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Have We Discovered A Love Hack That Works? [INFOGRAPHIC]

Have We Discovered A Love Hack That Works? [INFOGRAPHIC]
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In this age of social media and text communication, it’s easier than ever to connect with people from all corners of the world. You can talk to people without ever knowing what their voice sounds like or what they even look like.

In 1997, Dr. Arthur Aron conducted a study to see if feelings of intimacy and closeness could be fast-tracked in a lab setting. A classroom of psychology students were divided into pairs and given 36 questions to ask each other. These questions were divided into three 15-question sections, becoming more probing and personal with each section. The idea was that if people shared personal memories, thoughts and feelings with each other, they would feel closeness at an accelerated pace. The 36 questions became a popular exercise for people looking for ways to break the ice during dates or to get closer with their partners.

Dr. Aron sent out a follow up survey seven weeks after the study and found that 57% of students had at least one subsequent conversation, 35% had done something together, and 37% had subsequently sat together in class. Dr. Aron had, essentially, created a love hack.

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This year, Venngage decided to recreate the study with with a 21st century twist: the study would be conducted entirely through text, with no physical indicators.This new study asked 32 participants to ask each other the same 36 questions, but through text message. At the end of the study, participants had the option of exchanging contact information with their partner if they were interested in talking more or meeting in person.

Would people still feel the same level of closeness as in the original study if participants had no physical cues to go by? Is it possible for people to fall in love through words alone?

The results may or may not surprise you. While the majority of participants 50% of participants found it easier to discuss personal topics through text, 53% of participants still preferred offline conversation to online. And while 81% of participants exchanged contact info at the end of the study, 78% of participants did not intend to see their partner again after the study.

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While text can make it easier for more introverted people to open up, most people need to meet a person before they know how they feel about them. In the original study, the relationship between participants was rated closer than the closest relationship in the lives of 30% of similar students. In the new study, however, 16% of participants felt the same level of closeness to their partner as they do to the closest person in their life, 84% felt less close in comparison, and 0% felt more close in comparison.

What can we learn from this? Well, while text can be a great way to chat with someone before deciding if you want to meet them in person, most people need a physical connection with their partner in love. There are things that a person reveals through their facial expressions and physicality that is lost through text communication.

But don’t despair if meeting people in person isn’t your thing! While the number of people who use online dating apps is still in the minority, those numbers are on the rise. According to research done by eHarmony, 38% of couples are expected to meet online in the near future, with that number rising to 70% of couples by 2040. And while most people prefer conducting their romantic lives offline, according to a survey by Skout, 76% of people have  a good friend that they met online but have never met up with in person. So it would seem that people continue to become more and more comfortable with conducting relationships through social media and messaging apps.

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When it comes to love, do what works for you.

This infographic shows the full results of the study:

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                        Featured photo credit: Venngage via infograph.venngage.com

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                        Last Updated on July 12, 2021

                        100 Incredible Life Hacks That Make Life So Much Easier

                        100 Incredible Life Hacks That Make Life So Much Easier
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                        Want to learn some quick and easy life hacks that are easy to do, low cost and saves you time?

                        By tweaking little things in your daily life, it can make your life much more convenient!

                        Here’re 100 of the most practical life hacks so you can just pick up any of them right away!

                        83 tie a small piece of bright colored fabric

                          84 write random letter

                            85 use a rubberband

                              86 dorm smell bad

                                87 lean your phone on your sunglassess

                                  89 how to waterproof your shoes

                                    90 take a picture of the name card

                                      91 iron inside out

                                        92 old newspaper

                                          93 tumble try shoes

                                            keep a card like this

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                                                94 soap bar

