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5 Sizzling Summer Dating Tips

5 Sizzling Summer Dating Tips

With summer right around the corner, millions of single people will experience summer flings, romance, and dates. Understanding how to make the most out of these dates is important.

Here are a few tips to get you ready!

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1. Date During Off-Peak Hours

While dinner and a movie starting at 7pm on Friday evening may seem like a good idea, it rarely is. You end up waiting for your table, have to rush through dinner just to make it to the movie, and then end up having to sit in the front row and crane your neck just to see the movie. Not fun!

Here’s a novel idea: Try dating during off-peak hours. Who’s to say an early morning coffee date or late night desert isn’t just as fun? Choosing less popular date times means you can focus less on your surroundings and more on your partner.

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2. Save Some Money

Dates can get pretty expensive if you aren’t careful. No matter who’s paying, just a couple of dates per week over the summer can drain your wallet pretty quickly. Don’t worry. There are plenty of ways to save money without being a cheapskate. Here are some ideas:

  • Maximize happy hour. Almost every bar or restaurant in town has a happy hour. Typically it starts right after standard work hours. Try meeting your date after work to grab some inexpensive drinks.
  • Hit up free events. If you live in an area with a younger demographic, chances are there will be some free events this summer, from outdoor concerts and street markets to art festivals and window shopping.
  • Enjoy a night in. There’s no need to go out all the time. Consider having a cozy backyard bonfire and enjoying a bottle of wine.

There are times to splurge and times to save. During the summer when you may be dating more than usual it’s important to conserve money when you can.

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3.  Enjoy a Picnic

One of the top summer date ideas is to dine al fresco. If there’s one thing that’s better than dining on a restaurant patio, it’s having your very own picnic. Choose a nearby park with lots of good people-watching, and pack a few of your favorite items. You can even pick up food to go if you don’t have time to prepare a meal. If you and your date are active people, consider bringing a Frisbee or soccer ball to play with.

 4. Make Sure You’re on the Same Page

There are differences between casual summer flings and serious, monogamous relationships. Make sure everyone is on the same page. Are you simply interested in having fun and going on casual dates, or are you looking for a serious partner? Depending on where you are in life, this could change. Just make sure you’re up front and honest with your dates.

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 5. Take a Day Trip

It’s hard to really get to know your date when you just spend an hour or two together every other weekend. If you’re interested in developing a deeper relationship with someone, consider going on a day trip. Options include going to the beach, lake, state fair, or a nearby city. By spending an entire day with someone, you’ll begin to learn more about who they really are and what they enjoy doing.  You will also become acquainted with any of their tendencies.

Rock the Summer Dating Scene

There’s no better time for dating than the summer. The weather is warm and there’s always something to do. While everyone has different tastes and ideas, you should try a few of these tips to ensure you make the most out of summer.

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Last Updated on April 8, 2020

11 Things Overachievers Do Differently

11 Things Overachievers Do Differently

We all know some overachievers: supermoms who manage to get online degrees between cleaning, cooking, and taking kids to practice; students who write 10-page papers when the directions call for 4; managers whose resumes look more like pages from the Guinness book of Records.

How do they do it all? How is it possible that one person can graduate at the top of their class, found an orphanage in India, run 30k marathons, write a best-selling book, travel all over the world and learn to speak Mandarin Chinese while having a full-time job?

What’s the secret of an overachiever? Here’re 11 things overachievers do differently that you can learn from.

1. They Know How to Manage Their Time

It’s pretty simple actually – you can never become an overachiever if you don’t know how to organize your time efficiently.

The great thing is that overachievers are ready to share their knowledge and time management talent with the rest of the world. Read The 4-Hour Workweek or The 4-Hour Body by Timothy Ferriss, and you’ll know what I’m talking about.

2. They Don’t Spend Hours Watching TV or Playing Computer Games

Mostly because they have better things to do, like exercising, reading, spending an evening with their family or volunteering to work in the local soup kitchen. Their philosophy is simple – the world is full of wonderful things to try, explore and experience. Watching TV is not one of them.

