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11 Hidden Signs You’re Highly Empathetic But You May Not Even Notice That

11 Hidden Signs You’re Highly Empathetic But You May Not Even Notice That

Have you been hearing the word “empathy” everywhere? Have you wondered how empathy or an empathetic person is defined? To put it simply, it is the ability to step into the shoes of other people, with the aim to better understand their feelings so you can further discover who they are and what drives them to make particular decisions. Maybe you suspect you’re highly empathetic, but you’re not exactly sure. Let’s dig a little bit deeper here and find out:

1. Being in Public Places is Extremely Stressful

It’s not that you don’t like other people, highly empathetic people are extremely sensitive. Meaning, they are highly tuned in to others’ emotions and energy. Being in a public place with a lot of people is essentially overstimulating.

2. Labeled as Moody

An empathetic person will most likely share their mood with the world regardless of whether their mood is shy, disconnected, happy, crabby or filled with joy. Because of the highly sensitive nature of an empathetic person, they can appear moody and are often labeled as emotionally unstable.

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3. Battles with Fatigue

Empathetic people tend to be plagued with fatigue or low levels of energy. It’s almost as if being surrounded by other people sucks their life energy from them.

4. Human Lie Detector

Highly empathetic people are acutely tuned into others’ energy, so being able to sense when someone is being dishonest is an innate skill.

5. Need for Alone Time

The need to be alone is a must when you’re constantly digesting others’ energy. Think of it as a time to recharge.

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6. Enjoys Daydreaming

A unique characteristic of an empathetic person is one who thoroughly enjoys the act of daydreaming. It affords the highly sensitive person a moment to create blissful happiness on their own terms.

7. Knowledge Seeker

To go without an answer to a question is a big no to a highly empathetic person. They are constantly seeking an explanation and an answer to their burning questions.

8. A Free Spirit

Empathetic people are usually called free spirits. They enjoy traveling, random adventures, and personal freedoms. Because during travel and adventures, they can understand more about different people and cultures, and also more about themselves. This is a gift, and more often like a mission.

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9. Rules and Routine are Torture

Empathetic people value their freedom and ability to flow with the wind. Anything that slightly resembles a routine instantly blocks their flow of energy, which in turn feels like imprisonment to this highly sensitive person.

10. Easily Bored or Distracted

Work, relationships, school and home life needs to be interesting to a highly empathetic person otherwise they tend to lose interest. If an empathetic person has lost interest you will often find them daydreaming or finding other activities to do for further stimulation.

11. Creative Force

This highly sensitive person is a creative beings they have a lot of insights when having a deep understanding of different people. They have strong creative needs and desires and require outlets for creativity to flow on a consistent basis.

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Conclusion

Maybe you just realized you’re a highly empathetic person and were not aware of that before, or you already knew it going into this article.  Either way, some researchers say approximately twenty percent of the population are highly empathetic people, which is refreshing to know you’re not alone.  Some days being empathetic may seem like a cur, but don’t forget you have a gift that allows you keen awareness to understand what others are going through.

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Last Updated on June 19, 2019

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

I’ve stood on the edge of my own personal cliffs many times. Each time I jumped, something different happened. There were risks that started off great, but eventually faded. There were risks that left me falling until I hit the ground. There were risks that started slow, but built into massive successes.

Every risk is different, but every risk is the same. You need to have some fundamentals ready before you jump, but not too many.

It wouldn’t be a risk if you knew everything that was about to happen, would it? Here’re 6 ways to be a successful risk taker.

1. Understand That Failure Is Going to Happen a Lot

It’s part of life. Everything we do has failure attached to it. All successful people have stories of massive failure attached to them. Thinking that your risk is going to be pain free and run as smooth as silk is insane.

Expect some pain and failure. Actually, expect a lot of it. Expect the sleepless nights with crazy thoughts of insecurity that leave you trembling under the covers. It’s going to happen, no matter how positive you are about the risk you are about to take.

When failure hits, the only options are to keep going or quit. If you expect falling into a meadow of flowers and frolicking unicorns, then you’re going to immediately quit once you realize that getting to that meadow requires you to go through a rock filled cave filled with hungry bats.

