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Giving Birth In Your 30s Can Boost Your Baby’s Cognitive Abilities, Research Shows

Giving Birth In Your 30s Can Boost Your Baby’s Cognitive Abilities, Research Shows

There are pros and cons of giving birth at any age. In your 20’s your fertility is high and your body is much more resilient to the physical demands of pregnancy. In your 30’s you feel more established in your career and feel ready to start a family. In your 40’s you have a strong self identity and in many cases less financial worries. Nevertheless, is there an ideal time that would benefit the baby?

A recent study, published in the journal Biodemography and Social Biology, found that babies born to mothers in their 30’s will be healthier and more intelligent than some babies born to mothers who are in their 20’s during childbirth and especially babies born to mothers who are in their 40’s when they give birth.

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Researchers from the London School of Economics looked at data from more than 18,000 children enrolled in the Millennium Cohort Study and tried to understand the impact a mother’s age has on the well-being and intelligence of her children. They were able to determine babies born by 30-somethings had the highest scores on cognitive tests at age 5.

Although you might be thinking the reason behind this is genetics or age, the research suggests that the benefits have more to do with the mothers social and financial standing. In fact, eighty-five percent of women over the age 35 are married, which makes it more likely that they have their partner’s financial and emotional support.

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“First-time mothers in their 30’s are, for example, likely to be more educated, have higher incomes, are more likely to be in stable relationships, have healthier lifestyles, seek prenatal care earlier, and have planned their pregnancies,” explained Dr. Alice Goisis. She added women in this age group are also less likely to smoke and more likely to breastfeed and read to their children, all of which contribute to the child’s increase in intelligence.

Of course, there are downsides of waiting to start a family as well. Chances of miscarriages, low fertility and birth defects continue to increase with a mothers age. In some cases, 40 something parents reported that they had less energy to keep up with the parenting lifestyle resulting in higher rates of obesity among their children. However, other more optimistic parents in their 40’s argued that having young children keeps them active and healthy.

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All in all, you have to do what is right for you and your situation. Regardless of age, if you are confident you are ready to start a family then by all means go for it. If you are not ready then having the emotional maturity to wait will most likely benefit your future baby. It seems to me that as long as you do the right things during pregnancy, read to your children and maybe throw in a little Mozart, who knows, you may have the next baby Einstein.

Then again, if you’re a mother in her 30’s secretly thinking “Woohoo!”, it might be time for a little victory dance.

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Do you have any tips to help your baby’s intellect? Leave your thoughts in the comments!

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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