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The Ultimate Garden: DIY Projects for the Frugal Homeowner

The Ultimate Garden: DIY Projects for the Frugal Homeowner

Buying garden decorations is a fleeting experience, but if you are making your own garden design, then the sense of achievement is far greater. Besides, if you make garden accessories out of materials you would naturally throw away, you will feel more resourceful. So, if you want to freshen up your backyard and already have a bunch of household stuff just lying around, you can try some of the following DIY projects.

Giant Xylophone

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    If you have kids and want to build something for their amusement in your front or back yard that is also decorative, then you can’t go wrong with a giant xylophone.

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    Here’s what you need: 90 x 35mm pine bars, 25 x 2.8mm galvanized staples, and 90 x 35mm pine bars. You will also need a paintbrush, handsaw, sandpaper, and some paint.

    First, you need to cut 9 pine bars to the length of 1200mm. Then, cut each bar by 75mm so that the first bar is 1200mm and the last one is 600mm. Paint those bars with two coats of paint. Just remember to wait for the first coat to dry before you apply the second one. Use one of the cut wooden blocks as a measure for the distance between painted bars.

    Next, cut enough rope to span them together and to have some left on both sides so that your xylophone can be tied to posts. Use two staples for each wooden bar on both the upper and lower half (so, four staples per wooden bar) to anchor the rope. Then, find a good place to tie your xylophone.

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    Pallet furniture

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      If you have tons of wooden pallets that you are not using, you can turn them into DIY pallet furniture. It looks really good and it basically won’t cost you anything when you want to redecorate. You can create garden paths with pallets, or you can craft a corner sofa on a patio. You can use them to store your gardening tools, or even to make planters.

      You can also use your pallets to create a suspended bed, a bed for your pet, or even a wooden fence. The best thing about this is that you won’t have to do much work — all you need to do is paint the wooden pallets and arrange them in a specific order.

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      Party Umbrella

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        This is an amazing decoration that goes well with the above-mentioned pallet furniture, and it will certainly come in handy during the summer. All you need to do is attach a few ribbons to lanterns, add some light-colored fabric, and combine them with your plain canvas umbrella. Whenever you want to freshen up your decorations, you can change the colors of the ribbons and fabrics.

        First, you need to measure the distance between the umbrella ribs and cut the fabric into rectangle shapes in order to fit inside the span between the ribs. Fold the long end of the cut fabric over the dowel and then use a hot glue gun to attach the fabric to the umbrella. Then, you need to glue short ribbons to the bottom of the glass lanterns and hang them using a fishing line. It’s really simple to make, and you can check it out here.

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        As you can see, all of these decorations are quite easy to pull off. You can make something for kids, or you can create your own furniture and awesome party umbrellas to go along with it. Make sure you go through the links that are supplied in the text in order to have a clear image of how the decorations should look. I hope you have a fun time crafting these items and that your garden will look as amazing as you imagined it.

        Featured photo credit: http://skitterphoto.com/?portfolio=summer-wine via pexels.com

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        Ivan Dimitrijevic

        Ivan is the CEO and founder of a digital marketing company. He has years of experiences in team management, entrepreneurship and productivity.

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        Last Updated on July 10, 2020

        How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

        How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

        We all have them—those hurtful, frustrating, offensive, manipulative people in our lives. No matter how hard we try to surround ourselves with positive and kind people, there will always be those who will disrespect, insult, berate, and misuse you if we allow them to.

        We may, for a variety of reasons, not be able to avoid them, but we can determine how we interact with them and how we allow them to interact with us.

        So, how to take control of your life and stop being pushed around?

        Learning to set clear firm boundaries with the people in our lives at work and in our personal lives is the best way to protect ourselves from the negative effects of this kind of behavior.

        What Boundaries Are (And What They’re Not)

        Boundaries are limits

        —they are not threats or ultimatums. Boundaries inform or teach. They are not a form of punishment.

        Boundaries are firm lines—determined by you—which cannot be crossed by those around you. They are guidelines for how you will allow others to treat you and what kind of behaviors you will expect.

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        Healthy personal boundaries help protect you from physical or emotional pain. You may also need to set firm boundaries at work to ensure you and your time are not disrespected. Don’t allow others to take advantage of your kindness and generosity.

