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11 Hidden Signs You’re Highly Empathetic But You May Not Even Notice That

11 Hidden Signs You’re Highly Empathetic But You May Not Even Notice That

Have you been hearing the word “empathy” everywhere? Have you wondered how empathy or an empathetic person is defined? To put it simply, it is the ability to step into the shoes of other people, with the aim to better understand their feelings so you can further discover who they are and what drives them to make particular decisions. Maybe you suspect you’re highly empathetic, but you’re not exactly sure. Let’s dig a little bit deeper here and find out:

1. Being in Public Places is Extremely Stressful

It’s not that you don’t like other people, highly empathetic people are extremely sensitive. Meaning, they are highly tuned in to others’ emotions and energy. Being in a public place with a lot of people is essentially overstimulating.

2. Labeled as Moody

An empathetic person will most likely share their mood with the world regardless of whether their mood is shy, disconnected, happy, crabby or filled with joy. Because of the highly sensitive nature of an empathetic person, they can appear moody and are often labeled as emotionally unstable.

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3. Battles with Fatigue

Empathetic people tend to be plagued with fatigue or low levels of energy. It’s almost as if being surrounded by other people sucks their life energy from them.

4. Human Lie Detector

Highly empathetic people are acutely tuned into others’ energy, so being able to sense when someone is being dishonest is an innate skill.

5. Need for Alone Time

The need to be alone is a must when you’re constantly digesting others’ energy. Think of it as a time to recharge.

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6. Enjoys Daydreaming

A unique characteristic of an empathetic person is one who thoroughly enjoys the act of daydreaming. It affords the highly sensitive person a moment to create blissful happiness on their own terms.

7. Knowledge Seeker

To go without an answer to a question is a big no to a highly empathetic person. They are constantly seeking an explanation and an answer to their burning questions.

8. A Free Spirit

Empathetic people are usually called free spirits. They enjoy traveling, random adventures, and personal freedoms. Because during travel and adventures, they can understand more about different people and cultures, and also more about themselves. This is a gift, and more often like a mission.

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9. Rules and Routine are Torture

Empathetic people value their freedom and ability to flow with the wind. Anything that slightly resembles a routine instantly blocks their flow of energy, which in turn feels like imprisonment to this highly sensitive person.

10. Easily Bored or Distracted

Work, relationships, school and home life needs to be interesting to a highly empathetic person otherwise they tend to lose interest. If an empathetic person has lost interest you will often find them daydreaming or finding other activities to do for further stimulation.

11. Creative Force

This highly sensitive person is a creative beings they have a lot of insights when having a deep understanding of different people. They have strong creative needs and desires and require outlets for creativity to flow on a consistent basis.

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Conclusion

Maybe you just realized you’re a highly empathetic person and were not aware of that before, or you already knew it going into this article.  Either way, some researchers say approximately twenty percent of the population are highly empathetic people, which is refreshing to know you’re not alone.  Some days being empathetic may seem like a cur, but don’t forget you have a gift that allows you keen awareness to understand what others are going through.

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7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

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When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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