2. Trust the Muse

Writing a story isn’t a big risk. It’s really just a risk on my time. So when I start writing a story, I’m scared it will be time wasted. Of course, it never really is. Even if the story doesn’t turn out fabulous, I still practiced.

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When I’ve taken risks in my life, the successful ones always seemed to happen when I followed the muse. Steven Pressfield describes the muse,

“The Muse demands depth. Shallow does not work for her. If we’re seeking her help, we can’t stay in the kiddie end. When we work, we have to go hard and go deep.”

The muse is a goddess who wants our attention and wants us to work on our passion.

If you’re taking a risk in anything, it’s assumed that there is some passion built up behind that risk. That passion, deep inside you, is the muse. Trust it, focus on it, listen to it.

The most successful articles and stories I write are the ones I’ve focused all my attention on. There were no interruptions during their creative development. I didn’t check my phone or go watch my Twitter feed. I was fully engaged in my work.

Trust the muse, focus your attention on your risk, let the ideas and path develop themselves, and leave the distractions at the side of the road.

3. Remember to Be Authentic

Taking a risk and then turning into something you’re not, is only going to lead to disaster. Whether you are risking a new relationship or new opportunity, you must be yourself throughout the entire process.

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How many times have you acted like you loved something just because the men or woman you just started going out with loved it?

For example, I’m not an office worker. I have an incredibly hard time working in a confined timeline (ie. 9-5). That’s why I write. I can do it whenever the mood strikes, I don’t have somebody breathing down my neck, telling me that I’m five minutes late, or missed a comma somewhere. I don’t have to walk on eggshells wondering if what I’m writing will get me fired or make me lose a promotion. I can just be myself, period.

One girlfriend didn’t understand that. She believed solely in the 9-5 motto, specifically something in human resources because that was a very stable job. I was scared for my future, but I stuck with the relationship because of my own insecurities and acted like I would do it to make her happy.

Here’s a tip: NEVER take away from your happiness to make somebody else satisfied (note I didn’t say happy).

Making somebody else happy will make you happy. Doing something to satisfy somebody is murder on your soul.

4. Don’t Take Any Risks While You’re Not Clearheaded

I’d been considering the risk for a couple weeks. It all sounded good. I was 22 and I could be rich in a couple of years. That’s what they were selling me, anyways.

One night, while at a house party with some friends, I found myself at a computer. A couple of my friends were standing nearby and asked me what I was doing. I told them I was considering starting my own business and it was only going to cost me $1,500.

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Of course, when a bunch of drunk people are surrounded by more drunk people, things get enthusiastic. It sounded like the best business venture in the world to everybody, including me. So I signed up and gave them my credit card number.

A few painful months and close to $4,000 dollars lost later, I quit the business. I was young and fell into the pyramid scheme trap. It was an expensive drunk decision.

Drinking heavily and making decisions has a proven track record of failure. So when you have something important to decide, don’t let your emotions take over your brain.

5. Fully Understand What You’re Risking

It was the start of my baseball comeback. I got a tryout with a professional scout and killed it. After the tryout, he talked to my girlfriend and myself, making sure we understood I would be gone for up to 6 months at a time. That strain on the relationship could be tough.

We understood. I left to play ball, chose to stay in the city I played in, and a year later we broke up. Not because of baseball, see point 3 above. Taking big risks can have massive impacts on everything in your life from relationships to money. Know what you’re risking before you take the risk.

If you believe the risk will be worth it or you have the support you need from your family, then go ahead and make the leap.

You can get more guidance on how to take calculated risks from this article: How to Take Calculated Risk to Achieve More and Become Successful

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6. Remember This Is Your One Shot Only

As far as we know officially, this is our one shot at life, so why not take some risks?

The top thing people are saddened by on their deathbeds are these regrets. They wish they did more, asked that girl in the coffee shop out, spoke out when they should have, or did what they were passionate about.

Don’t regret. Learn and experience. Live. Take the risks you believe in. Be yourself and make the world a better place.

Now go ahead, take that risk and be successful at it!

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