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5 Genius Fitness Tips Every Full-Time Working Mom Must Try

5 Genius Fitness Tips Every Full-Time Working Mom Must Try

The sit-ups. The push-ups. The cardio. You’ve got so much exercising to do, but your life is packed full. You don’t have enough time to fit it all in.

From caring for the kids to keeping up with laundry and keeping the house clean, it seems virtually impossible to squeeze in a workout or prepare nutritious meals once you get home from your 9-5 job.

So, what happens? You get more behind every day. What’s worse is that every other working mom you know seems to have no problem working out on a regular basis. Are you the only full-time working mom who struggles to find the time to exercise?

Don’t believe it for a second.

If your biggest problem is not having enough time to exercise, you’re perfectly normal. Almost every working mom out there feels the same way.

Why Every Working Mom Feels Short On Time Most Of The Time

Working moms struggle with a lack of time more than most people do. From getting the kids ready for daycare or school to making sure they are safe and sound, every waking hour seems to be given to your children. It’s for good reason: they are your pride and joy.

You also have a house to maintain: laundry to be done, bathrooms to be cleaned, a kitchen to be maintained, a husband to tend to — everyone and everything demands your attention. It seems that you’re the only one that can maintain calm and order amongst the chaos.

What’s more is that you have a full-time job. No matter what your income stream looks like, it demands your time and attention. From taking care of your boss’s calendar to keeping order in the office, meeting deadlines, and organizing meetings, you are the heartbeat of your organization.

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So, how do you get it all done? Well, most working moms don’t all the time. Sometimes, the house stays dirty. Sometimes, the laundry piles up so high it looks like a miniature version of the Leaning Tower of Pisa. And sometimes, just sometimes, the chaos at work is too much.

Eventually, you start to play catchup with everything that’s befallen you. You might squeeze in an exercise session or two, but when those chaotic days come, you feel like quitting altogether.

Trust me, I get it. Overwhelm can set in and crush your spirit. You can only keep calm and order in your life for so long. And even as you struggle day by day, the temptation to give up your fitness dreams grows and grows.

And yet, some working moms seem to make a huge splash. They make time for exercise. They make time to prep nutritious meals. They make time to clean the house. They make time to do the laundry. They make time for their family. They have more energy. They lose the extra weight. They get fit.

How do these moms get it done? In one word: structure.

These working moms create a structure that puts them in full control of their weight loss goals.

Here’s how you can regain control of your schedule and turn things around.

1. You Must Prioritize Exercise

Ask yourself this question: Is exercise a top priority in my life?

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You might think it is because fitness is on your mind daily, but here’s a little secret: a should is totally different than a must. When something is not a priority, you will always make excuses not to do it.

Why should fitness be a priority? Because if you can’t take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of your family?

Every day, we’re constantly bombarded with new-and-improved research that shows the benefits of a healthy diet and exercise. More energy. Less stress. A body geared for fighting off viruses. Now, don’t get me wrong, you’ll still have a sick day here and there, but not as often as you would if you weren’t active or eating healthy.

2. Specify The Reasons That Prompted Your Desire To Change

Here’s the thing about fitness: it will only work if you have the right mindset. You can have all the resources at your disposal, but without a compelling reason to exercise, you are likely to quit.

I’m not talking about having motivation or trying to pump yourself up on days you decide to work out. Motivation will only take you so far. Your reason is what will prevent you from veering off track or quitting altogether.

Your why will always keep you going.

Your why will help you develop discipline. You’ll be able to find the strength to exercise and eat healthy during times when it’s hard to do so.

An effective strategy is to keep a journal where you write your reasons for working out. Remember, your reasons are, well, your reasons. Don’t ever think that your reasons aren’t good enough. As a mother, you are a prime example for your family. Think about the impact on your husband and children when they see the dedication and drive you show for changing yourself.

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3. Think Family Fitness

Involve your children in your fitness routine. Why? Because it’s tough to find a babysitter to watch the kids for an hour or so, and just because you can’t find care for your children doesn’t mean that you can’t exercise. There are tons of ways you can include the kids in your fitness routine.

