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A Simple Guide To Participating In A Debate Online

A Simple Guide To Participating In A Debate Online

There is so much information online these days and a lot of it is enough to get even the meekest and most rational person’s blood to start boiling. When you see something you feel strongly about, it’s easy to wade into a debate online and before you know it, it has degenerated into a verbal punch up, far removed from the original issue.

Here are 4 simple tips to ensure you don’t get sucked in:

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1. Participate

Don’t be afraid to get involved in a debate online. It’s healthy and if you keep an open mind, you might learn something. You might also have valuable information to offer someone in need and it could mean all the difference. Just be choosy. Pick your battles. If a comments section has already blown up into insults and memes, don’t bother. It’s not going to appreciate your contribution.

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2. Be informed

Get your facts straight. It isn’t difficult to read up on a topic before you jump into a debate online. Particularly if the topic provokes an emotional reaction and you don’t really know enough about it to add anything to the discussion. If it’s a topic you are confident about, then offer your knowledge with the intention to make a positive contribution. That doesn’t mean you have to compromise your ideals or values, or even be polite if it is something that warrants outrage. It’s just that the outcome should always be to evolve the discussion towards higher knowledge.

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3. Make your point clearly

Sometimes a concise sentence says so much more than endless paragraphs of facts and figures. A debate online can attract hundreds of comments and for anyone reading them, too many words will make them skim past. If you want to make your point powerfully in a comments section, think about the crux of your argument and say it in as few words as you can. Providing a supportive link to back your point and provide further reading can be really effective too.

4. Walk away

When your most rational efforts, your meticulously crafted words with the best of intentions are met with hostility, ignorance and abuse, regardless of how factual or right your point of view is, the best thing you can do is walk away. If someone becomes abusive and antagonistic, the block button can become your best friend. Delete, block, move on.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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