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7 Things Will Happen When You Start Looking Back At Your Old Facebook Profile Pictures

7 Things Will Happen When You Start Looking Back At Your Old Facebook Profile Pictures

Facebook has been around for over a decade now, and many of us have been members along for the ride for most of that time. Have you looked back recently to review your old posts? The etiquette has certainly changed over the years, not just for what we post but also for what we choose as our profile pictures. Take a walk down memory lane and click through your past profile pictures, and you will find yourself thinking these seven things:

1. What is that outfit I’m wearing?

The early 2000’s were not a universally flattering time when it came to fashion. So the first thing I usually notice flipping through old profile pictures is my clothes. Sometimes the clothes weren’t the right size, too big and baggy or too tight, and they definitely lacked the fashion sense that comes with time and age. Hopefully you saved a few of those bad fashion choices, though, because there sure will be ’00s throwback parties sooner or later.

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2. Why did I ever date him?

This thought doesn’t need much of an explanation. With time comes closure, but when you actually flip back through those pictures and see the person who was once the “love of your life”… well, you’ll probably cringe a little. We live and we love and we learn, and today it’s easier to look back at romantic missteps with confidence that all things work out as they’re supposed to.

3. Did my eyebrows really look like that?

The guy version of this thought may be, “What’s going on with my facial hair?” But for the ladies, eyebrows today are the frame of the face–a work of art that takes thought and time, waxing, and plucking. The art of the eyebrow has developed only in recent years, though, so older pictures are often a little painful to look at. For the gentlemen who currently have facial hair, old pictures without it remind them of their old baby face looks.

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4. Did I think that selfie actually looked good?

The “duck face,” the peace sign, the weird angle… Old selfies can be scary! Can you remember the days when we didn’t have front-facing cameras on our phones? No wonder some pictures turned out so bizarre, we had to balance a camera backwards in the air!

5. Where was that taken?

More often than not, the picture that makes you wonder, “Where was this even taken?” features you hold an alcoholic beverage… or two. During our heyday of craziness, we all liked to show off how frequently we went out to bars or parties. As we age, this pictures tend to fade away and be deleted or hidden. Let’s be real, our ability to party, though fun, is not the part of our character we want displayed first and foremost on our profile. Plus, with the expansion of social media, employers and future employers tend to look down on those sort of displays of craziness.

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6. Why did I crop half my face out?

This one is inevitable. In the early days of Facebook and other forms of social media, we all had the tendency to crop confusingly. You’ll see an old picture that’s far too zoomed in, cropped right around the corners of your face–or one with an excess of blank background floating about your head. Facebook itself encouraged better use of the crop tool by implementing the square profile picture, and thankfully many people learned how to use it.

7. Wow! I’ve grown up.

Some people choose to delete old profile pictures–but I think they’re a great way to look back on how we’ve grown and changed. The good, the bad, the ugly. The poor fashion choices, the old boyfriends, the awkward selfies. They all serve to remind us that we’re all growing and changing, and that’s not a bad thing. So stroll down memory lane and look through your old profile pictures… and then, for a little extra fun, check out your friends’ old pictures!

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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