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8 Things Only People Who Suffer From Severe Menstrual Cramps Would Know

8 Things Only People Who Suffer From Severe Menstrual Cramps Would Know

While many women can breeze through their periods each month without even missing a beat, others are not so lucky. Some women can suffer through truly severe menstrual cramps each month and come to really dread this part of their cycle. Below are 8 things only these women would understand.

1. You Are Not Exaggerating

Though different perceive pain differently, those who suffer from severe menstrual pain are not faking it or exaggerating. Some women describe the pain to be even more powerful than labor pain. People who don’t suffer from this just can’t understand our feelings fully.

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2. You Are Not Drug Seeker, Either!

Most women who have severe cramps treat it with over-the-counter pain medications like ibuprofen, home remedies like heating pads or natural therapies like bioidentical hormones. Without such medicine, it’s very likely for us to faint over. However, there’re always some people saying that you have a low endurance and should not take pills too often.

3. You Are Not Sickly!

Sometimes menstrual disorders can be part of larger issues. But most women who have severe periods are otherwise healthy and lead regular, normal lives for the other three weeks of the month! Don’t assume that just because a woman has severe menstrual cycles that she has other health problems as well. According to western medicine, there’s still no proven causes for severe menstrual cramps for young women.

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4. You Have to Fight Fatigue as Well as Pain

Pain is not the only issue with a heavy period. Fatigue and exhaustion are also problems and can be just as difficult to cope with – and sometimes it is the pain itself that is causing the fatigue to begin with. It’s good for people to understand that these women are dealing with more than one issue.

5. You Sometimes Struggle with Mood Swings

Many times, heavy periods can result from imbalances in the female hormones, especially in progesterone and estrogen. This can result in having to deal with the emotional roller coaster that hormonal changes can bring with them – and these changes in mood can be difficult to cope with as well.

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6. You Are Not Crazy!

The pain, fatigue and mood swings that you experience on your period are the result, again, of an imbalance in the hormone levels. It is not a sign of a mental illness or emotional instability – though some women who have these problems might have to cope with increased stress or anxiety or problems with depression.

7. You Feel Overwhelmed

The pain and fatigue that a severe period can bring with it make it harder to do even the simplest things, like going to work, cleaning up the house or doing other activities of daily living. This can make it easy to get behind on things – and even easier to feel overwhelmed.

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8. You Appreciate a Show of Support

Menstrual cramps make life hard. And while most women won’t thank you for a big slap on the back during this delicate time, they do appreciate a show of support. A friend or family member who can bring over a meal or pick up the drying cleaning can go a long way to helping out.

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Last Updated on September 15, 2020

4 Ways to Deal With Big Life Changes in a Positive Way

4 Ways to Deal With Big Life Changes in a Positive Way

Life changes are constant. Whether it’s in the workplace or our relationships, nothing in life ever remains the same for long.

Regardless of the gravity of change, it can always be a little scary. So scary, in fact, that some people are downright crippled by the idea of it, causing them to remain stagnant through anxiety.

Have you ever noticed how much of life’s transitional periods are riddled with anxious vibes? The quarter life crisis, the mid-life crisis, cold feet before getting married, retirement anxiety, and teenage angst are just a few examples of transitional periods when people tend to panic.

We can’t control every aspect of our lives, and we can’t stop change from happening. However, how we respond to change will greatly affect our overall life experience.

Here are 4 ways you can approach life changes in a positive way.

1. Don’t Fight It

I once heard one of my favorite yoga instructors say “Suffering is what occurs when we resist what is already happening.” The lesson has stuck with me ever since.

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Life changes are usually out of our control. Rather than trying to manipulate the situation and wishing things were different, try flowing with it instead.

Of course, some initial resistance is natural if we’re going into survival mode. Just make sure you are conscious of when this resistance is no longer serving you.

If you’re feeling anxious about impending life changes, it’s time to practice some techniques to address the anxiety directly. These can include meditation, exercise, talking with friends about how you’re feeling, or journaling.

If you’re worried about a big life change, such as starting a new job[1] or moving in with your partner, do your best to control your expectations. It may help you to talk with people you know about their experiences going through similar changes. This will help you form a realistic picture in your mind of what things will look like post-change.

2. Find Healthy Ways to Deal With Feelings

Whenever we’re in transitional periods, it can be easy to lose track of ourselves. Sometimes we feel like we’re being tossed about by life and like we’ve lost our footing, causing some very uncomfortable feelings to arise.

One way we can channel these feelings is by finding healthy ways to release them. For instance, whenever I find myself in a difficult transitional phase, I end up in a mixed martial arts studio.

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The physical activity helps me channel my emotions and release endorphins. It also helps me get in shape, which generally increases my mood and energy levels.

Exercise is important in cultivating positive emotions, but if you’re struggling with anxiety in particular, it’s important to cultivate a regular exercise routine as opposed to a one-off workout. One study found that “Aerobic exercise can promote increase in anxiety acutely and regular aerobic exercise promotes reduction in anxiety levels”[2].

If exercise isn’t your thing, there are other, less intense ways of cultivating positive emotions and reducing anxiety around life changes. You can try stretching, meditating, reading in nature, spending time with family and friends, or cooking a healthy meal.

Find what makes you feel good and helps you ground yourself in the present moment.

3. Reframe Your Perspective

Reframing perspectives is a very powerful tool used in life coaching. It helps clients take a situation they are struggling with, such as a major life change, and find some sort of empowerment in it.

Some examples of disempowered thinking during life changes include casting blame, focusing on negative details, or victimizing[3]. These perspectives can make awkward transitional phases much worse than they have to be.

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Meanwhile, if we utilize a more positive perspective, such as finding a lesson in the situation, realizing that there may be an opportunity for something, or that everything passes, we can come from a greater place of ease.

4. Find Time for Self-Reflection

Having time to reflect is important at any stage in your life, but it’s especially important during transitional periods. It’s quite simple really: we need our time to step back and get centered when things get a little crazy.

As a result, big life changes are perfect for doing some self-reflection. They are opportunities to check in with ourselves and practice getting grounded for a few minutes.

Take a look at this reflective cycle adapted from Glibb’s Self-reflection guide (1988):[4]

Use self-reflection when facing life changes.

    Self-reflective exercises include meditating, yoga or journaling,[5] all of which require some quiet time to get yourself together.

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    One study found that journal improves “self-efficacy, locus of control, and learning”[6]. A healthy sense of self-control can make the process of change easier to bear, so that in itself is a great reason to try self-reflection through journaling.

    To learn how to start journaling, you can check out this article.

    Final Thoughts

    Big life changes may rock us for a little while, but they don’t have to be as bad as we initially perceive them. If handled in a positive manner, transitional periods can pave the way for some serious self-growth, reflection, and awareness.

    Cultivate a sense of positivity and find ways to diminish the anxiety around life changes. Once you make it to the other side, you’ll be grateful that you made it through in the best way possible.

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