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3. They Are Obsessed With Perfection

Imagine Steve Jobs’ work approach and you’ll understand the level of perfection and painfully high standards that overachievers set for themselves and those around them. Often it pays off (especially if they focus on just one domain). But sometimes compulsive over-striving turns into a sure-fire road to disappointments and unfinished tasks.

Learn how to strike a balance: How Not to Let Perfectionism Secretly Screw You Up

4. They Know How To Inspire

Overachievers learn quickly that it is much easier to achieve goals through collaboration (and especially delegation). So they know how to inspire, encourage, persuade and motivate people around them. Even though they often drive their team crazy with their stubbornness and perfectionism, people quickly follow under the spell of their enthusiasm and greater vision.

Learn these 10 Powerful Ways to Influence People Positively.

5. They Set Clear Goals

The term “overachiever” itself implies that they know how to achieve goals. That is kind of hard to do if your goals are vague, unclear and lack specific deadline, which is why overachievers educate themselves, read goal-setting books, and think about the best way to approach a new task.

Although, it’s worth mentioning that overachievers usually use their time management and goal-setting skills towards competitive, “I want to kick butt” type of goals rather than self-improvement, mastery goals.

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Take a look at these tips to help you set clearer goals: What Are SMART Goals (And How to Use Them to Become Successful)

6. They Are Organized

It’s hard to imagine a disorganized overachiever, isn’t it? Their great organizational and planning skills usually serve three main purposes: keeping track of time, keeping track of progress and keeping track of achievements.

This hasn’t been confirmed by scientific research yet, but overachievers might actually get a “runner’s high” from crossing tasks off their to-do lists, and making new to-do lists.

Here’s How to Organize Your Life: 10 Habits of Really Organized People

7. They Try to Avoid Failure at All Costs

Some psychologists believe that overachievers place their self-worth on their competence, driven by an underlying fear of failure. Rather than setting and striving for goals based on a pure desire to achieve, their core motivation becomes avoiding failure. This may explain the fact that overachiever beat themselves up for even little setbacks and seemingly-insignificant mistakes.

But be aware that having a strong fear of failure can wrek havoc your productivity. So the best thing to do? Learn to conquer the fear: Why You Have the Fear of Failure (And How to Conquer It)

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8. They Love Awards

Who doesn’t love them, right? True enough, but unlike most people who like to feel acknowledged and appreciated for their efforts, overachievers are bent on collecting ‘awards’, be it university degrees, spelling bee prizes or unusual destinations.

While loving awares isn’t bad, it’s even better if you’re driven by internal motivation instead of external ones which could be quite uncontrolable or unstable: Why Is Internal Motivation So Powerful (And How to Find It).

9. They Don’t Understand the Concept of Work Hours

Don’t get surprised if you receive a work-related email anywhere between 8 p.m. and midnight. It’s something overachievers usually do and you weren’t the only one. At least 20 more emails have been sent during these hours to other people. The concepts of over-achieving and working overtime usually go hand in hand.

The downside of this is an imbalnced life, which may need to problems in other aspects of life including health and relationships. A better way is to Achieve a Realistic Work Life Balance.

10. They Rest

Overachievers might often be labeled as “workaholics”, because they often ignore bodily signs of hunger, fatigue and even a full bladder, hoping to finish just one last little part. This doesn’t mean that overachievers don’t know how to disconnect and relax.

True that they tend to work in the highest gear, but they also have enough sense to give themselves time to rest and recharge. Of course, they do it in their own overachieving way, preferring climbing Mount Kilimanjaro or hiking through the Amazon jungle to lazing on the beach.

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11. Overachievers Continuously Educate Themselves

A great quality that most overachievers have is the hunger for knowledge. They surround themselves with bright people. They know how to listen, and most importantly, they get tons of mentoring.

Despite the fact that overachievers want to excel at everything they set their minds on, they are humble enough to admit that to get on top of their game, they need help. And they are willing to pay someone to push, coach and guide them.

You too can learn How to Create a Habit of Continuous Learning for a Better You.

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