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9 Unique Ways to Surprise Your Spouse for a Special Occasion

9 Unique Ways to Surprise Your Spouse for a Special Occasion

If you’re thinking about doing something special for your spouse, why not surprise them? Whether it’s their birthday, your anniversary, or just a normal day that you’d like them to feel loved, consider any of these ways to surprise them.

Birthday

1. Surprise Birthday Party

Though this is a pretty common way to celebrate a birthday, it is always a favorite. You may choose to keep the party small and invite guests into your home, or you can go all out and book a restaurant. Make sure to plan it according to her taste, to ensure that she will not be uncomfortable. Break out the decorations and party hats for a birthday they’ll never forget.

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2. Schedule a Special Delivery

Don’t make them wait to feel special. Let your spouse know that you are thinking about them when they are not expecting it. Order something special to be delivered to their work like flowers, chocolates, or any other kind of birthday gift that they can enjoy.

3. Act Like Kids Again

The day-to-day hustle and bustle of adult life can get pretty stale, and take a hint when your spouse reminisces about their childhood. Plan a birthday party that involves the things that they loved as a child, be it swimming, activities in a park, painting, or anything else. Spend the day reliving their childhood with them.

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Anniversary

4. A Home Cooked Meal

Surprise your spouse with a romantic dinner that includes their favorite foods. A three-course meal will fill them with both food and love, and will let them know that you listen to them. This will ensure that you touch all bases with an appetizer, entree, and dessert.

5. Unique Getaway

Plan a romantic getaway to somewhere unique they’ve always wanted to go, such as Rome. Because there are so many things to do in Rome and other historic places, the surprise doesn’t have to end with the trip tickets. Make dinner plans for a formal anniversary celebration and have fun creating your own unique pasta with the help of local chefs. Additionally, two of the unique spots you should definitely include in your tour are the Pantheon and Colosseum! Of course, any destination is welcome.

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6. Handwritten Love Letter

Write your spouse a love letter that lists all of the ways that you love them, and all of the ways that you appreciate them. Doing this will show your love that you have gone out of your way to make something special for them. This is always a good option for the couples that agree to not exchange gifts, but may also complement any other gift.

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7. Buy Something You Know They’ll Love – (tool, bedroom item, appliance, etc.)

This might be something like a practical necessity. Pay attention to what they need but might be putting off purchasing themselves. This would be something like some sort of appliance, tool, or even an item like an air mattress. They will be grateful that you have made their life easier by taking care of something so significant. Do they want a new television? With all the new advances in television technology, skimming through a comprehensive buying guide will help you to make a more informed decision to surprise your sweetie.

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8. A Night Under the Stars

Use a larger vehicle such as a truck to plan a surprise camping trip. Load the vehicle up with all of the necessities and hit the road to a campsite—choose one that is an old favorite or a new one for an adventure. If this is not an option, just set up a tent in your own backyard! Overall, it is the thought that counts, the experience doesn’t have to be 100% authentic.

9. Take a Trip to the Spa

Often times we don’t make the effort to practice enough self-care. After a particularly stressful few days, surprise your love with a trip to the spa. Allow them to pick a few services that they’d like, such as a massage and manicure, or a facial and pedicure. The pampering will make them feel like new, and they will have you to thank!

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Last Updated on September 10, 2019

7 Morning Rituals to Empower Your Day And Change Your Life

7 Morning Rituals to Empower Your Day And Change Your Life

Most of your reality is not a given. It is shaped by your expectations, beliefs and thoughts you have formed about it. A big chunk of these beliefs and expectations are encoded into habits you integrate in your daily life.

Yes, some of these habits are formed unconsciously and can be counter-productive or limiting but conversely, you can consciously form positive habits that will transform and empower your life significantly.

This is a powerful point of departure that more and more people are becoming aware of. The most common trait of highly successful people is the recognition of the power they have in co-creating their reality through changing the way they think, believe or expect their reality to be.

One of the most effective ways of changing our belief patterns is through practising and maintaining daily rituals. Ancient traditions had clearly understood the power of rituals in reinforcing habits and changing the way we see and create our reality a long, long time ago.

Once again, if you look into the life history of any highly successful individual, you will find some form of ritual in their daily routine. Some of these rituals may seem banal or eccentric but don’t be deceived by appearances. Rituals are one of the most effective self-empowering tools freely available at the practitioner’s disposal – that is, you!

Below are some the easiest yet life-changing morning rituals you can do every day. Of course, you can have your own afternoon or bed-time rituals but morning rituals are extremely effective in empowering your day since they help you charge yourself before it all starts.

1. Gratitude

Feeling gratitude and appreciation for those little signs and moments of joy happening in your life is probably one of the most overlooked or underestimated rituals. It is a perfect morning ritual to start your day on a very positive key.

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The real power of gratitude is that it makes you pick out and focus on what is working in your life – what is in tune with your being as a whole. It is selectively positive. It reinforces happiness and positivity by shedding light on those awesome things, small or big, that grace your everyday living.

