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All Breasts are NOT Created Equal, But We Should Love Them Anyway

All Breasts are NOT Created Equal, But We Should Love Them Anyway

Being insecure about breast size is a problem most women will face at some point in their lives. In fact it does not matter if you have large breasts or small breasts, most women will feel insecure about their breasts at one point or another. Women with small breasts may feel inferior while more endowed women may wonder if her partner loves her or just her cup size.

Ladies, the good news is that most men do not select his woman based upon her breast size (or looks at all for that matter). Men are visual, yes. They also love to look at women and they love boobs, it’s true; but, only a real pig will base his life long partner on these qualities. Men worth dating fall in love with personality and intelligence and, most men will agree, the best quality in a women is confidence.

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So the question is not how can we be more attractive to our significant others or how to make our breasts larger or smaller or any other way besides the way we are biologically predisposed to have them. The question we should be asking ourselves is how can we be happy with the size we have, no matter what it is. Here are six tips to help you start your journey of acceptance when it comes to the size of your breasts. Remember, the most important love you will ever receive, is the love you give yourself.

Make the choice to accept yourself the way you are

The first step is to make a conscious choice to love yourself no matter what anyone else says. Once that choice is made you can put that self-love into action. After-all, that’s the beginning of any great love relationship, isn’t it? Go out of your way to treat your body like it deserves to be treated. Think about everything your body has done for you. It doesn’t deserve to be fed junk food, plopped on the couch, and hated by you because it’s not what the media says it should be. No. It’s your body and you should love it no matter what anyone else thinks or says.

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Realize that all breasts are flawed, even the large ones

Size is not the only thing that makes nice breasts. Many women have breasts that are different sizes, or they have dark vanes, or acne. As stated already, some women feel like their breasts are too large or too small, but I am here to tell you that there is no such thing! Your breasts are beautiful because they are a part of you. Only you have the right to define them.

Focus on the other good qualities that you have

Everyone has qualities about themselves that they like. You might have beautiful eyes, nice hair, long legs, a killer butt. Every time you have a negative thought about yourself, try and think of something positive. For example, “my breasts may not be as large as I want, but men do love my butt.” Allow yourself to be happy with you because anything else is a waste of time and emotion. In the end we’re all going to get old and wrinkly anyway, so enjoy what you have while you have it.

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Take more sexual pleasure in the breasts you have

Breasts aren’t just sexy, they’re sexual too. Forget about his obsession with wanting large boobs and start thinking about you. Breasts can be a point of pleasure in the bedroom, so take advantage. Trust me when I tell you your man isn’t going to care what size your breasts are when you are getting turned on like that with him. When he touches you and you respond to his touch in such pleasure, there is nothing sexier to him than that.

Have fun dressing for you body type

So here’s the deal: no matter what size your breasts are, the fit of your clothes will determine how you look to others. You can have the largest breasts in the world, but if you are wearing huge baggy t-shirts and your eyes are red from crying and your hair is matted against your head, well, you probably won’t attract many people. Big or small, if you dress for you body type, that will catch the attention of men (or your man, whatever you are going for). Once you start getting the attention that you crave, your confidence will grow.

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Don’t define yourself by what other people say

This is an important lesson to learn, not just with breast size, but with anything. You may notice that when you go out of your way to do good things for yourself and take steps towards a happier healthier and fuller life, people will criticize. You must realize that they do not do this because there is anything wrong with you, they do this because they are insecure with themselves and they don’t want to be alone. Feel sorry for them, help them feel better about themselves (especially if it is someone you love), but do not under any circumstance allow their words to define you to you.

If we were perfect, we would have no journey of self discovery. We could not truly learn to love and accept to our fullest potential. So be thankful for your body. Take joy in the journey of self discovery and enjoy your transformation.

Featured photo credit: Ed Gregory/stokpic.com via stokpic.com

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10 Benefits of Sleeping Naked You Probably Didn’t Know

10 Benefits of Sleeping Naked You Probably Didn’t Know

Sleeping is one of the most important things we do every night.

Getting the right amount of sleep has an untold number of health benefits and not getting enough sleep is a serious problem in many countries around the world.

