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8 Things Only People Who Suffer From Severe Menstrual Cramps Would Know

8 Things Only People Who Suffer From Severe Menstrual Cramps Would Know

While many women can breeze through their periods each month without even missing a beat, others are not so lucky. Some women can suffer through truly severe menstrual cramps each month and come to really dread this part of their cycle. Below are 8 things only these women would understand.

1. You Are Not Exaggerating

Though different perceive pain differently, those who suffer from severe menstrual pain are not faking it or exaggerating. Some women describe the pain to be even more powerful than labor pain. People who don’t suffer from this just can’t understand our feelings fully.

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2. You Are Not Drug Seeker, Either!

Most women who have severe cramps treat it with over-the-counter pain medications like ibuprofen, home remedies like heating pads or natural therapies like bioidentical hormones. Without such medicine, it’s very likely for us to faint over. However, there’re always some people saying that you have a low endurance and should not take pills too often.

3. You Are Not Sickly!

Sometimes menstrual disorders can be part of larger issues. But most women who have severe periods are otherwise healthy and lead regular, normal lives for the other three weeks of the month! Don’t assume that just because a woman has severe menstrual cycles that she has other health problems as well. According to western medicine, there’s still no proven causes for severe menstrual cramps for young women.

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4. You Have to Fight Fatigue as Well as Pain

Pain is not the only issue with a heavy period. Fatigue and exhaustion are also problems and can be just as difficult to cope with – and sometimes it is the pain itself that is causing the fatigue to begin with. It’s good for people to understand that these women are dealing with more than one issue.

5. You Sometimes Struggle with Mood Swings

Many times, heavy periods can result from imbalances in the female hormones, especially in progesterone and estrogen. This can result in having to deal with the emotional roller coaster that hormonal changes can bring with them – and these changes in mood can be difficult to cope with as well.

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6. You Are Not Crazy!

The pain, fatigue and mood swings that you experience on your period are the result, again, of an imbalance in the hormone levels. It is not a sign of a mental illness or emotional instability – though some women who have these problems might have to cope with increased stress or anxiety or problems with depression.

7. You Feel Overwhelmed

The pain and fatigue that a severe period can bring with it make it harder to do even the simplest things, like going to work, cleaning up the house or doing other activities of daily living. This can make it easy to get behind on things – and even easier to feel overwhelmed.

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8. You Appreciate a Show of Support

Menstrual cramps make life hard. And while most women won’t thank you for a big slap on the back during this delicate time, they do appreciate a show of support. A friend or family member who can bring over a meal or pick up the drying cleaning can go a long way to helping out.

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Last Updated on March 13, 2019

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

1. Work on the small tasks.

When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

2. Take a break from your work desk.

Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

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3. Upgrade yourself

Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

4. Talk to a friend.

Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

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6. Paint a vision to work towards.

If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

7. Read a book (or blog).

The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

8. Have a quick nap.

If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

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9. Remember why you are doing this.

Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

10. Find some competition.

Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

11. Go exercise.

Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

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Here’re 15 Tips to Restart the Exercise Habit (and How to Keep It).

12. Take a good break.

Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

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