Quite often, we just pick out the pain points, the problems, the bottle necks, whatever it is that is not working in our life and causing friction, anxiety and unhappiness. This is like constantly rewriting the script of your life with a negative or tragic overtone. Your subconscious mind follows faithfully that script you write whether it is a negative or positive one.

So feeling gratitude is undoubtedly an immensely empowering ritual. Start your day by being thankful for those positive things that happened the previous day or throughout the week. It could be something really petty and small. It doesn’t matter. You might be grateful for an unexpected visit from an old friend, a beautiful encounter with a kind stranger, a new opportunity or whatever it is that shines your way. Do it every morning and see what happens during the day.

Gratitude-Quotes

    2. Writing Down Your Most Important Tasks

    This is a very practical ritual. Start your day by identifying and writing down from one to three of the most important tasks you need to complete during that day. These tasks are ones which support important long term goals that are aligned to your purpose, passion or general direction in life.

    For example, if writing a book or building an online community are important long term goals which are aligned to your personal growth, then an important task for the day might be finishing off a particular page or two of the book or coming up with fresh content ideas for the online community.

    What is important with this ritual is that you identify these tasks and complete them as early in the day as possible. Of course, you will have other tasks apart from the ones you will write down but, these are tasks which can be tackled later or batched up and carried out in one go.

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    Writing down your most important tasks in the morning helps you focus your day and life according to what is essential. It helps you prioritize and manage your time better. As a result, you simplify your life by applying your focus and energy on what really counts for your overall life progress.

    3. Affirm Your Goals in Writing or Drawing

    This is similar to the previous idea but different in its application and purpose. Writing down your most important tasks of the day is a way to have a concrete structure of action to follow. Affirming your goals, on the other hand, is a very powerful way of crystallizing your vision and goals in life into your everyday mental space.

    Writing down or doodling your goals on a piece of paper helps you externalize those goals by giving them form. In return, they are reflected back in your subconscious mind and thus, reinforcing them and integrating them more wholly.

    An example of this would be writing down “I am achieving greater success in my career” or “I am becoming healthier and stronger through my exercise.” Notice the present tense being used as a way to tell yourself you are in the process already. Remember the life script we subconsciously follow? You are basically modifying the script to be applied now in the present.

    Drawing or doodling can be equally, or even more, effective  (if you are more of a visual person) as it summarizes a graphical representation of your goals. For example, if your goal is to build a new house or live in another country, you can draw the house or draw things that symbolise the country you want to live in.

    write down goals

      4. Practice Qi Gong Exercises

      According to Chinese philosophy, Qi (pronounced ‘Chee’) means the life force or energy inherent in all things;[1] and Qi Gong is the practice to cultivate and circulate that energy in your body. This may sound esoteric or complicated but actually, Qi Gong is really a set of simple exercises aimed at increasing your health and vitality.

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      There are numerous forms and practices available for free through the online media. As a morning ritual, I recommend following these simple exercises by Qi Gong master Lee Holden:

      5. Drink Hot Water with Lemon

      Simply add a slice of lemon in a glass of hot water and drink one every morning. This is a very simple ritual I follow faithfully every morning.

      Apart from being a good source of vitamin C and a great way of flushing out toxins in the morning, it balances and maintains the PH levels in the body, reduces pain and inflammation in joints and knees and helps nourishing brain and nerve cells. Here are some more benefits of drinking hot water with lemon.

      6. Rise Earlier

      The practical advantages of waking up early are obvious.

      For example, you gain more time for doing exercise such as walking, cycling or Qi Gong as suggested above. You gain more time to be with yourself to reflect, meditate or, more importantly, carry out the other morning rituals.

      So rising early can be seen as a foundation for all the other morning rituals. Many, like myself, find that they are more productive in the early hours of the day.

      Also, various studies have shown that there are many other benefits from waking up an hour or two earlier in the morning. Sleeping early and waking up early helps the body attune with the earth’s circadian rhythms thus, promoting more restorative sleep. Other curious results from such studies show, for instance, that early risers tend to be more optimistic and can anticipate and solve problems more efficiently than the norm.[2]

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      7. Listen to Uplifting Music

      Uplifting music can have a direct impact on our mood, especially in the morning. It charges us emotionally and tunes us into a more positive outlook of the day ahead.

      Most people wake up to music or listen to music as they commute to work. Very often, however, they tune in to a radio or randomly pick a playlist from their device. Being more selective and conscious of the music you listen to in the morning can have a great impact on your day and life in general.

      It’s funny how we try to choose music according to our mood. For example if you are feeling down or disappointed by something, you are more prone to listen to music that reflects that mood – for instance blues, sad songs or downtempo music. This has the effect of reinforcing that mood. What you need to do is the exact opposite and retune your mood by listening to music that beats to a different tune than that mood.

      Try to listen to more uplifting music in the morning even if, or especially if, your mood does not dictate so.

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      Featured photo credit: Carli Jeen via unsplash.com

      Reference

      [1] Live Science: What Is Qi Gong
      [2] Harvard Business Review: Defend Your Research: The Early Bird Really Does Get the Worm

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