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I Have A Funny Accent Because I Know More Than One Language

I Have A Funny Accent Because I Know More Than One Language

I recently have moved to the United States from a country in Africa. I speak English, but it’s not my first language. I know more than one language, which is why I sound funny to your ears. Learning another language is something anyone can do. If you want to leave the United States to visit another country, you also might sound funny because you will be speaking English in a different country. If you want to learn a new language, you need only to follow these steps.

Determine how you learn.

When you go to learn  a language, you have to know how you learn.

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Everyone learns differently, especially with languages. For example, you could do well with a technique that involves a lot of repetition, through writing down the words or listening to a native speaker. You also will have to know if you are a visual, auditive or kinesthetic learner. To learn which style you are, try choosing a few words from your language and read them over a few times. If you can remember them the next day you’re probably a visual learner. You could try having someone else read them to you. If you remember them, you are an auditory learner. If you still can’t remember the words, read and write the words, repeat them out loud, listen to them read to you by someone else, associate memories and feelings with them. If this process works, you are a kinesthetic learner.

Learn how to pronounce the words.

The language might have the same letters, but they won’t sound the same. For example, Spanish has a silent h while English has a sound for h. The Foreign Service Institute provides free online language learning materials, or you can visit your library for audio recordings that help with learning pronunciation and books that give pronunciation tips.

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Grammar is important.

After you learn vocabulary, you have to learn how to put it into sentences. You have to be careful with the other language’s grammar. You have to know the rules. For example, many languages put the adjective after the noun while in America, you put it before the noun. Consider the structure of the language and how the articles work (masculine, feminine, neutral). Learning the structure of the language will help you understand how it fits together once you start learning different words. You have to know how to express questions, affirmative and negative statements in the past, present and future tense using the 20 most common regular and irregular verbs.

Memorize 30 words and phrases each day.

After 90 days, you will know about 80 percent of the language. Memorization is necessary to have a handle on the language. You can choose many ways to memorize your words. You can practice each word a dozen times. Put the words in sentences. You will be able to think about the words when you need them. You have to keep practicing the words after memorizing them. That way you won’t forget them.

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Know the Alphabet.

To help you learn the alphabet try linking the letters to pictures and sounds. Your brain will then have a way to see the letter and the sound that accompanies it. For example, if the letter sounds like “ah,” you might think of a patient in doctor’s office with a tongue depressor in his or her mouth. The associations can be silly if that helps you to learn. You might also have to read it a different way, such as right to left or bottom to top.

So you see, you can have a funny accent too if you learn these steps.

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Last Updated on July 16, 2019

7 Ways to Get Rid of Negative Energy and Become Positive

7 Ways to Get Rid of Negative Energy and Become Positive

Negativity affects ourselves and everyone around us. It limits our potential to become something great and live a fulfilling, purposeful life. Negativity has a tangible effect on our health, too. Research has shown that people who cultivate negative energy experience more stress, more sickness, and less opportunity over the course of their lives than those who choose to live positively.

When we make a decision to become positive, and follow that decision up with action, we will begin to encounter situations and people that are also positive. The negative energy gets edged out by all positive experiences. It’s a snowball effect.

Although negative and positive thoughts will always exist, the key to becoming positive is to limit the amount of negativity that we experience by filling ourselves up with more positivity.

Here are some ways to get rid of negativity and become more positive.

1. Become Grateful for Everything

When life is all about us, it’s easy to believe that we deserve what we have. An attitude of entitlement puts us at the center of the universe and sets up the unrealistic expectation that others should cater to us, our needs, and our wants. This vain state of existence is a surefire way to set yourself up for an unfulfilled life of negativity.

People living in this sort of entitlement are “energy suckers”–they are always searching for what they can get out of a situation. People that don’t appreciate the nuances of their lives live in a constant state of lacking. And it’s really difficult to live a positive life this way.

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When we begin to be grateful and appreciate everything in our lives–from the small struggles that make us better, to the car that gets us from A to B every day–we shift our attitude from one of selfishness, to one of appreciation. This appreciation gets noticed by others, and a positive harmony begins to form in our relationships.

