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How To Stay Healthy While On Holiday

How To Stay Healthy While On Holiday

It’s an age-old question: “How can I stay healthy on holiday?”

We’ve all been there. We’ve struggled through months of lettuce, kale, hunger pangs, and porridge while trying to get bikini confident, and we aren’t about to ruin all our hard work with an indulgent week filled with holiday food and little-to-no exercise!

Then there are the inevitable expected grumbles of “you’re on holiday,” “enjoy yourself,” “surely a week won’t hurt?”. There is an element of truth to these statements and you can allow yourself to slightly cling on to the edge of the bandwagon without falling off completely and piling back on those pesky pounds. However, it is important for your own mindset, personal motivation, and that waistline you’ve been shrinking to enforce maximum damage control where possible — you don’t want to come home feeling as though you’re back to square one, after all.

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It can be all too easy to throw your hands up and have a blowout when in holiday mode, and who could blame you? With all the advice out there surrounding healthy eating whilst travelling, it really is no surprise that we end up confused or ready to give up. We don’t want to become the bore who turns up laden with freezer bags of pre-made meals in case the diet-imploding McDonalds comes into sight. Sometimes, you just need to take a step back from the diet books and focus on keeping some basic principles in mind to ensure you still enjoy your holiday without straying too far from the track you’re beginning to tread quite well.

1. Destination is crucial

Let’s tackle the first hurdle before we even get there. If you’re thinking of opting for an all-inclusive week’s holiday in Italy, the pizza, pasta, garlic bread, and the array of rich sauces have already gained us an inch before stepping on the plane. Some places will make resisting temptation a lot harder than others. Determine an appropriate location where you know healthier options and meal flexibility will be readily available. Now, this doesn’t mean a stay on an organic health farm, it just means that a bit of forethought and research can help you out massively.

The UK offers endless opportunities for an unforgettable holiday for the health conscious. The beautiful rolling hills of the Lake District provide a maze of enjoyable family walks, hikes, and bike rides. These kinds of active pastimes come hand-in-hand with a trip to this corner of the UK, so it won’t seem strange to suggest such activities – the perfect way to sneak in a bit of low-impact cardio. The more remote a location, the more scope for getting outside without it being such a conscious decision.

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Excursions in regions such as these will also lead to cheaper days out. Think horse riding, boat trips, and canoeing as opposed to bowling, shopping, cinema trips, and theme parks! The pretty panoramic views are also a good excuse for taking the longer scenic route when out exploring!

2. Type of accommodation

The key here is self-catering. We all like the added luxury of being cooked for, pampered, and generally avoiding all the mundane chores we associate with home life. However, this is a haven for calorie-dense foods sneaking in. Home-cooked food, bought by yourself and prepared by yourself, is the best option when it comes to knowing exactly what you are putting into your mouth.

A large cottage or a caravan with a spacious family kitchen will allow you to create delicious hearty meals for everyone to sit around and tuck into without the need for eating out, purchasing convenience food, or ordering in takeaways — all the foods we are trying to avoid.

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3. Food preparation

You are probably sick of hearing the infamous manta “preparation is key,” but although I hate to admit it, it really is key. Now, this definitely does not mean cracking open your carrot sticks and hummus whilst everyone else enjoys scones topped with cream and jam, it just means having healthy snack alternatives and meal options for everyone while you’re out on the go. Instead of picking up a bar of chocolate from the local shop, have an apple or cereal bar from your bag. Instead of treating the family to a burger and chips, pack a picnic spread of wholesome nutritious foods with the occasional treat thrown in — nothing excites a child more than expelling from the norm anyway, and eating outside definitely ticks this box.

4. Visit the farmer’s market

No matter where you are staying, this is consistently my favourite “tourist” spot. It offers a front row seat to take in the local people and culture, while allowing you to sample the best fresh food and local produce the area has to offer. A visit to the farmer’s market is a great opportunity to pick up yummy but healthy snacks for the week.

5. Treat alternatives

This is where the fun begins. There is always room for a sweet treat. Restricting yourself can increase the chances of giving in and binging, so instead of saying no to anything sugary or beige in colour, get creative and add a healthy kick to your favourite treats!

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Cook up a storm in the kitchen and wake everyone up with sweet potato pancakes, whip up a decadent dessert of banana nice cream for after dinner, or pack a box of raw chocolate orange brownies as a pick-me-up during your afternoon hike!

6. Moderation

The last thought I’m going to leave you with is moderation. Yes, you can have snacks. Yes, you can have that caramel hot chocolate with cream in that adorable tearoom. Yes, you can have a few of those chocolate cookies with your cup of tea. Remember, you are on holiday and you can treat yourself. If you have managed to keep the majority of your food intake as healthy as possible throughout the day, the odd treat won’t harm you. It takes an extra 3,500 calories to add a pound of weight after all, so be a bit lenient — and good luck with that post-holiday run!

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Last Updated on July 10, 2020

How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

We all have them—those hurtful, frustrating, offensive, manipulative people in our lives. No matter how hard we try to surround ourselves with positive and kind people, there will always be those who will disrespect, insult, berate, and misuse you if we allow them to.