        Clear boundaries communicate to others that you demand respect and consideration—that you are willing to stand up for yourself and that you will not be a doormat for anyone. They are a “no trespassing” sign that makes it very clear when a line has been crossed and that there will be consequences for doing so.

        Boundaries are not set with the intention of changing other people. They may change how people interact with you, but they are more about enforcing your needs than attempting to change the general behavior and attitude of others.

        How to Establish Boundaries and Take Control of Your Life

        Here are some ways that you can establish boundaries and take control of your life.

        1. Self-Awareness Comes First

        Before you can establish boundaries with others, you first need to understand what your needs are.

        You are entitled to respect. You have the right to protect yourself from inappropriate or offensive behavior. Setting boundaries is a way of honoring your needs.

        To set appropriate boundaries, you need to be clear about what healthy behaviors look like—what healthy relationships look like.

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        You first have to become more aware of your feelings and honest with yourself about your expectations and what you feel is appropriate behavior:

        • Where do you need to establish better boundaries?
        • When do you feel disrespected?
        • When do you feel violated, frustrated, or angered by the behavior of others?
        • In what situations do you feel you are being mistreated or taken advantage of?
        • When do you want to be alone?
        • How much space do you need?

        You need to honor your own needs and boundaries before you can expect others to honor them. This allows you to take control of your life.

        2. Clear Communication Is Essential

        Inform others clearly and directly what your expectations are. It is essential to have clear communication if you want others to respect your boundaries. Explain in an honest and respectful tone what you find offensive or unacceptable.

        Many people simply aren’t aware that they are behaving inappropriately. They may never have been taught proper manners or consideration for others.

        3. Be Specific but Don’t Blame

        Taking a blaming or punishing attitude automatically puts people on the defensive. People will not listen when they feel attacked. It’s part of human nature.

        That said, you do not need to overexplain or defend yourself. Boundaries are not open to compromise.

        Sample language:

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        • “You may not…yell or raise your voice to me…”
        • “I need…to be treated with respect…”
        • “It’s not okay when…you take things from my desk without asking…”
        • “I won’t…do your work…cover for you anymore…”
        • “It’s not acceptable when…you ridicule or insult me…”
        • “I am uncomfortable when…you use offensive language”
        • “I will no longer be able to…lend you money…”

        Being able to communicate these without sounding accusatory is essential if you want others to respect your boundaries so you can take control of your life.

        4. Consequences Are Often Necessary

        Determine what the appropriate consequences will be when boundaries are crossed. If it’s appropriate, be clear about those consequences upfront when communicating those boundaries to others.

        Follow through. People won’t respect your boundaries if you don’t enforce them.

        Standing our ground and forcing consequences doesn’t come easily to us. We want to be nice. We want people to like us, but we shouldn’t have to trade our self-respect to gain friends or to achieve success.

        We may be tempted to let minor disrespect slide to avoid conflict, but as the familiar saying goes, “if you give people an inch, they’ll take a mile.”

        It’s much easier to address offensive or inappropriate behavior now than to wait until that behavior has gotten completely out of hand.

        It’s also important to remember that positive reinforcement is even more powerful than negative consequences. When people do alter the way they treat you, acknowledge it. Let people know that you notice and appreciate their efforts.

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        Final Thoughts

        Respect is always a valid reason for setting a boundary. Don’t defend yourself or your needs. Boundaries are often necessary to protect your time, your space, and your feelings. And these are essential if you want to take control of your life.

        Start with the easiest boundaries first. Setting boundaries is a skill that needs to be practiced. Enlist support from others if necessary. Inform people immediately when they have crossed the line.

        Don’t wait. Communicate politely and directly. Be clear about the consequences and follow them through.

        The better you become at setting your own boundaries, the better you become at recognizing and respecting the boundaries of others.

        Remember that establishing boundaries is your right. You are entitled to respect. You can’t control how other people behave, but you do have control over the way you allow people to treat you.

        Learning to set boundaries is not always easy, but with time, it will become more comfortable. You may eventually find that boundaries become automatic and you no longer need to consciously set them.

        They will simply become a natural extension of your self-respect.

        Featured photo credit: Thomas Kelley via unsplash.com

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