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8 Things Only People Who Suffer From Severe Menstrual Cramps Would Know

8 Things Only People Who Suffer From Severe Menstrual Cramps Would Know

While many women can breeze through their periods each month without even missing a beat, others are not so lucky. Some women can suffer through truly severe menstrual cramps each month and come to really dread this part of their cycle. Below are 8 things only these women would understand.

1. You Are Not Exaggerating

Though different perceive pain differently, those who suffer from severe menstrual pain are not faking it or exaggerating. Some women describe the pain to be even more powerful than labor pain. People who don’t suffer from this just can’t understand our feelings fully.

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2. You Are Not Drug Seeker, Either!

Most women who have severe cramps treat it with over-the-counter pain medications like ibuprofen, home remedies like heating pads or natural therapies like bioidentical hormones. Without such medicine, it’s very likely for us to faint over. However, there’re always some people saying that you have a low endurance and should not take pills too often.

3. You Are Not Sickly!

Sometimes menstrual disorders can be part of larger issues. But most women who have severe periods are otherwise healthy and lead regular, normal lives for the other three weeks of the month! Don’t assume that just because a woman has severe menstrual cycles that she has other health problems as well. According to western medicine, there’s still no proven causes for severe menstrual cramps for young women.

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4. You Have to Fight Fatigue as Well as Pain

Pain is not the only issue with a heavy period. Fatigue and exhaustion are also problems and can be just as difficult to cope with – and sometimes it is the pain itself that is causing the fatigue to begin with. It’s good for people to understand that these women are dealing with more than one issue.

5. You Sometimes Struggle with Mood Swings

Many times, heavy periods can result from imbalances in the female hormones, especially in progesterone and estrogen. This can result in having to deal with the emotional roller coaster that hormonal changes can bring with them – and these changes in mood can be difficult to cope with as well.

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6. You Are Not Crazy!

The pain, fatigue and mood swings that you experience on your period are the result, again, of an imbalance in the hormone levels. It is not a sign of a mental illness or emotional instability – though some women who have these problems might have to cope with increased stress or anxiety or problems with depression.

7. You Feel Overwhelmed

The pain and fatigue that a severe period can bring with it make it harder to do even the simplest things, like going to work, cleaning up the house or doing other activities of daily living. This can make it easy to get behind on things – and even easier to feel overwhelmed.

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8. You Appreciate a Show of Support

Menstrual cramps make life hard. And while most women won’t thank you for a big slap on the back during this delicate time, they do appreciate a show of support. A friend or family member who can bring over a meal or pick up the drying cleaning can go a long way to helping out.

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Last Updated on April 8, 2020

Why Assuming Positive Intent Is an Amazing Productivity Driver

Why Assuming Positive Intent Is an Amazing Productivity Driver

Assuming positive intent is an important contributor to quality of life.

Most people appreciate the dividends such a mindset produces in the realm of relationships. How can relationships flourish when you don’t assume intentions that may or may not be there? And how their partner can become an easier person to be around as a result of such a shift? Less appreciated in the GTD world, however, is the productivity aspect of this “assume positive intent” perspective.

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Most of us are guilty of letting our minds get distracted, our energy sapped, or our harmony compromised by thinking about what others woulda, coulda, shoulda.  How we got wronged by someone else.  How a friend could have been more respectful.  How a family member could have been less selfish.

However, once we evolve to understanding the folly of this mindset, we feel freer and we become more productive professionally due to the minimization of unhelpful, distracting thoughts.

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The leap happens when we realize two things:

  1. The self serving benefit from giving others the benefit of the doubt.
  2. The logic inherent in the assumption that others either have many things going on in their lives paving the way for misunderstandings.

Needless to say, this mindset does not mean that we ought to not confront people that are creating havoc in our world.  There are times when we need to call someone out for inflicting harm in our personal lives or the lives of others.

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Indra Nooyi, Chairman and CEO of Pepsi, says it best in an interview with Fortune magazine:

My father was an absolutely wonderful human being. From ecent emailhim I learned to always assume positive intent. Whatever anybody says or does, assume positive intent. You will be amazed at how your whole approach to a person or problem becomes very different. When you assume negative intent, you’re angry. If you take away that anger and assume positive intent, you will be amazed. Your emotional quotient goes up because you are no longer almost random in your response. You don’t get defensive. You don’t scream. You are trying to understand and listen because at your basic core you are saying, ‘Maybe they are saying something to me that I’m not hearing.’ So ‘assume positive intent’ has been a huge piece of advice for me.

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In business, sometimes in the heat of the moment, people say things. You can either misconstrue what they’re saying and assume they are trying to put you down, or you can say, ‘Wait a minute. Let me really get behind what they are saying to understand whether they’re reacting because they’re hurt, upset, confused, or they don’t understand what it is I’ve asked them to do.’ If you react from a negative perspective – because you didn’t like the way they reacted – then it just becomes two negatives fighting each other. But when you assume positive intent, I think often what happens is the other person says, ‘Hey, wait a minute, maybe I’m wrong in reacting the way I do because this person is really making an effort.

“Assume positive intent” is definitely a top quality of life’s best practice among the people I have met so far. The reasons are obvious. It will make you feel better, your relationships will thrive and it’s an approach more greatly aligned with reality.  But less understood is how such a shift in mindset brings your professional game to a different level.

Not only does such a shift make you more likable to your colleagues, but it also unleashes your talents further through a more focused, less distracted mind.

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