                                                  95 make a hole

                                                    96 drop the battery

                                                      97 use a coozie

                                                        98 when taking a picture

                                                          use a clean dust pan

                                                            try a pants hanger

                                                              use your cellphone light

                                                                use a spring from an old pen

                                                                  quick and easy iphone speaker

                                                                    user binder clips

                                                                      wrap a wet paper towel around your beverage

                                                                        put pancake mix in a ketchup bottle

                                                                          clean out an old lotion bottle for your beach

                                                                            use a muffin tin to serve condiments at a bbq

                                                                              doritos are great for kindling

                                                                                use nail polish to identify different keys

                                                                                  use a hanging shoe rack to store cleaning supplies

                                                                                    freeze grapes to chill white wine without

                                                                                      use paper clips to organize your cables

                                                                                        almost finished your jar of nutella

                                                                                          sick of having a box full of tangled

                                                                                            unroll the rim to increase the capacity

                                                                                              cut open toilet paper rolls and use as a cuff

                                                                                                remove the stem from strawberries

                                                                                                  turn an old bottle into a simple little cord holder

                                                                                                    for iced coffee and iced cappuccino, use frozen coffee cubes

                                                                                                      how to fold a fitted bed sheet

                                                                                                        tired of snoozing past your alarm

                                                                                                          place a rubber band around an open paint can to wipe your brush on

                                                                                                            ut a wooden spoon across a boiling pot

                                                                                                              use bread clips to save flip-flops

                                                                                                                take pictures of friends holding items

                                                                                                                  how i always know which headphone is the left one

                                                                                                                    put a stocking over the end of a vacuum

                                                                                                                      How to make sure you drink enough water

                                                                                                                        user a can opener to open blister

                                                                                                                          good sandwich guide

                                                                                                                            turn your muffin pans upside down

                                                                                                                              50 pounds of groceries and living on the 5th floor

                                                                                                                                the right way to make a blt

                                                                                                                                  add one teaspoon of baking soda

                                                                                                                                    38

                                                                                                                                      hair straighteners equals to collar irons

                                                                                                                                        stack your clothes vertically to see them all

                                                                                                                                          the right way to make cookies in the summer

                                                                                                                                            how to clean a blender

                                                                                                                                              the right way to eat a popsicle

                                                                                                                                                use bread clips to label and organize power cords

                                                                                                                                                  to get the built up residue off of your shower head

                                                                                                                                                    user a hair clip to orgainize long wires

                                                                                                                                                      a frozen saturated sponge in a bag

                                                                                                                                                        rub stuck zipper teeth with a graphite pencil

                                                                                                                                                          use a soda pop tab

                                                                                                                                                            50

                                                                                                                                                              51 How to multiply large numbers in your head.

                                                                                                                                                                52 How to open a bottle if you dont have a corkscrew.

                                                                                                                                                                  rub a walnut on damaged wooden furniture

                                                                                                                                                                    kids fall out of bed

                                                                                                                                                                      use toothpaste to clear up hazy car

                                                                                                                                                                        58

                                                                                                                                                                          59 keep pizza out while driving home

                                                                                                                                                                            60 put your straw through the tab to keep it from rising

                                                                                                                                                                              hold oreos with a fork so your fingers

                                                                                                                                                                                Never lose your remotes again

                                                                                                                                                                                  hiding your emergency money

                                                                                                                                                                                    use a bread tab to hold your spot on a roll

                                                                                                                                                                                      if you are at a hotel and run out of chargers

                                                                                                                                                                                        keep a square of cardboard in a ziplock bag

                                                                                                                                                                                          If you need to pee or smoke at a bar

                                                                                                                                                                                            drill holes in the bottom of your garbage

                                                                                                                                                                                              use an accented letter as your passcode

                                                                                                                                                                                                use a squeeze ketchup bottle top with your shopvac

                                                                                                                                                                                                  do something unusual when locking the door

                                                                                                                                                                                                    when heating leftovers space out a circle in the middle

                                                                                                                                                                                                      dont burn yourself in those hard to reach candles

                                                                                                                                                                                                        put a small amount of water in a glass when you microwave your pizza

                                                                                                                                                                                                          75 use a piece of paper to organize

                                                                                                                                                                                                            use half a pool noodle

                                                                                                                                                                                                              pencil case to store cables

                                                                                                                                                                                                                78 clothespin to hold nail

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  79 make blts

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    80 take a picture of your fridge

                                                                                                                                                                                                                      81 fill plastic water bottles

                                                                                                                                                                                                                        82 right ways to eat chips

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          99 if your plug keeps failing

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            100 put the banana on the wire

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              88 before you throw away a post it

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Source: Reddit LifeProTips

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                There you go, 100 awesome life hacks that you can try right now to make your life a lot easier!

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