Some moms like to play games with their kids. They’ll race each other or play a game of tag. Invest in a children’s seat for your bike, or if your children are age-appropriate, buy them a bike of their own so they can join you on a bike ride.

Plus, there’s a new wave of what moms are calling “stroller fitness.” A lot of moms are walking or jogging with their kids in their strollers.

Don’t let your babies be an excuse for not exercising. Not only will you be active, but you can even form a strong bond with your kids just by having them around while you work out.

4. Know That Some Days Are Going To Be Easier Than Others

There are going to be days when you’re full of energy and feel like you can do extra. And then there are going to be days where you’re just happy to have put your workout clothes on. No matter what you feel on the difficult days, make sure that you at least try to get some activity in.

You might not be able to get in that full mile or strength train for 30 minutes. That’s fine. Each day is going to present its own unique obstacles. You might be fatigued. The kids might get sick. You might have to put in extra hours at work. Whatever the case, don’t give it the momentum that will make you give up.

Just keep going.

5. Don’t Go At It Alone

Try to find a community that will support you. Fitness and nutrition are more difficult if you have no one to fall back on. The important thing for this tip is to find a community that will 100% have your back. It could be your husband, a close friend, an online community, or another working mom. You can even seek the services of a life coach or fitness trainer.

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It’s important that your community understands your goals and desire for working out. Why? Because they are the ones that are going to keep you accountable. You will not achieve your fitness goals if you have a community that accepts every excuse you make. This is why I believe that the services of a life coach are a beneficial investment.

You want someone that will give you the kick in the pants you need to keep going. At the same time, you want someone that will be motivating and uplifting instead of critical and doubtful.

Create your community and you’ll increase your chances of making fitness a habit.

You Can Do This!

Moms, we need you! Not just to be alive, but to be involved and active in our lives. Your husband needs you. Your babies need you. Hell, the entire world needs you.

What would life be like without moms? What would life be like for your children without the warm and caring love of their mom? What would life be like for your husband without your intimate love and support for him and the family?

It is true that if you follow these tips, you will lose weight. But most importantly, if you follow these tips, you will create a mind and body that will give you the energy and strength you need to guide your family through the beautiful journey that is life.

So, when does your fitness routine start?

The choice is yours. Start now.

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Last Updated on April 2, 2020

10 Quick Easy Workouts To Lose Arm Fat At Home

10 Quick Easy Workouts To Lose Arm Fat At Home

Flabby arms are something a lot of us have to tend to. If you find yourself buying a sweater or cardigan to go with your tank top or usually opt for the long-sleeved dress, then you’re not alone. Usually a result of genes, general excess fat or just ageing, it seems difficult to lose arm fat. The fat in our arms accumulates mainly around the triceps – the muscles on the back of your upper arm – and are prone to getting flabby if not exercised regularly.

What we eat can also play a part in the extent of the jiggle so eating a good, healthy balanced diet as well as keeping well hydrated can put you on the right track. Resistance exercises are the most effective way to blast that underarm fat as well as strengthen, shape and tone your muscles. You can always go down to the gym and work up a sweat but who has time for that? If you want a convenient and quick alternative then you can easily manage an effective routine in the comfort of your own home. All you need is a set of dumbbells and you can start toning up those bingo wings with these 10 easy workouts.

1. Tricep dips

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    Works: Triceps

    • Hands must be positioned shoulder width apart on a secured chair or bench.
    • Position your bum in front of the bench with feet hip-width apart on the floor and legs bent.
    • Straighten out your arms a little, keeping a slight bend from the elbow so to put more emphasis on the tricep and less stress on the elbow.
    • Keeping your back close to the bench, slowly lower your body so that your arms are at a 90-degree angle.
    • Once in this position slowly push off your hands back to the starting position.
    • Do 10-15 reps.

