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All Breasts are NOT Created Equal, But We Should Love Them Anyway

All Breasts are NOT Created Equal, But We Should Love Them Anyway

Being insecure about breast size is a problem most women will face at some point in their lives. In fact it does not matter if you have large breasts or small breasts, most women will feel insecure about their breasts at one point or another. Women with small breasts may feel inferior while more endowed women may wonder if her partner loves her or just her cup size.

Ladies, the good news is that most men do not select his woman based upon her breast size (or looks at all for that matter). Men are visual, yes. They also love to look at women and they love boobs, it’s true; but, only a real pig will base his life long partner on these qualities. Men worth dating fall in love with personality and intelligence and, most men will agree, the best quality in a women is confidence.

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So the question is not how can we be more attractive to our significant others or how to make our breasts larger or smaller or any other way besides the way we are biologically predisposed to have them. The question we should be asking ourselves is how can we be happy with the size we have, no matter what it is. Here are six tips to help you start your journey of acceptance when it comes to the size of your breasts. Remember, the most important love you will ever receive, is the love you give yourself.

Make the choice to accept yourself the way you are

The first step is to make a conscious choice to love yourself no matter what anyone else says. Once that choice is made you can put that self-love into action. After-all, that’s the beginning of any great love relationship, isn’t it? Go out of your way to treat your body like it deserves to be treated. Think about everything your body has done for you. It doesn’t deserve to be fed junk food, plopped on the couch, and hated by you because it’s not what the media says it should be. No. It’s your body and you should love it no matter what anyone else thinks or says.

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Realize that all breasts are flawed, even the large ones

Size is not the only thing that makes nice breasts. Many women have breasts that are different sizes, or they have dark vanes, or acne. As stated already, some women feel like their breasts are too large or too small, but I am here to tell you that there is no such thing! Your breasts are beautiful because they are a part of you. Only you have the right to define them.

Focus on the other good qualities that you have

Everyone has qualities about themselves that they like. You might have beautiful eyes, nice hair, long legs, a killer butt. Every time you have a negative thought about yourself, try and think of something positive. For example, “my breasts may not be as large as I want, but men do love my butt.” Allow yourself to be happy with you because anything else is a waste of time and emotion. In the end we’re all going to get old and wrinkly anyway, so enjoy what you have while you have it.

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Take more sexual pleasure in the breasts you have

Breasts aren’t just sexy, they’re sexual too. Forget about his obsession with wanting large boobs and start thinking about you. Breasts can be a point of pleasure in the bedroom, so take advantage. Trust me when I tell you your man isn’t going to care what size your breasts are when you are getting turned on like that with him. When he touches you and you respond to his touch in such pleasure, there is nothing sexier to him than that.

Have fun dressing for you body type

So here’s the deal: no matter what size your breasts are, the fit of your clothes will determine how you look to others. You can have the largest breasts in the world, but if you are wearing huge baggy t-shirts and your eyes are red from crying and your hair is matted against your head, well, you probably won’t attract many people. Big or small, if you dress for you body type, that will catch the attention of men (or your man, whatever you are going for). Once you start getting the attention that you crave, your confidence will grow.

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Don’t define yourself by what other people say

This is an important lesson to learn, not just with breast size, but with anything. You may notice that when you go out of your way to do good things for yourself and take steps towards a happier healthier and fuller life, people will criticize. You must realize that they do not do this because there is anything wrong with you, they do this because they are insecure with themselves and they don’t want to be alone. Feel sorry for them, help them feel better about themselves (especially if it is someone you love), but do not under any circumstance allow their words to define you to you.

If we were perfect, we would have no journey of self discovery. We could not truly learn to love and accept to our fullest potential. So be thankful for your body. Take joy in the journey of self discovery and enjoy your transformation.

Featured photo credit: Ed Gregory/stokpic.com via stokpic.com

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Last Updated on March 13, 2019

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

1. Work on the small tasks.

When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

2. Take a break from your work desk.

Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

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3. Upgrade yourself

Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

4. Talk to a friend.

Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

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6. Paint a vision to work towards.

If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

7. Read a book (or blog).

The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

8. Have a quick nap.

If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

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9. Remember why you are doing this.

Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

10. Find some competition.

Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

11. Go exercise.

Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

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12. Take a good break.

Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

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