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6 Things Anyone Thinking of Adopting a Pet Must Know

6 Things Anyone Thinking of Adopting a Pet Must Know

There are millions of pets out there that need a lot of caring and love. This is the main reason why people decide to adopt one of these lovely creatures. Whether it is a cat, a dog or some other type of pet, adoption is something that should be taken seriously. Having a pet is one of the unique joys in life, but it is in no way something to be taken lightly. There are simply many things that you should know before you definitely decide to adopt a pet.

1. Dedicate some time for appropriate research

Before going to the local shelter, you should scout your town or city for a good veterinarian. This way you are going to be certain that you have someone to turn too in case something goes wrong. The vet is going to help you out with picking the right food for your adorable pet, get to know which type of vaccines you should get for the future and so on. These are the small things that are very important for a more secure future.

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Additionally, give your best to find other owners who gather from time to time and let their pets play. Socialization is equally as important for pets as it is for us people. Your little furry friend will love to play around with its pals. You can do some research online, so that you know what steps you could take to make your living space pet-friendly. By doing this you will begin to understand that adopting a pet is a serious commitment.

2. Do not rush, having a pet creates obligations

Make sure that you have enough time in your schedule for the pet you are planning to adopt. Your home is going to be a whole new surrounding and the pet is going to need some time to adapt to it. It is necessary that you have a certain amount of time to dedicate to the little one. If your day is already cramped with numerous obligations, wait for a more peaceful period, which is going to leave a window of time for your little friend.

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Adopting a pet is a serious task due to the fact that cats, dogs and many other animals are there to stay for years to come. If you think that at some point of your life you are not going to be able to take care of it, simply avoid adopting one just because it is cute.

3. Know that you are going to have increased expenditure

These expenses are not usually high, but for some people, pet related expenses can be quite a stress on the budget. You have to think about grooming your pet, paying for a veterinarian, medications and vaccinations, not to mention the food. These are not expensive things, but it is important to keep them on your mind in case you are going through a rough patch. Simply postpone adaptation if these expenses are going to present a shock for your budget.

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4. Analyze the pet’s personality

This is an easy task – while you are in the shelter simply spend some time observing animals. For example, if you are planning on adopting a dog, there are several factors that can easily show you the character of a dog. If you are planning to adopt a younger dog, you can already predict that it is going to have a lot more energy and that it is going to require more than three walks a day. However, if you go for a mature dog, a couple of walks every day will do just fine.

Talk with the people at the shelter – they can give you a description of every pet, the type of character it has, how it behaves, what you can expect from a pet like that etc. Doing these things is going to help you pick the pet that suits your character the most. With the right choice, both you and your pet are going to be happy.

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5. Remember that you are going to clean your home more often

This is not a problem, but it is an important reminder. Most furry pets shed their hair each season. This is the period of the year when you are going to have to do a bit more grooming. If there are any stains made by your pets, there is a wide variety of products that can help you keep your home fresh and clean no matter how bad the situation is.

If you have carpets in your home, they can easily be cleaned nowadays, which is going to keep them pet odor free. These are simply some things that you are easily going to adapt too. It is just like taking care of your home regularly, with a little bit more effort.

6. The first month is critical

Once you have adopted your pet, the first month is going to be the toughest, as this is the adjustment period. Before adoption, make sure that you are going to have a lot of time during this period. This is the period when a lot of your focus should be on your pet, as it is going to bond with you. This does not mean that later on you won’t have to do anything, but take this time to build a strong foundation in the relationship between you and your pet.

These are the most important things you should know before adopting a pet. In the end, it is important to mention that with all these things comes something priceless and that is the feeling of learning to love your pet and sharing a timeless bond of friendship.

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Last Updated on February 15, 2019

Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

In Personal Development-speak, we are always talking about goals, outcomes, success, desires and dreams. In other words, all the stuff we want to do, achieve and create in our world.

And while it’s important for us to know what we want to achieve (our goal), it’s also important for us to understand why we want to achieve it; the reason behind the goal or some would say, our real goal.

Why is goal setting important?

1. Your needs and desire will be fulfilled.

Sometimes when we explore our “why”, (why we want to achieve a certain thing) we realize that our “what” (our goal) might not actually deliver us the thing (feeling, emotion, internal state) we’re really seeking.

For example, the person who has a goal to lose weight in the belief that weight loss will bring them happiness, security, fulfillment, attention, popularity and the partner of their dreams. In this instance, their “what” is weight-loss and their “why” is happiness (etc.) and a partner.

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Six months later, they have lost the weight (achieved their goal) but as is often the case, they’re not happier, not more secure, not more confident, not more fulfilled and in keeping with their miserable state, they have failed to attract their dream partner.

After all, who wants to be with someone who’s miserable? They achieved their practical goal but still failed to have their needs met.

So they set a goal to lose another ten pounds. And then another. And maybe just ten more. With the destructive and erroneous belief that if they can get thin enough, they’ll find their own personal nirvana. And we all know how that story ends.

2. You’ll find out what truly motivates you

The important thing in the process of constructing our best life is not necessarily what goals we set (what we think we want) but what motivates us towards those goals (what we really want).

The sooner we begin to explore, identify and understand what motivates us towards certain achievements, acquisitions or outcomes (that is, we begin moving towards greater consciousness and self awareness), the sooner we will make better decisions for our life, set more intelligent (and dare I say, enlightened) goals and experience more fulfilment and less frustration.

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We all know people who have achieved what they set out to, only to end up in the same place or worse (emotionally, psychologically, sociologically) because what they were chasing wasn’t really what they were needing.

What we think we want will rarely provide us with what we actually need.

3. Your state of mind will be a lot healthier

We all set specific goals to achieve/acquire certain things (a job, a car, a partner, a better body, a bank balance, a title, a victory) because at some level, most of us believe (consciously or not) that the achievement of those goals will bring us what we really seek; joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

Of course, setting practical, material and financial goals is an intelligent thing to do considering the world we live in and how that world works.

But setting goals with an expectation that the achievement of certain things in our external, physical world will automatically create an internal state of peace, contentment, joy and total happiness is an unhealthy and unrealistic mindset to inhabit.

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What you truly want and need

Sometimes we need to look beyond the obvious (superficial) goals to discover and secure what we really want.

Sadly, we live in a collective mindset which teaches that the prettiest and the wealthiest are the most successful.

Some self-help frauds even teach this message. If you’re rich or pretty, you’re happy. If you’re both, you’re very happy. Pretty isn’t what we really want; it’s what we believe pretty will bring us. Same goes with money.

When we cut through the hype, the jargon and the self-help mumbo jumbo, we all have the same basic goals, desires and needs:

Joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

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Nobody needs a mansion or a sport’s car but we all need love.

Nobody needs massive pecs, six percent body-fat, a face lift or bigger breasts but we all need connection, acceptance and understanding.

Nobody needs to be famous but we all need peace, calm, balance and happiness.

The problem is, we live in a culture which teaches that one equals the other. If only we lived in a culture which taught that real success is far more about what’s happening in our internal environment, than our external one.

It’s a commonly-held belief that we’re all very different and we all have different goals — whether short term or long term goals. But in many ways we’re not, and we don’t; we all want essentially the same things.

Now all you have to do is see past the fraud and deception and find the right path.

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