    2. Bicep curls

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      Works: Biceps and shoulders

      • Start off with your feet hip-distance apart, holding one dumbbell in each hand with your palms facing out.
      • Starting with your left arm, bend your elbow to slowly bring the weight up to your shoulder holding the position for 5 seconds.
      • Slowly release the elbow and straighten your arm back down to the starting position.
      • Repeat the moves on the right side.
      • Complete 3 sets of 10-15 reps for each arm.

      3. Push ups

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        Works: Triceps and Deltoids

        • Lying face down, place your hands on the floor roughly shoulder-width apart.
        • Tuck your toes under and gently lift your body up, pushing through your hands and making sure not to lock your elbows.
        • Slowly bend your elbows bringing your face roughly 2-3 inches from the ground.
        • Slowly push back up through your arms. If this is difficult then do the same move but keeping your knees on the floor.
        • Repeat 10-15 times.

        4. Tricep Kickbacks

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          Works: Triceps

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          • Place a weight in each hand and kneel down onto the floor with your toes tucked under.
          • Bend your upper body forward from the hips up and bend your elbows to a 90-degree angle.
          • Extend both your arms backwards while your palms are facing each other.
          • Feel the tension in the triceps and return to the starting position.
          • Do 3 sets of 8-10 reps.

          5. Plank

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            Works: Chest, Shoulders, Biceps and Core

            • Start face-down on the floor, resting on your forearms and knees.
            • Step your feet out so that they are slightly apart and come into the plank position.
            • Make sure your body is straight, parallel to the floor and your bum is tucked in.
            • Pull your abs in and hold the position for as long as you can. Try to aim for 20-30 seconds and build up to a minute.
            • Repeat 3 times.

            6. Tricep Extensions

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              Works: Triceps

              • Stand on a mat with your feet hip-width apart.
              • Hold one dumbbell with both hands behind your head, bending the elbows.
              • Bring the weight towards the ceiling, straightening your arms above your head.
              • Lower back to starting position.
              • Complete 2-3 sets of 10-15 reps.

              7. Lateral Arm Raises

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                Works: Deltoids

                • Stand with feel hip-width apart. With arms down the side of your body, hold a dumbbell in each hand with palms facing in.
                • Starting with your left side, inhale and slowly raise your arm so that it’s parallel to the floor. Make sure not to lock your elbow by keeping a slight bend.
                • Make sure your arm is straight and palm is facing the floor.
                • Exhale and slowly bring your arm back down to your side.
                • Repeat on the right side.
                • Do 10-15 reps on each side and two sets.

                8. Overhead Press

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                  Works: Shoulders

                  • Stand up, lining your feet with your hips and hold a dumbbell in each hand with palms facing out.
                  • Bring the weights to your shoulders.
                  • Keep your core muscles tight and straighten your arms above you.
                  • Slowly bring your arms back down to your shoulders.
                  • Do 3 sets of 10-15 reps.

                  9. Bent Over Row

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                    Works: Triceps and Biceps 

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                    • Place your feet shoulder-width apart.
                    • Bend your knees and and then bend your upper body forward from the hips making sure you keep your back nice and straight.
                    • Make sure your hands are straight and placed under your shoulders.
                    • Bend the elbows back while lifting your arms towards the sides of your chest, pulling your shoulder blades towards each other.
                    • Slowly lower the weights in a controlled movement and feel the tension at your triceps.
                    • Repeat 10-15 times.

                    10. Skull Crushers

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                      Works: Triceps

                      • While holding a dumbbell in each hand, lie on your back with your knees bent.
                      • Slowly raise your arms so they are above your chest, making sure your elbows are straight but not locked.
                      • Slowly lower both arms toward your head, bending your elbows to 90 degrees as the dumbbells reach the mat. Aim to lower your weights so they are on either side of your head  with elbows bent and pressing in toward your head (being careful not to hit yourself in the face).
                      • Lift your arms back to starting position.
                      • Complete 2 or 3 sets, 10-15 reps each.

                      Featured photo credit: Maddi Bazzocco via unsplash.com

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