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The Best U.S. Cities for a Romantic Weekend

The Best U.S. Cities for a Romantic Weekend

Valentine’s Day is nearly here, and many of you may be sick of the chocolate, flowers, and bland dinner dates that have come to represent this holiday. It may be time to jazz things up with a trip that strays from the ordinary and expected. Whether you live in one of these locations or want to make a romantic weekend getaway, here are some of the most promising destinations for couples in the U.S.

1. San Juan

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    Halfway between Seattle and Vancouver, San Juan Island is a Washington hotspot for fun and romantic activities. Go whale-watching in the bay, stay at a charming bed & breakfast, or get rejuvenated at one of the local spas. San Juan Island Vineyards offer sophisticated wine tastings, and the town even has a special Valentine’s Day listing full of timely activities and discounts.

    2. San Diego

    With its glorious weather and scenic attractions, San Diego is a no-brainer choice for a romantic weekend. Couples can check out Little Italy, see a movie at one of San Diego’s drive-in theaters, take a paddle boat out to sea, or roam the luxurious Prado – full of beautiful architecture, restaurants, and hidden gardens. The perfect balance of beach and city life, it’s no wonder we call it “America’s Finest City.”

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    3. Chicago

    Chicago may not be the first city that pops into your mind for a romantic weekend, but it does feature several great locations you may not have heard of. Millennium Park is packed with fun couples activities, like winter ice skating. No romantic getaway is complete without a trip to the Signature Room, a five-star restaurant with a stunning view from the top of the John Hancock Observatory. If you visit in the summer, top off the evening with a trip to the Navy Pier Ferris Wheel overlooking the city.

    4. Boulder

    Everyone’s favorite ski town, Boulder offers more than juts cozy ski trips with your sweetheart. Chautauqua Park is the perfect destination for athletic couples, featuring hiking trails, rock climbing, and dazzling views of the Flatirons. Boulder Falls also offers a scenic adventure for couples. City folks may be more comfortable sauntering down Pearl Street to check out the bars, eateries, street performances, and fountains.

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    5. Miami

    Check in at the Fountainebleau or the Hyatt Centric in South Beach for an especially luxurious hotel stay. Miami offers a myriad of romantic activities that won’t break the bank – like a stroll down Lincoln Road, which hosts a movie theater at one end and the Fillmore at the other. Visit Coral Gables or Bal Harbour Shops to get your shopping fix, and stop by Sunset Lounge to grab a drink and watch the sun set over the bay.

    6. Bar Harbor

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      A lesser-known town in Maine, Bar Harbor is an adorable spot where couples can stay in cottages, eat the tastiest seafood, and enjoy relaxing views of the bay. Take a scenic drive around Park Loop Road and reach the lofty heights of Cadillac Mountain. Acadia National Park hosts trails for the more adventurous, while various cafes like Cafe This Way offers the perfect touch of small town charm. If you love to browse bookstores and boutiques, Bar Harbor is just the place.

      7. Omaha

      If you’re way out in the midwest and can’t make it to any of these coastal destinations, humble Omaha, Nesbraska features tons of off-the-beaten-path attractions for couples. Walk or cycle down the Bob Kerrey Pedestrian Bridge or take a tour of one of Omaha’s delicious breweries, like Lucky Bucket Brewing Co. You can even spend a weekend on the museums alone — Omaha is a hub for magnificent sites like the Durham Museum and the Joslyn Art Museum.

      8. Louisville

      The list wouldn’t be complete without a fancy southern destination like Louisville, Kentucky. Couples can go antiquing at the quaint Crazy Daisy and browse beautiful old Victorian homes in town. Take a romantic ride in a horse-drawn carriage downtown and stop in at one of Louisville’s restaurants, like Saffron’s Persian Restaurant. Couples can take a cruise on the Belle of Louisville for a calming view of the Ohio river and the city skyline.

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      Last Updated on January 21, 2020

      How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

      How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

      If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

      Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

      So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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      1. Listen

      Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

      2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

      Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

      “Why do you want to do that?”

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      “What makes you so excited about it?”

      “How long has that been your dream?”

      You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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      3. Encourage

      This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

      4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

      After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

      5. Dream

      This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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      6. Ask How You Can Help

      Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

      7. Follow Up

      Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

      Final Thoughts

      By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

      Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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