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5 Sizzling Summer Dating Tips

5 Sizzling Summer Dating Tips

With summer right around the corner, millions of single people will experience summer flings, romance, and dates. Understanding how to make the most out of these dates is important.

Here are a few tips to get you ready!

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1. Date During Off-Peak Hours

While dinner and a movie starting at 7pm on Friday evening may seem like a good idea, it rarely is. You end up waiting for your table, have to rush through dinner just to make it to the movie, and then end up having to sit in the front row and crane your neck just to see the movie. Not fun!

Here’s a novel idea: Try dating during off-peak hours. Who’s to say an early morning coffee date or late night desert isn’t just as fun? Choosing less popular date times means you can focus less on your surroundings and more on your partner.

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2. Save Some Money

Dates can get pretty expensive if you aren’t careful. No matter who’s paying, just a couple of dates per week over the summer can drain your wallet pretty quickly. Don’t worry. There are plenty of ways to save money without being a cheapskate. Here are some ideas:

  • Maximize happy hour. Almost every bar or restaurant in town has a happy hour. Typically it starts right after standard work hours. Try meeting your date after work to grab some inexpensive drinks.
  • Hit up free events. If you live in an area with a younger demographic, chances are there will be some free events this summer, from outdoor concerts and street markets to art festivals and window shopping.
  • Enjoy a night in. There’s no need to go out all the time. Consider having a cozy backyard bonfire and enjoying a bottle of wine.

There are times to splurge and times to save. During the summer when you may be dating more than usual it’s important to conserve money when you can.

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3.  Enjoy a Picnic

One of the top summer date ideas is to dine al fresco. If there’s one thing that’s better than dining on a restaurant patio, it’s having your very own picnic. Choose a nearby park with lots of good people-watching, and pack a few of your favorite items. You can even pick up food to go if you don’t have time to prepare a meal. If you and your date are active people, consider bringing a Frisbee or soccer ball to play with.

 4. Make Sure You’re on the Same Page

There are differences between casual summer flings and serious, monogamous relationships. Make sure everyone is on the same page. Are you simply interested in having fun and going on casual dates, or are you looking for a serious partner? Depending on where you are in life, this could change. Just make sure you’re up front and honest with your dates.

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 5. Take a Day Trip

It’s hard to really get to know your date when you just spend an hour or two together every other weekend. If you’re interested in developing a deeper relationship with someone, consider going on a day trip. Options include going to the beach, lake, state fair, or a nearby city. By spending an entire day with someone, you’ll begin to learn more about who they really are and what they enjoy doing.  You will also become acquainted with any of their tendencies.

Rock the Summer Dating Scene

There’s no better time for dating than the summer. The weather is warm and there’s always something to do. While everyone has different tastes and ideas, you should try a few of these tips to ensure you make the most out of summer.

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Anna Johansson

Anna is a freelance writer, researcher, and business consultant.

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7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

What do I want to do with my life? It’s a question all of us think about at one point or another.

For some, the answer comes easily. For others, it takes a lifetime to figure out.

It’s easy to just go through the motions and continue to do what’s comfortable and familiar. But for those of you who seek fulfillment, who want to do more, these questions will help you paint a clearer picture of what you want to do with your life.

1. What are the things I’m most passionate about?

The first step to living a more fulfilling life is to think about the things that you’re passionate about.

What do you love? What fulfills you? What “work” do you do that doesn’t feel like work? Maybe you enjoy writing, maybe you love working with animals or maybe you have a knack for photography.

The point is, figure out what you love doing, then do more of it.

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2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

Think about your past experiences and the things in your life you’re most proud of.

How did those accomplishments make you feel? Pretty darn good, right? So why not try and emulate those experiences and feelings?

If you ran a marathon once and loved the feeling you had afterwards, start training for another one. If your child grew up to be a star athlete or musician because of your teachings, then be a coach or mentor for other kids.

Continue to do the things that have been most fulfilling for you.

3. If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have and what would I choose to do?

Here’s a cool exercise: Think about what you would do if you had no limits.

If you had all the money and time in the world, where would you go? What would you do? Who would you spend time with?

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These answers can help you figure out what you want to do with your life. It doesn’t mean you need millions of dollars to be happy though.

What it does mean is answering these questions will help you set goals to reach certain milestones and create a path toward happiness and fulfillment. Which leads to our next question …

4. What are my goals in life?

Goals are a necessary component to set you up for a happy future. So answer these questions:

Once you figure out the answers to each of these, you’ll have a much better idea of what you should do with your life.

5. Whom do I admire most in the world?

Following the path of successful people can set you up for success.

Think about the people you respect and admire most. What are their best qualities? Why do you respect them? What can you learn from them?

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You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.[1] So don’t waste your time with people who hold you back from achieving your dreams.

Spend more time with happy, successful, optimistic people and you’ll become one of them.

6. What do I not like to do?

An important part of figuring out what you want to do with your life is honestly assessing what you don’t want to do.

What are the things you despise? What bugs you the most about your current job?

Maybe you hate meetings even though you sit through 6 hours of them every day. If that’s the case, find a job where you can work more independently.

The point is, if you want something to change in your life, you need to take action. Which leads to our final question …

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7. How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?

Great accomplishments never come easy. If you want to do great things with your life, you’re going to have to make a great effort. That will probably mean putting in more hours the average person, getting outside your comfort zone and learning as much as you can to achieve as much as you can.

But here’s the cool part: it’s often the journey that is the most fulfilling part. It’s during these seemingly small, insignificant moments that you’ll often find that “aha” moments that helps you answer the question,

“What do I want to do with my life?”

So take the first step toward improving your life. You won’t regret it.

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