who Have Much Younger Siblings Are Amazing Friends

Why People Who Have Much Younger Siblings Are Amazing Friends

Do you have younger siblings? Do you remember growing up having to put aside what you wanted to do because you needed to help your parents out? Sure, as a child that may have been frustrating, but as an adult you must have found that having younger siblings taught you valuable lessons from an early start.

Often, those who have younger siblings assume a parental role early on in life. Younger siblings view older siblings as an authority figure in just about everything. Personally, being an older sister has afforded me many valuable life lessons from an early age, and have benefited me into my adult years.

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Here are a few common characteristics of people who have much younger siblings:

They Take Pride In Taking Care Of Others

Having a younger sibling affords the older sibling a duty to take care of others from an early beginning. This transpires into their adult lives. Friends who have younger siblings naturally come to the rescue when someone they know needs help. It has become their second nature, and they take pride in their ability to take this initiative.

They Are More Mature Than Their Peers

I know this first hand. I have two younger siblings, and I can recall memories from my childhood where my friends would call me “boring” or “not fun” because I would often become critical of immature behaviour. Being an older sister required me to put aside childlike tendencies, and assume a more mature role. This trait has continued to resonate in my adult life, although I feel my peers are finally catching up at this point!

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People with younger siblings are molded into a role that requests that they lead by example and demonstrate responsible decision making.

They Are More Responsible

When you have a younger sibling or two, maybe even three, your parents have probably asked you to take on more responsibility when you were younger. Whether it would be caring for your younger siblings by watching them, playing with them, or teaching them, you were trained at an early age to assume the leading role. Often, people with younger siblings are more responsible in their adult lives, because they were ingrained with this sense of duty.

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They’re Natural Leaders

People who have younger siblings have natural tendencies to act like parents. They tend to look out for others, offer guidance, and generally lead. Because of these traits, those with younger siblings tend to be that friend that can act a little maternal at times.

They Have Keen Self-Awareness

Often when you assume the role of a caregiver at an early age, it requires that you have keen awareness. Meaning, you have awareness of others that you serve, but you’re also mindful and completely aware of what you need as well. Because of this keen self-awareness, those who have younger siblings can be the type of people you’ll often want to call upon when life gets tough.

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They Are Considerate

Being an older sibling requires that you be considerate of others and this starts at a very early age. It isn’t always about you, and those with younger siblings know this first hand. When it comes to friendships, those who have had to put others in front of themselves make great friends, since they learned to be considerate and compassionate from a young age.

Conclusion

If you have younger siblings, or have a friend that has younger siblings, you will likely notice them having the traits listed above. These traits are what help an individual become more reliable and a better lifelong friend. You will definitely want to keep someone like this around!

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Last Updated on August 20, 2018

Quit Your Job If You Don’t Like It, No Matter What

Quit Your Job If You Don’t Like It, No Matter What

Do you know that feeling? The one where you have to wake up to go to your boring 9-5 job to work with the same boring colleagues who don’t appreciate what you do.

I do, and that’s why I’ve decided to quit my job and follow my passion. This, however, requires a solid plan and some guts.

The one who perseveres doesn’t always win. Sometimes life has more to offer when you quit your current job. Yes, I know. It’s overwhelming and scary.

People who quit are often seen as ‘losers’. They say: “You should finish what you’ve started”.

I know like no other that quitting your job can be very stressful. A dozen questions come up when you’re thinking about quitting your job, most starting with: What if?

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“What if I don’t find a job I love and regret quitting my current job?”
“What if I can’t find another job and I get in debt because I can’t pay my bills?”
“What if my family and friends judge me and disapprove of the decisions I make?”
“What if I quit my job to pursue my dream, but I fail?

After all, if you admit to the truth of your surroundings, you’re forced to acknowledge that you’ve made a wrong decision by choosing your current job. But don’t forget that quitting certain things in life can be the path to your success!

One of my favorite quotes by Henry Ford:

If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.

Everything takes energy

Everything you do in life takes energy. It takes energy to participate in your weekly activities. It takes energy to commute to work every day. It takes energy to organize your sister’s big wedding.

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Each of the responsibilities we have take a little bit of our energy. We only have a certain amount of energy a day, so we have to spend it wisely.  Same goes for our time. The only things we can’t buy in this world are time and energy. Yes, you could buy an energy drink, but will it feel the same as eight hours of sleep? Will it be as healthy?

The more stress there is in your life, the less focus you have. This will weaken your results.

Find something that is worth doing

Do you have to quit every time the going gets touch? Absolutely not! You should quit when you’ve put everything you’ve got into something, but don’t see a bright future in it.

When you do something you love and that has purpose in your life, you should push through and give everything you have.

I find star athletes very inspiring. They don’t quit till they step on that stage to receive their hard earned gold medal. From the start, they know how much work its going to take and what they have to sacrifice.

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When you do something you’re really passionate about, you’re not in a downward spiral. Before you even start you can already see the finish line. The more focus you have for something, the faster you’ll reach the finish.

It is definitely possible to spend your valuable time on something you love and earn money doing it. You just have to find out how — by doing enough research.

Other excuses I often hear are:

“But I have my wife and kids, who is going to pay the bills?”
“I don’t have time for that, I’m too busy with… stuff” (Like watching TV for 2 hours every day.)
“At least I get the same paycheck every month if I work for a boss.”
“Quitting my job is too much risk with this crisis.”

I understand those points. But if you’ve never tried it, you’ll never know how it could be. The fear of failure keeps people from stepping out of their comfort zone.

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I’ve heard many people say, “I work to let my children make their dream come true”. I think they should rephrase that sentence to: “I pursue my dreams — to inspire and show my children anything is possible.” 

Conclusion

Think carefully about what you spend your time on. Don’t waste it on things that don’t brighten your future. Instead, search for opportunities. And come up with a solid plan before you take any impulsive actions.

Only good things happen outside of your comfort zone.

Do you dare to quit your job for more success in life?

Featured photo credit: Jadon Barnes via images.unsplash.com

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