We begin to receive more of that which we are grateful for, because we’ve opened ourselves up to the idea of receiving, instead of taking. This will make your life more fulfilling, and more positive.

2. Laugh More, Especially at Yourself

Life gets busy, our schedules fill up, we get into relationships, and work can feel task oriented and routine-driven at times. Being human can feel more like being a robot. But having this work-driven, serious attitude often results in negative and performance oriented thinking.

Becoming positive means taking life less seriously and letting yourself off the hook. This is the only life that you get to live, why not lighten up your mood?

Laughter helps us become positive by lightening our mood and reminding us not to take life so seriously. Are you sensitive to light sarcasm? Do you have trouble laughing at jokes? Usually, people who are stressed out and overly serious get most offended by sarcasm because their life is all work and no play.

If we can learn to laugh at ourselves and our mistakes, life will become more of an experiment in finding out what makes us happy. And finding happiness means finding positivity.

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3. Help Others

Negativity goes hand in hand with selfishness. People that live only for themselves have no higher purpose in their lives. If the whole point of this world is only to take care of yourself and no one else, the road to a long-term fulfillment and purpose is going to be a long one.

Positivity accompanies purpose. The most basic way to create purpose and positivity in your life is to begin doing things for others. Start small; open the door for the person in front of you at Starbucks or ask someone how their day was before telling them about yours.

Helping others will give you an intangible sense of value that will translate into positivity. And people might just appreciate you in the process.

4. Change Your Thinking

We can either be our best coach or our best enemy. Change starts from within. If you want to become more positive, change the wording of your thoughts. We are the hardest on ourselves, and a stream of negative self talk is corrosive to a positive life.

The next time you have a negative thought, write it down and rephrase it with a positive spin. For example, change a thought like, “I can’t believe I did so horribly on the test–I suck.” to “I didn’t do as well as I hoped to on this test. But I know I’m capable and I’ll do better next time.”

Changing our self-talk is powerful.

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5. Surround Yourself with Positive People

We become most like the people that we surround ourselves with. If our friend group is full of negative energy-suckers and drama queens, we will emulate that behavior and become like them. It is very difficult to become more positive when the people around us don’t support or demonstrate positive behavior.

As you become more positive, you’ll find that your existing friends will either appreciate the new you or they will become resistant to your positive changes. This is a natural response.

Change is scary; but cutting out the negative people in your life is a huge step to becoming more positive. Positive people reflect and bounce their perspectives onto one another. Positivity is a step-by-step process when you do it solo, but a positive group of friends can be an escalator.

6. Get into Action

Negative thoughts can be overwhelming and challenging to navigate. Negativity is usually accompanied by a “freak-out” response, especially when tied to relationships, people and to worrying about the future. This is debilitating to becoming positive and usually snowballs into more worry, more stress and more freak-outs.

Turn the negative stress into positive action. The next time you’re in one of these situations, walk away and take a break. With your eyes closed, take a few deep breaths. Once you’re calm, approach the situation or problem with a pen and pad of paper. Write out four or five actions or solutions to begin solving the problem.

Taking yourself out of the emotionally charged negative by moving into the action-oriented positive will help you solve more problems rationally and live in positivity

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7. Take Full Responsibility, Stop Being the Victim

You are responsible for your thoughts.

People that consistently believe that things happen to them handicap themselves to a victim mentality. This is a subtle and deceptive negative thought pattern. Phrases like “I have to work” or “I can’t believe he did that to me” are indicators of a victim mentality. Blaming circumstances and blaming others only handicaps our decision to change something negative into something positive.

Taking full responsibility for your life, your thoughts and your actions is one of the biggest steps in creating a more positive life. We have unlimited potential within to create our own reality, change our life, and change our thoughts. When we begin to really internalize this, we discover that no one can make us feel or do anything. We choose our emotional and behavioral response to people and circumstances.

Make positive choices in favor of yourself.

“Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny” ― Lao Tzu

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