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The Ultimate Secret to Better Time Management

The Ultimate Secret to Better Time Management

We’ve all done it: promised ourselves we’ll be better at managing our time, only to follow through for a few weeks before eventually reverting to our old habits. Then, we resort to fighting fires again.

Our to-do list is so full that we scramble to finish whatever is at the top, while continuously adding items to the bottom. The list grows until one day, we decide it’s time for a change. We look for productivity apps to help us keep track of it all, decide on the one that we think will be best for us, and commit.

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For some reason, though, it seem to stick. Sound familiar?

Finding the Right Time Management Method for You

There are an abundance of time management strategies; finding the right one for you depends on a variety of criteria.

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If you are a chronic multi-tasker, you may benefit most from implementing the “touch it once” rule, which promotes working on only one task at a time, until the task is brought to completion. By using this method, you can train yourself to stop multi-tasking, which allows you to accomplish more in the day.

For those who have trouble deciding what to work on, the Eisenhower Matrix is a great option. This style of organization helps people prioritize, by sorting tasks into categories based on their Importance and Urgency. Once you have organized your to-dos in this manner, it’s obvious which ones you should attack first: those that are both important and urgent.

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People with too much work on their hands can benefit from implementing the 5 steps of the GTD Method. Following this methodology allows for quicker decision-making, so you spend less time getting organized and more time “getting things done”.

“So, which is the best?”

The fact of the matter is, there is no answer to this question. The “best” method of time management depend on the individual. However, no matter which you choose, the bottom line is this:

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The Secret to Better Time Management is Actually Discipline

And here’s why: once you find a method that really works for you, unless you stick to it, you’ll inevitably slip back into your old habits.

So, in order to become better at managing your time, you must work on increasing your discipline. Here are 6 tips to help you increase discipline, inspired by this article in Forbes:

  1. Remove Temptation. If you’re following the touch-it-once rule, for example, leave your phone in the other room when you sit down to work on a task.
  2. Don’t Wait for it to “Feel Right”. Growth is not always comfortable, and sometimes it’s necessary for us to force ourselves out of our comfort zone to make a change. Don’t start next Monday. Start today.
  3. Schedule Breaks. Growth is also incremental. As you grow, give yourself time to breath. This will keep you refreshed and allow you to keep making forward progress.
  4. Forgive Yourself. It’s okay to make mistakes along the way. Forgive yourself quickly for failures and get back in the game, rather than letting small obstacles deter you.
  5. Tell People About Your Goal. Telling others around you about your goal helps you hold yourself accountable; if you know your co-worker or classmate is aware of the change you’re trying to make, you’ll be more vigilant about monitoring yourself.
  6. Make it a Habit. Studies show that forming a new habit takes about two months. Challenge yourself to stick to your new time management routine for at least 60 days. Before you know it, you’ll be following it subconsciously.

Becoming more organized is a goal for many of us, and reaching this goal can help us accomplish more, while reducing stress and increasing our level of happiness. For each individual, the road to organization will look different, but for all of us, the secret to success is staying in the lanes.

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Last Updated on March 31, 2020

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How often do you find yourself procrastinating? Do you wish you could procrastinate less? We all know how debilitating procrastination can make us feel, and it seems to be a challenge we all share. Procrastination is one of the biggest hindrances to moving forward and doing the things that we want to in life.

There are many reasons why you might be procrastinating, and sometimes, it is really difficult to pinpoint why. You might be procrastinating because of something related to the past, present, or future (they are all intertwined), or it could be as simple as biological factors. Whatever the reason, most of us follow a cycle when we procrastinate, from the moment we decide to do something to actually getting it done, or in this case, not getting it done.

The Vicious Procrastination Cycle

For some reason, it helps to understand that we all go through the same thing, even though we often feel like the only person in the world who struggles with this. Do you resonate with the cycle below?

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it!

2. Apprehension Starts to Come Up

The beginning stages of optimism are starting to fade. There is still time, but you haven’t done anything yet, and you start to feel uneasy. You realize that you actually have to do something to get it done, and that good intentions are not enough.

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3. Still No Action

More time has passed. You still haven’t taken any action and probably have a lot of excuses why. You start to panic a little and wish you had started sooner. Your panic starts to turn into frustration and perhaps even irritability.

4. Flicker of Hope Left

You can still make it; there is a little time left and you ponder how you are going to get it done. The rush you get from leaving your task until the last minute gives you a flicker of hope. There is still time; you can do this!

5. Fading Quickly

Your hope starts to quickly fade as you try desperately to understand why you just can’t do this. You may feel desperate and have thoughts like, “What is wrong with me?” and “Why do I ALWAYS do this?” You feel discouraged, or perhaps angry and resentful at yourself.

6. Vow to Yourself

Once the feeling of anger or disappointment disappears, you most likely swear to yourself that this will never happen again; that this was the last time and next time will be different.

Does this sound like you? Is the next time different? I understand the devastating effect that procrastination has on many lives, and for some, it is a really serious problem. You also have, on the other hand, those who procrastinate but it doesn’t affect them in any way. You know whether it is affecting you or not and whether it undermines your results.

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How to Break the Procrastination Cycle

Unless you break the cycle, you will keep reinforcing it!

To break the cycle, you need to change the sequence of events. Here is my suggestion on how you can effectively break the vicious cycle you are in!

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it! The first stage is always the same.

2. Plan

Thinking alone will not help; you need to plan your actions. I always put my deadlines one or two days in advance because you know Murphy’s Law! Take into consideration everything that you need to do, how long it will take you, and what you will need to get it done, then plan the individual steps.

3. Resistance

Just because you planned doesn’t mean that this time is guaranteed to be different. You will most likely still feel the resistance so expect this. This stage is key to identifying why you are procrastinating, so when you feel the resistance, try to identify it immediately.

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What is causing you to hesitate in this moment? What do you feel?  Write them down if it helps.

4. Confront Those Feelings

Once you have identified what could possibly be holding you back, for example, fear of failure, lack of motivation, etc. You need to work on lessening the resistance.

Ask yourself, “What do I need to do to move forward? What would make it easier?” If you find that you fear something, overcoming that fear is not something that will happen overnight — keep this in mind.

5. Put Results Before Comfort

You need to keep moving forward and put results before comfort. Take action, even if it is only for 10 minutes. The key is to break the cycle and not reinforce it. You have more control that you think.

6. Repeat

Repeat steps 3-5 until you achieve what you first set out to do.

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Final Thoughts

Change doesn’t happen overnight, and if you have some deeper underlying reasons why you procrastinate, it may take longer to finally break the cycle.

If procrastination is holding you back in life, it is better to deal with it now than to deal with the negative consequences later on. It is not a question of comfort anymore; it is a question of results. What is more important to you?

Learn more about how to stop procrastinating here: What Is Procrastination and How to Stop It (The Complete Guide)

Featured photo credit: Luke Chesser via unsplash.com

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