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20 Ways to Say ‘I Love You’ With Photos

20 Ways to Say ‘I Love You’ With Photos

Since February is Valentine’s month, it is a great time to show someone just how much you appreciate them. Instead of rushing out to buy the usual gifts this holiday, like a bottle of wine, chocolates, balloons, or cards, why not find a new way to celebrate the month?

You can give something to your Valentine any time during the month. This can be anyone close to you: your romantic partner, best friend, sibling, teammate, work buddy, or parent. Or, you could decide to have multiple Valentine’s this year and do something special for everyone you know. But, who has the time to do that?

Let’s just focus on that special someone who steals your heart every time they give you a hug. One of the most romantic things you can do for someone you care deeply about, is create a photo gift. This can be a DIY project or one you have made.

Gabriel Flores Romero on Flickr

    Here are 20 ideas for giving photos as a gift:

    1. Framed print

    You can have photos enlarged in a variety of sizes, and there are lots of websites where you can have that done. Some are rectangular (full frame) and some sizes crop part of the image out, such as the popular square images used on Instagram. Some frames cover a small portion of the image.
    2.  Canvas prints

    Canvas is extremely popular right now, because it gives a rich look and texture to your photograph. Especially black and white images look good in canvas. Larger prints also look amazing in canvas.

    3.  Metal print

    Metal prints are all the rage now, because it is something new being offered by photo labs. The images are printed on aluminum and have a smooth, glistening finish and they are irresistible.

    4.  Enlargement

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    Regular enlargements are still printed all the time by photo labs. You can usually get a glossy finish or a matte finish, depending on how much reflection you prefer.

    Ahmed Sinan on Flickr

      5.  Photo mural

      Murals are a way to transform you home decor, because you use an entire wall for the display. They come in a variety of materials and some are made like removable wallpaper, so it doesn’t have to be permanent.

      6.  Wall gallery

      A gallery wall is a great way to display multiple images in a creative way. Depending on the room decor, you can display many of images together that look attractive.

      7.  DIY frame

      Use your imagination on this one, because the sky’s the limit. Some people make frames out of old wood, or they hot glue buttons, other objects and jewels to the edges. One idea is to keep it simple by using mini clothespins to attach the images.

      8.  Scrapbook

      A photo album or scrapbook is a classic way to tell a story with pictures. You can be as creative as you want and use various papers and designs to showcase your photos. You can get ideas from you local craft store.

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      9.  Photo locket

      You could have a photo locket made, as an old-fashioned gift for your loved one. These are usually custom made by jewelers.

      Alan Antiporda on Flickr

        10.  Mouse pad

        Any digital image can be printed onto a custom mousepad, and most labs offer this service. You can order them online.

        11.  Cell Phone case

        Here is a personal and popular way to give a photo as a gift. Check online for sites that make these.

        12.  Magnet

        Magnets can be made in various sizes and are handy to stick on the refrigerator, school locker, or any metal object.

        13.  Calendar

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        Consider making a calendar if you have so many images, that you can’t pick one. You can have them made small or in larger standard sizes, using various kinds of software, some of which can be found online for free.

        14.  Photo book

        Ideas for photo books can include places you’ve been, weddings, honeymoons, birthdays or other special occasions. They can be printed as hardcover or softcover books. Some people create photo books as a way to document each year they spend together.

        15.  Keychain or pendant

        A keychain is a simple way to remind the person you care every day. These can be ordered at print shops, or you can make your own.

        16.  T-Shirt

        T-Shirts are a fun item you can have made that are a large display of your favorite photo. Most local print shops offer the service, or order them online at many websites.

        Bill Harrison on Flickr

          17.  Pillows and blankets

          These are a very personal items that make unusual gifts. Do a Google search for photo gifts to find retailers that make them.

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          18.  Photo collage

          Some photo editing software, such as Picassa provides an option for you to create a photo collage of your images. You can use just a few images, or multiple ones for a special effect.  A collage can then be printed in various sizes at a photo lab.

          19.  Online album

          An online album has the advantage of being accessible for any number of people, and this works well for special event photos, such as a wedding or party. There are tons of web and phone applications that let you create albums. You can specify in the settings if you want your album to be viewable by only one person or groups of people.

          20.  Slideshow with music

          When you create a slideshow that includes both music and words, it requires specialized software, but the effect can be dazzling and very personal. Prices vary for the software according to whether you want to do it on an amateur level or pro level of expertise.

          Make your Valentine’s Day celebration special this year by creating a unique and personal gift out of photos of you and your loved one. It is never too late to tell someone ‘I love you’ by giving them a photo keepsake that they can treasure forever.

          Featured photo credit: Carlos ZGZ on Flickr via flickr.com

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          How to Communicate Effectively in Any Relationship

          How to Communicate Effectively in Any Relationship

          For all our social media bravado, we live in a society where communication is seen less as an art, and more as a perfunctory exercise. We spend so much time with people, yet we struggle with how to meaningfully communicate.

          If you believe you have mastered effective communication, scan the list below and see whether you can see yourself in any of the examples:

          Example 1

          You are uncomfortable with a person’s actions or comments, and rather than telling the individual immediately, you sidestep the issue and attempt to move on as though the offending behavior or comment never happened.

          You move on with the relationship and develop a pattern of not addressing challenging situations. Before long, the person with whom you are in relationship will say or do something that pushes you over the top and predictably, you explode or withdraw completely from the relationship.

