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5 Ways To Help Bless The Lives Of Those Around You

5 Ways To Help Bless The Lives Of Those Around You

There’s no argument that modern society is geared toward the “self.” Many of the interpersonal and community problems faced by people and groups all over the world are due to seemingly unquenchable desires to satisfy impulses. Decay within neighborhoods and a general distancing of people from one another is a direct result of self-centeredness and a popular (if not fashionable) attitude of personal aggrandizement. Positively affecting the people around you requires setting aside some selfie time for exercises in reconnecting with the greater human sphere. Here are five ways to truly impact the people around you.

Notice a Common Need and Act

Several recent news features have highlighted the actions of young people overwhelmed with the need to help their community. These actions range from mowing people’s lawns, to playing piano at a local nursing home, some people even cut hair for the homeless. Identify one of your talents, or skills and offer them for free to people needing them. Consider all the times in life when someone helped you out and pay it forward to society. There are tons of opportunities out there for things like this. All you have to do is look for them. It really is amazing how much of an impact the smallest acts of service can have.

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Volunteer at Schools and in Community Non-Profits

Many non-profit education, arts, and community improvement organizations are desperately searching for volunteers to run programs and guide participants. The great thing about these organizations is that they are found everywhere (so there is no excuse). Everyone who uses non-profits is looking for help and guidance in some area. Being a volunteer enables you to directly affect the improvement of someone’s life. There is absolutely nothing better you can do with your time than to get out and serve.

Take Time to Listen and Observe

Modern society is loud and sometimes overly aggressive. Many people are looking for others who can zero-in on them on an interpersonal level. Take a few minutes each day to observe the world silently. This will slowly instill the ability to find deeper meanings in mundane things. A refined ability to listen, comprehend without judgement, and participate in meaningful conversations is a rare quality that can go a long way. When the opportunity arises, you will be prepared to provide comfort to a neighbor in need of someone who is willing to listen.

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Consider Adoption

This is not an easy way to help those around you, but it is important. While utilizing the professional services of an accredited adoption agency, such as A Child’s Dream, it might be worth considering adopting a child. Abandoned and orphaned children are perhaps the largest portion of the world’s population that are in need of real human connection and stability. Adopting a child saves a life and builds close families.

Disconnect

The original impetus behind the rise and proliferation of technology and social media was bringing people closer together quickly, but the opposite seems to have occurred. In order to discover how you can positively affects others, you may need to put down the smartphone for a while. Try to be one of the lucky few who rediscover what it is like to interact with others without the aid of a lithium battery.

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Logically, bettering the lives of other people requires certain sacrifices of personal luxuries and habits. Fortunately, helping others is a cascading endeavor. Once you start on the path of any humanitarian effort, it becomes easier and easier with every action. There’s a high probability that you might even enjoy it. Start small, but notice how every positive interpersonal action results in mutual goodwill. It really is amazing how much of a difference you will notice in your life when you take the time to find ways to serve.

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Last Updated on May 15, 2019

How to Tap Into the Power of Positivity

How to Tap Into the Power of Positivity

As it appears, the human mind is not capable of not thinking, at least on the subconscious level. Our mind is always occupied by thoughts, whether we want to or not, and they influence our every action.

“Happiness cannot come from without, it comes from within.” – Helen Keller

When we are still children, our thoughts seem to be purely positive. Have you ever been around a 4-year old who doesn’t like a painting he or she drew? I haven’t. Instead, I see glee, exciting and pride in children’s eyes. But as the years go by, we clutter our mind with doubts, fears and self-deprecating thoughts.

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Just imagine then how much we limit ourselves in every aspect of our lives if we give negative thoughts too much power! We’ll never go after that job we’ve always wanted because our nay-saying thoughts make us doubt our abilities. We’ll never ask that person we like out on a date because we always think we’re not good enough.

We’ll never risk quitting our job in order to pursue the life and the work of our dreams because we can’t get over our mental barrier that insists we’re too weak, too unimportant and too dumb. We’ll never lose those pounds that risk our health because we believe we’re not capable of pushing our limits. We’ll never be able to fully see our inner potential because we simply don’t dare to question the voices in our head.

But enough is enough! It’s time to stop these limiting beliefs and come to a place of sanity, love and excitement about life, work and ourselves.

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So…how exactly are we to achieve that?

It’s not as hard as it may seem; you just have to practice, practice, practice. Here are a few ideas on how you can get started.

1. Learn to substitute every negative thought with a positive one.

Every time a negative thought crawls into your mind, replace it with a positive thought. It’s just like someone writes a phrase you don’t like on a blackboard and then you get up, erase it and write something much more to your liking.

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2. See the positive side of every situation, even when you are surrounded by pure negativity.

This one is a bit harder to put into practice, which does not mean it’s impossible.

You can find positivity in everything by mentally holding on to something positive, whether this be family, friends, your faith, nature, someone’s sparkling eyes or whatever other glimmer of beauty. If you seek it, you will find it.

3. At least once a day, take a moment and think of 5 things you are grateful for.

This will lighten your mood and give you some perspective of what is really important in life and how many blessings surround you already.

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4. Change the mental images you allow to enter your mind.

How you see yourself and your surroundings make a huge difference to your thinking. It is like watching a DVD that saddens and frustrates you, completely pulling you down. Eject that old DVD, throw it away and insert a new, better, more hopeful one instead.

So, instead of dwelling on dark, negative thoughts, consciously build and focus on positive, light and colorful images, thoughts and situations in your mind a few times a day.

If you are persistent and keep on working on yourself, your mind will automatically reject its negative thoughts and welcome the positive ones.

And remember: You are (or will become) what you think you are. This is reason enough to be proactive about whatever is going on in your head.

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