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Thinking About Installing a Security System? Keep These 4 Factors in Mind

Thinking About Installing a Security System? Keep These 4 Factors in Mind

Maybe you’re a new homeowner.

Maybe your city’s police captain has warned of a string of recent break-ins.

Or, maybe you’ve just binge-watched an entire season of Criminal Minds on Netflix.

In any case, you’re putting serious thought into installing a security system to keep your family safe.

The problem is: you know a lot goes into installing a security system in your home, and you don’t know where to begin.

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Fear not! This guide will help you understand everything you need to know before you even start looking for the system that will best suit your needs and help keep your family safe.

Know what you need

The knee-jerk reaction, of course, is to go all out – especially when it comes to the safety of your kids and loved ones. But, as with all things, flashiest isn’t always best. Of course, if you go into a home security store with a look that says you’re frightened to death of potential catastrophe, the employee working with you is most likely going to try to sell you as much as possible – regardless of whether or not it suits your purposes or not.

It’s one thing to not know specifics, but you should definitely have a general idea of what you’re looking for. Understand the difference between a sensor and an alarm. Know the type of camera you need. Do some research on how much a system and installation should cost.

By showing the salesperson you are knowledgeable about home security systems, you’ll avoid getting ripped off, and end up with the best system your money can buy.

Be thorough

Too often, criminals get into homes because a certain entry point was overlooked by the homeowner.

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When preparing to install a security system into your home, you have to think like a burglar. Look for areas that offer even the slightest opportunity for a break-in – such as the sliding door in the basement being held shut by a block of wood, or the tree located directly outside the upstairs guestroom window.

Think about it: If someone is desperate enough to break into a house, they’re likely to do it by any means necessary, right?

Make sure you cover all the bases and ensure your home is as secure as possible.

Leave potential for upgrades

This piece of advice mainly pertains to those looking to install a security system on their own.

Take into consideration the fact that you might one day add a new room or area to your home that would require a bit of fine tuning to your system.

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Similarly, one of your devices may start to fail over time, or the company may release a better-performing device. If your system is put together piecemeal, you shouldn’t have a problem changing out obsolete technology in favor of the newest iteration.

And, perhaps the best part of a DIY system is you can take it with you if you decide to move. Obviously, you might have to do a little revamping of your system when you move into your new digs, but at least you won’t have had to leave your entire system behind.

Keep everyone in the loop

You can just imagine it, right?

You settle in for a good night’s sleep, and start to doze off. Suddenly, the alarm starts blaring, warning you of an intruder.

You reach for your phone to call the cops in a complete panic, only to realize your college-age son – home from a night out with friends – has forgotten the passcode.

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Once you install a security system, you should always make sure your loved ones know how to disarm it if need be. This should extend to family, friends, and anyone else you trust to be in your home without having to check with you first.

Furthermore, just because you have a security system doesn’t mean you’re 100% safe. Prepare a failsafe plan in case everyone in the house needs to act quickly, so everyone knows what to do in case a true emergency strikes.
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A home security system can end up saving your life, and the lives of your loved ones. With proper research, you can be sure to get the best one you can possibly afford, and keep your family safe in the process.

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Last Updated on July 10, 2020

How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

We all have them—those hurtful, frustrating, offensive, manipulative people in our lives. No matter how hard we try to surround ourselves with positive and kind people, there will always be those who will disrespect, insult, berate, and misuse you if we allow them to.

We may, for a variety of reasons, not be able to avoid them, but we can determine how we interact with them and how we allow them to interact with us.

So, how to take control of your life and stop being pushed around?

Learning to set clear firm boundaries with the people in our lives at work and in our personal lives is the best way to protect ourselves from the negative effects of this kind of behavior.

What Boundaries Are (And What They’re Not)

Boundaries are limits

—they are not threats or ultimatums. Boundaries inform or teach. They are not a form of punishment.

Boundaries are firm lines—determined by you—which cannot be crossed by those around you. They are guidelines for how you will allow others to treat you and what kind of behaviors you will expect.

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Healthy personal boundaries help protect you from physical or emotional pain. You may also need to set firm boundaries at work to ensure you and your time are not disrespected. Don’t allow others to take advantage of your kindness and generosity.