          In this example, hard-to-speak truths become never- expressed truths that turn into resentment and anger.

          Example 2

          You communicate from the head and without emotion. While what you communicate makes perfect sense to you, it comes across as cold because it lacks emotion.

          People do not understand what motivates you to say what you say, and without sharing your feelings and emotions, others experience you as rude, cold or aggressive.

          You will know this is a problem if people shy away from you, ignore your contributions in meetings or tell you your words hurt. You can also know you struggle in this area if you find yourself constantly apologizing for things you have said.

          Example 3

          You have an issue with one person, but you communicate your problem to an entirely different person.

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          The person in whom you confide lacks the authority to resolve the matter troubling you, and while you have vented and expressed frustration, the underlying challenge is unresolved.

          Example 4

          You grew up in a family with destructive communication habits and those habits play out in your current relationships.

          Because you have never stopped to ask why you communicate the way you do and whether your communication style still works, you may lack understanding of how your words impact others and how to implement positive change.

          If you find yourself in any of the situations described above, this article is for you.

          Communication can build or decimate worlds and it is important we get it right. Regardless of your professional aspirations or personal goals, you can improve your communication skills if you:

          • Understand your own communication style
          • Tailor your style depending on the needs of the audience
          • Communicate with precision and care
          • Be mindful of your delivery, timing and messenger

          1. Understand Your Communication Style

          To communicate effectively, you must understand the communication legacy passed down from our parents, grandparents or caregivers. Each of us grew up with spoken and unspoken rules about communication.

          In some families, direct communication is practiced and honored. In other families, family members are encouraged to shy away from difficult conversations. Some families appreciate open and frank dialogue and others do not. Other families practice silence about substantive matters, that is, they seldom or rarely broach difficult conversations at all.

          Before you can appreciate the nuance required in communication, it helps to know the familial patterns you grew up with.

          2. Learn Others Communication Styles

          Communicating effectively requires you to take a step back, assess the intended recipient of your communication and think through how the individual prefers to be communicated with. Once you know this, you can tailor your message in a way that increases the likelihood of being heard. This also prevents you from assuming the way you communicate with one group is appropriate or right for all groups or people.

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          If you are unsure how to determine the styles of the groups or persons with whom you are interacting, you can always ask them:

          “How do you prefer to receive information?”

          This approach requires listening, both to what the individuals say as well as what is unspoken. Virgin Group CEO Richard Branson noted that the best communicators are also great listeners.

          To communicate effectively from relationship to relationship and situation to situation, you must understand the communication needs of others.

          3. Exercise Precision and Care

          A recent engagement underscored for me the importance of exercising care when communicating.

          On a recent trip to Ohio, I decided to meet up with an old friend to go for a walk. As we strolled through the soccer park, my friend gently announced that he had something to talk about, he was upset with me. His introduction to the problem allowed me to mentally shift gears and prepare for the conversation.

          Shortly after introducing the shift in conversation, my friend asked me why I didn’t invite him to the launch party for my business. He lives in Ohio and I live in the D.C. area.

          I explained that the event snuck up on me, and I only started planning the invite list three weeks before the event. Due to the last-minute nature of the gathering, I opted to invite people in the DMV area versus my friends from outside the area – I didn’t want to be disrespectful by asking them to travel on such short notice.

          I also noted that I didn’t want to be disappointed if he and others declined to come to the event. So I played it safe in terms of inviting people who were local.

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          In the moment, I felt the conversation went very well. I also checked in with my friend a few days after our walk, affirmed my appreciation for his willingness to communicate his upset and our ability to work through it.

          The way this conversation unfolded exemplified effective communication. My friend approached me with grace and vulnerability. He approached me with a level of curiosity that didn’t put me on my heels — I was able to really listen to what he was saying, apologize for how my decision impacted him and vow that going forward, I would always ask rather than making decisions for him and others.

          Our relationship is intact, and I now have information that will help me become a better friend to him and others.

          4. Be Mindful of Delivery, Timing and Messenger

          Communicating effectively also requires thinking through the delivery of the message one intends to communicate as well as the appropriate time for the discussion.

          In an Entrepreneur.com column, VIP Contributor Deep Patel, noted that persons interested in communicating well need to master the art of timing. Patel noted,[1]

          “Great comedians, like all great communicators, are able to feel out their audience to determine when to move on to a new topic or when to reiterate an idea.”

          Communicating effectively also requires thoughtfulness about the messenger. A person prone to dramatic, angry outbursts should never be called upon to deliver constructive feedback, especially to people whom they do not know. The immediate aftermath of a mass shooting is not the ideal time to talk about the importance of the Second Amendment rights.

          Like everyone else, I must work to ensure my communication is layered with precision and care.

          It requires precision because words must be carefully tailored to the person with whom you are speaking.

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          It requires intentionality because before one communicates, one should think about the audience and what the audience needs in order to hear your message the way you intended it to be communicated.

          It requires active listening which is about hearing verbal and nonverbal messages.

          Even though we may be right in what we say, how we say it could derail the impact of the message and the other parties’ ability to hear the message.

          Communicating with care is also about saying things that the people in our life need to hear and doing so with love.

          The Bottom Line

          When I left the meeting with my dear friend, I wondered if I was replicating or modeling this level of openness and transparency in the rest of my relationships.

          I was intrigued and appreciative. He’d clearly thought about what he wanted to say to me, picked the appropriate time to share his feedback and then delivered it with care. He hit the ball out of the park and I’m hopeful we all do the same.

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