We may, for a variety of reasons, not be able to avoid them, but we can determine how we interact with them and how we allow them to interact with us.

So, how to take control of your life and stop being pushed around?

Learning to set clear firm boundaries with the people in our lives at work and in our personal lives is the best way to protect ourselves from the negative effects of this kind of behavior.

What Boundaries Are (And What They’re Not)

Boundaries are limits

—they are not threats or ultimatums. Boundaries inform or teach. They are not a form of punishment.

Boundaries are firm lines—determined by you—which cannot be crossed by those around you. They are guidelines for how you will allow others to treat you and what kind of behaviors you will expect.

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Healthy personal boundaries help protect you from physical or emotional pain. You may also need to set firm boundaries at work to ensure you and your time are not disrespected. Don’t allow others to take advantage of your kindness and generosity.

Clear boundaries communicate to others that you demand respect and consideration—that you are willing to stand up for yourself and that you will not be a doormat for anyone. They are a “no trespassing” sign that makes it very clear when a line has been crossed and that there will be consequences for doing so.

Boundaries are not set with the intention of changing other people. They may change how people interact with you, but they are more about enforcing your needs than attempting to change the general behavior and attitude of others.

How to Establish Boundaries and Take Control of Your Life

Here are some ways that you can establish boundaries and take control of your life.

1. Self-Awareness Comes First

Before you can establish boundaries with others, you first need to understand what your needs are.

You are entitled to respect. You have the right to protect yourself from inappropriate or offensive behavior. Setting boundaries is a way of honoring your needs.

To set appropriate boundaries, you need to be clear about what healthy behaviors look like—what healthy relationships look like.

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You first have to become more aware of your feelings and honest with yourself about your expectations and what you feel is appropriate behavior:

  • Where do you need to establish better boundaries?
  • When do you feel disrespected?
  • When do you feel violated, frustrated, or angered by the behavior of others?
  • In what situations do you feel you are being mistreated or taken advantage of?
  • When do you want to be alone?
  • How much space do you need?

You need to honor your own needs and boundaries before you can expect others to honor them. This allows you to take control of your life.

2. Clear Communication Is Essential

Inform others clearly and directly what your expectations are. It is essential to have clear communication if you want others to respect your boundaries. Explain in an honest and respectful tone what you find offensive or unacceptable.

Many people simply aren’t aware that they are behaving inappropriately. They may never have been taught proper manners or consideration for others.

3. Be Specific but Don’t Blame

Taking a blaming or punishing attitude automatically puts people on the defensive. People will not listen when they feel attacked. It’s part of human nature.

That said, you do not need to overexplain or defend yourself. Boundaries are not open to compromise.

Sample language:

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  • “You may not…yell or raise your voice to me…”
  • “I need…to be treated with respect…”
  • “It’s not okay when…you take things from my desk without asking…”
  • “I won’t…do your work…cover for you anymore…”
  • “It’s not acceptable when…you ridicule or insult me…”
  • “I am uncomfortable when…you use offensive language”
  • “I will no longer be able to…lend you money…”

Being able to communicate these without sounding accusatory is essential if you want others to respect your boundaries so you can take control of your life.

4. Consequences Are Often Necessary

Determine what the appropriate consequences will be when boundaries are crossed. If it’s appropriate, be clear about those consequences upfront when communicating those boundaries to others.

Follow through. People won’t respect your boundaries if you don’t enforce them.

Standing our ground and forcing consequences doesn’t come easily to us. We want to be nice. We want people to like us, but we shouldn’t have to trade our self-respect to gain friends or to achieve success.

We may be tempted to let minor disrespect slide to avoid conflict, but as the familiar saying goes, “if you give people an inch, they’ll take a mile.”

It’s much easier to address offensive or inappropriate behavior now than to wait until that behavior has gotten completely out of hand.

It’s also important to remember that positive reinforcement is even more powerful than negative consequences. When people do alter the way they treat you, acknowledge it. Let people know that you notice and appreciate their efforts.

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Final Thoughts

Respect is always a valid reason for setting a boundary. Don’t defend yourself or your needs. Boundaries are often necessary to protect your time, your space, and your feelings. And these are essential if you want to take control of your life.

Start with the easiest boundaries first. Setting boundaries is a skill that needs to be practiced. Enlist support from others if necessary. Inform people immediately when they have crossed the line.

Don’t wait. Communicate politely and directly. Be clear about the consequences and follow them through.

The better you become at setting your own boundaries, the better you become at recognizing and respecting the boundaries of others.

Remember that establishing boundaries is your right. You are entitled to respect. You can’t control how other people behave, but you do have control over the way you allow people to treat you.

Learning to set boundaries is not always easy, but with time, it will become more comfortable. You may eventually find that boundaries become automatic and you no longer need to consciously set them.

They will simply become a natural extension of your self-respect.

Featured photo credit: Thomas Kelley via unsplash.com

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