So you should have heard of the many benefits of getting adequate sleep, but did you know that you can get additional benefits by sleeping naked?

Here are some benefits of sleeping in the nude:

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1. It is easier.

When you don’t have to worry about sleeping in clothes, things start to get easier. You don’t have to buy pajamas, which can save you money. You have less clothes to wash and less clothes to put away. You may have to clean your bed sheets more often, but not nearly as often as you’d have to wash your pajamas when you run out.

2. It forces you to be ready to go more often.

Some people get off of work, change into their pajamas, and use this as an excuse to stay home the rest of the evening. This can lead to a more sedentary lifestyle, which has been attributed to things like weight gain.[1] When you keep your regular clothes on, you tend to go out more often and that’s a good thing.

3. It can make you feel happier and more free.

Just imagine the feeling of laying in bed naked. You’re free of your pants and underwear. Women, you’re not wearing a constrictive bra. It’s just you sandwiched between two cool sheets. The feeling just makes you want to smile and it makes you feel more free. Everyone can use that kind of good feeling every now and then, and it may even help you be happier as a person.

4. Skin-on-skin contact is the best.

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    If you’re married, or living with your significant other, sleeping naked gives a greater chance of skin-on-skin contact, especially when it comes to cuddling. This kind of contact can also lead to a more active sex life. All of this releases copious amounts of oxytocin, which is the neurotransmitter that helps you feel those good feelings about your significant other.[2]

    5. It could lead to better sleep.

    Let’s revisit the scenario I described above. There are no drawstrings or clothes getting tangled in sheets. You don’t have to worry about shirts getting twisted. All of these distractions go away when you sleep naked and it may help you get better, deeper sleep. You don’t need science to tell you that better, deeper sleep only helps you be healthier.

    6. It can help your skin.

    For once your body gets to breathe. Your private parts, armpits, and feet are generally restricted all day and are often covered by multiple layers, even in the summer time. Give those parts a chance to air out and breathe. This can lower the risk of skin diseases, like athlete’s foot, that result from wet, restricted skin.[3]

    7. It helps you regulate your cortisol.

    Cortisol is a very strange chemical in the body but it can do a lot of damage. When you sleep naked, it helps keep your body temperature at the optimal ranges so your body can better create cortisol. If you sleep overheated your cortisol levels tend to stay high, even after you wake up. This can lead to increased anxiety, cravings for bad food, weight gain, and more terrible things.[4] Sleep naked so you can keep your body temperature down and sleep well so your body can properly produce and regulate cortisol.

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    8. It balances your melatonin and growth hormone.

    Continuing along that same vein, keeping your sleeping environment below 70 degrees (F) every night can help your body regulate its melatonin and growth hormone levels. These chemicals help the body do things like prevent aging and are essential to good health. When you sleep in clothes, your body heats up and prevents effective use of these hormones. In other words, sleeping with clothes on makes you grow old faster.

    9. It can keep your sex organs happier.

    For men, the cooler sleeping conditions allows your testes to remain at a cooler temperature. This helps keep your sperm healthy and your reproductive systems functioning as normal. For women, the cooler and more airy sleeping conditions can actually help prevent yeast infections. Yeast grows better in warm, moist conditions.[5] When it’s cooler and dryer, the growth of yeast is prevented.

    10. Sleeping in the summer is more bearable.

      Summertime is a tricky time to get good sleep. If you don’t have air conditioning, then you may find your bedroom a bit stuffy at night.

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      Shedding those bedtime clothes can help the bedroom feel more comfortable. You may even be able to turn the A/C off on those cooler nights, which can save you a few bucks on your electricity bill.

      Don’t wake up drenched in sweat again because your thermostat is downstairs and the hot air expands up to your bedroom where the thermostat can’t read the warm temperatures.

      Sleep well with your naked body!

      With these tips in mind, it’s time to start taking off your clothes at night!

      Of course, there are times where clothes are preferable. If you are ill or it’s cold outside, then you should sleep with clothes on to help you stay warm and prevent further illness. Otherwise, go commando!

      If you’re looking for more tips to sleep well and get up feeling energetic, I recommend you to check out this guide:

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