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5 Ways To Help Bless The Lives Of Those Around You

5 Ways To Help Bless The Lives Of Those Around You

There’s no argument that modern society is geared toward the “self.” Many of the interpersonal and community problems faced by people and groups all over the world are due to seemingly unquenchable desires to satisfy impulses. Decay within neighborhoods and a general distancing of people from one another is a direct result of self-centeredness and a popular (if not fashionable) attitude of personal aggrandizement. Positively affecting the people around you requires setting aside some selfie time for exercises in reconnecting with the greater human sphere. Here are five ways to truly impact the people around you.

Notice a Common Need and Act

Several recent news features have highlighted the actions of young people overwhelmed with the need to help their community. These actions range from mowing people’s lawns, to playing piano at a local nursing home, some people even cut hair for the homeless. Identify one of your talents, or skills and offer them for free to people needing them. Consider all the times in life when someone helped you out and pay it forward to society. There are tons of opportunities out there for things like this. All you have to do is look for them. It really is amazing how much of an impact the smallest acts of service can have.

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Volunteer at Schools and in Community Non-Profits

Many non-profit education, arts, and community improvement organizations are desperately searching for volunteers to run programs and guide participants. The great thing about these organizations is that they are found everywhere (so there is no excuse). Everyone who uses non-profits is looking for help and guidance in some area. Being a volunteer enables you to directly affect the improvement of someone’s life. There is absolutely nothing better you can do with your time than to get out and serve.

Take Time to Listen and Observe

Modern society is loud and sometimes overly aggressive. Many people are looking for others who can zero-in on them on an interpersonal level. Take a few minutes each day to observe the world silently. This will slowly instill the ability to find deeper meanings in mundane things. A refined ability to listen, comprehend without judgement, and participate in meaningful conversations is a rare quality that can go a long way. When the opportunity arises, you will be prepared to provide comfort to a neighbor in need of someone who is willing to listen.

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Consider Adoption

This is not an easy way to help those around you, but it is important. While utilizing the professional services of an accredited adoption agency, such as A Child’s Dream, it might be worth considering adopting a child. Abandoned and orphaned children are perhaps the largest portion of the world’s population that are in need of real human connection and stability. Adopting a child saves a life and builds close families.

Disconnect

The original impetus behind the rise and proliferation of technology and social media was bringing people closer together quickly, but the opposite seems to have occurred. In order to discover how you can positively affects others, you may need to put down the smartphone for a while. Try to be one of the lucky few who rediscover what it is like to interact with others without the aid of a lithium battery.

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Logically, bettering the lives of other people requires certain sacrifices of personal luxuries and habits. Fortunately, helping others is a cascading endeavor. Once you start on the path of any humanitarian effort, it becomes easier and easier with every action. There’s a high probability that you might even enjoy it. Start small, but notice how every positive interpersonal action results in mutual goodwill. It really is amazing how much of a difference you will notice in your life when you take the time to find ways to serve.

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Last Updated on July 5, 2019

5 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Yourself

5 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Yourself

When it comes to being yourself, there can be a lot of pressure from the outside world as it tries to influence who you are. Living in a society that is constantly developing, it’s important for you to always be yourself from the inside out. When you deeply know yourself and the boundaries that you have set, you are more likely to experience a fulfilling and rewarding life. Without knowing yourself and establishing those boundaries, you can easily be pushed around and end up on a dirt path.

“Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it” – Matthew 7:13-14

You have the option of taking the path that is broad or taking the path that is narrow. You can either conform to what life wants you to be, or have the courage to remain true to yourself throughout the years. It’s definitely a challenge to have a strong sense of self when we are constantly getting distracted and being influenced by the media and society’s way of life. But if you want to reach your fullest potential in life, it all starts with being yourself.

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Why should you always be yourself?

Because you will:

  1. Live in alignment with your values and beliefs. Being yourself is all about knowing what you believe in and the values that you live by. When you are not yourself, you will take on the values and beliefs of others. This is when you start conforming to other people’s expectations and way of thinking. When you know your values and why you do what you do, you will live according to your own values and beliefs.
  2. Establish your own identity. When you are able to have a solid foundation of being you, you are establishing your own sense of identity. No matter what happens in your life, you will always know who you are. There will be times where you may feel lost or distracted, but if you have your own identity you’ll be able to get back on the right path. Without establishing your own identity, you may easily conform and lose yourself.
  3. Build courage. It takes a great amount of courage when you decide to take the path that goes against the crowd. The reason why the majority of people take the broad path is because it’s easy. It’s easy to just follow the crowd. It’s more of a challenge when you stay true to yourself and establish your own identity. This challenge of always being yourself takes courage and inner strength. No matter what comes your way, you’ll know how to handle it.
  4. Establish boundaries. When you are always yourself, you know what your limits are and the boundaries that you have set for yourself. When people cross your boundaries, you will know. But if you don’t establish boundaries, people may very well walk all over you and take advantage of you. If you are always yourself and you establish boundaries, you are more likely to be aware when people start taking advantage of you. Create and establish your boundaries.
  5. Find focus and direction. When you are always yourself, you are more likely to have focus and direction in your life. Imagine someone who is constantly conforming to other people’s expectations. Do you think this person has focus and direction? I don’t think so. When you stay true to who you are, you are more likely to know the goals you want to accomplish and how to go about accomplishing them. You are able to stay focused and know which direction to take in order for you to accomplish your goals.

No matter what you experience in life, the only person that will always remain constant is you.

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