Clear boundaries communicate to others that you demand respect and consideration—that you are willing to stand up for yourself and that you will not be a doormat for anyone. They are a “no trespassing” sign that makes it very clear when a line has been crossed and that there will be consequences for doing so.

Boundaries are not set with the intention of changing other people. They may change how people interact with you, but they are more about enforcing your needs than attempting to change the general behavior and attitude of others.

How to Establish Boundaries and Take Control of Your Life

Here are some ways that you can establish boundaries and take control of your life.

1. Self-Awareness Comes First

Before you can establish boundaries with others, you first need to understand what your needs are.

You are entitled to respect. You have the right to protect yourself from inappropriate or offensive behavior. Setting boundaries is a way of honoring your needs.

To set appropriate boundaries, you need to be clear about what healthy behaviors look like—what healthy relationships look like.

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You first have to become more aware of your feelings and honest with yourself about your expectations and what you feel is appropriate behavior:

  • Where do you need to establish better boundaries?
  • When do you feel disrespected?
  • When do you feel violated, frustrated, or angered by the behavior of others?
  • In what situations do you feel you are being mistreated or taken advantage of?
  • When do you want to be alone?
  • How much space do you need?

You need to honor your own needs and boundaries before you can expect others to honor them. This allows you to take control of your life.

2. Clear Communication Is Essential

Inform others clearly and directly what your expectations are. It is essential to have clear communication if you want others to respect your boundaries. Explain in an honest and respectful tone what you find offensive or unacceptable.

Many people simply aren’t aware that they are behaving inappropriately. They may never have been taught proper manners or consideration for others.

3. Be Specific but Don’t Blame

Taking a blaming or punishing attitude automatically puts people on the defensive. People will not listen when they feel attacked. It’s part of human nature.

That said, you do not need to overexplain or defend yourself. Boundaries are not open to compromise.

Sample language:

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  • “You may not…yell or raise your voice to me…”
  • “I need…to be treated with respect…”
  • “It’s not okay when…you take things from my desk without asking…”
  • “I won’t…do your work…cover for you anymore…”
  • “It’s not acceptable when…you ridicule or insult me…”
  • “I am uncomfortable when…you use offensive language”
  • “I will no longer be able to…lend you money…”

Being able to communicate these without sounding accusatory is essential if you want others to respect your boundaries so you can take control of your life.

4. Consequences Are Often Necessary

Determine what the appropriate consequences will be when boundaries are crossed. If it’s appropriate, be clear about those consequences upfront when communicating those boundaries to others.

Follow through. People won’t respect your boundaries if you don’t enforce them.

Standing our ground and forcing consequences doesn’t come easily to us. We want to be nice. We want people to like us, but we shouldn’t have to trade our self-respect to gain friends or to achieve success.

We may be tempted to let minor disrespect slide to avoid conflict, but as the familiar saying goes, “if you give people an inch, they’ll take a mile.”

It’s much easier to address offensive or inappropriate behavior now than to wait until that behavior has gotten completely out of hand.

It’s also important to remember that positive reinforcement is even more powerful than negative consequences. When people do alter the way they treat you, acknowledge it. Let people know that you notice and appreciate their efforts.

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Final Thoughts

Respect is always a valid reason for setting a boundary. Don’t defend yourself or your needs. Boundaries are often necessary to protect your time, your space, and your feelings. And these are essential if you want to take control of your life.

Start with the easiest boundaries first. Setting boundaries is a skill that needs to be practiced. Enlist support from others if necessary. Inform people immediately when they have crossed the line.

Don’t wait. Communicate politely and directly. Be clear about the consequences and follow them through.

The better you become at setting your own boundaries, the better you become at recognizing and respecting the boundaries of others.

Remember that establishing boundaries is your right. You are entitled to respect. You can’t control how other people behave, but you do have control over the way you allow people to treat you.

Learning to set boundaries is not always easy, but with time, it will become more comfortable. You may eventually find that boundaries become automatic and you no longer need to consciously set them.

They will simply become a natural extension of your self-respect.

Featured photo credit: Thomas Kelley via unsplash.com

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