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7 Great Things Only Short Girls Would Understand

7 Great Things Only Short Girls Would Understand

I am short, and being a short girl, I do face certain complications. I think we all do, regardless of whether we are short or tall. But of course, like everything else around us, there are the advantages and disadvantages of being short. I know a few short girls who think their height plays a negative role in their life, but I see it otherwise.

If you see it in a positive manner, you will find out how special we are. Here is a shoutout to all the short girls out there! Let’s check out 7 great things only we would understand.

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1. You can easily try clothes from the kid’s section

Being short, you have the privilege to check out the kid’s section while shopping. Don’t find anything you like in the women’s department? Hop down to the kid’s one, and see if anything nice fits you. 80% of the times, tops, or skirts are bound to fit you. Those little pleasures come when your friend asks you where you got that top from… you know she’ll never get to wear them!

2. You are in the front during a photo session

Because when it is time for photo sessions, you all are dressed up. And because you are, well, diminutive in stature, you get the advantage of standing in the front of the group. Meaning, you are in the limelight. I mean, I get this: the people who check out a group picture usually comments on how pretty I am looking, before checking the others out.

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3. You can easily fit into small space

One big benefit of being short is that you can effortlessly fit into a small space, be it in a car, or say, sharing a chair with someone. For example, the back seat of our car is 80% taken by two humongous car seats, leaving 20% of the seat fitted for a skinny person. As it happens, a tall skinny person finds it quite difficult to sit there for long. But I don’t. I have travelled on 3 hour rides, sitting there in comfort. Or perhaps you are in a room full of people, and the seats are nearly all occupied by people. You need to sit? Just squeeze in between two. You won’t have much of a problem.

4. You take less area

No, this is not exactly the same thing as I have mentioned in my previous point. It may have similarities, though. I mean, when you are sleeping, you usually don’t take a huge part of the bed (unless you rotate 360 degree while sleeping). If you have a big company staying the night, you don’t have the extra worry of where to sleep. Because you can even fit into a two-seater sofa, if need be.

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5. You can easily walk on heels

Walking on heels takes a lot of practise, and many people can’t specialize in it. But being short, we have master the art of walking with ease. There are so many sexy heels that we can pick one from. And we can catwalk like a real model without falling down. Hey! We can even dance on stilettos!

6. You can be hot, and cute at the same time

Short girls have another advantage of being short. Getting compliments like, “hey, she’s hot”, and at the same time, someone says, “yeah, she’s cute, too”. Well, there can be complaints that short girls are classified as cute only. I don’t think so. There are so many of them who can be cute, yet are hot as well (like myself! Haha!)

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7. You are evergreen

No one, and I mean, no one can guess your age! I think, this is the biggest blessing we have. We look young, no matter how old we grow. Heck, kids much younger than us either think we are of their age, or we are younger than them. I think, this is quite hilarious and I definitely see this as an advantage rather than disadvantage. I mean, can you guess my age?

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Last Updated on December 10, 2019

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

Here’s the truth: your effectiveness at life is not what it could be. You’re missing out.

Each day passes by and you have nothing to prove that it even happened. Did you achieve something? Go on a date? Have an emotional breakthrough? Who knows?

But what you do know is that you don’t want to make the same mistakes that you’ve made in the past.

Our lives are full of hidden gems of knowledge and insight, and the most recent events in our lives contain the most useful gems of all. Do you know why? It’s simple, those hidden lessons are the most up to date, meaning they have the largest impact on what we’re doing right now.

But the question is, how do you get those lessons? There’s a simple way to do it, and it doesn’t involve time machines:

Journal writing.

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Improved mental clarity, the ability to see our lives in the big picture, as well as serving as a piece of evidence cataloguing every success we’ve ever had; we are provided all of the above and more by doing some journal writing.

Journal writing is a useful and flexible tool to help shed light on achieving your goals.

Here’s 5 smart reasons why you should do journal writing:

1. Journals Help You Have a Better Connection with Your Values, Emotions, and Goals

By journaling about what you believe in, why you believe it, how you feel, and what your goals are, you understand your relationships with these things better. This is because you must sort through the mental clutter and provide details on why you do what you do and feel what you feel.

Consider this:

Perhaps you’ve spent the last year or so working at a job you don’t like. It would be easy to just suck it up and keep working with your head down, going on as if it’s supposed to be normal to not like your job. Nobody else is complaining, so why should you, right?

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But a little journal writing will set things straight for you. You don’t like your job. You feel like it’s robbing you of happiness and satisfaction, and you don’t see yourself better there in the future.

The other workers? Maybe they don’t know, maybe they don’t care. But you do, you know and care enough to do something about it. And you’re capable of fixing this problem because your journal writing allows you to finally be honest with yourself about it.

2. Journals Improve Mental Clarity and Help Improve Your Focus

If there’s one thing journal writing is good for, it’s clearing the mental clutter.

How does it work? Simply, whenever you have a problem and write about it in a journal, you transfer the problem from your head to the paper. This empties the mind, allowing allocation of precious resources to problem-solving rather than problem-storing.

Let’s say you’ve been juggling several tasks at work. You’ve got data entry, testing, e-mails, problems with the boss, and so on—enough to overwhelm you—but as you start journal writing, things become clearer and easier to understand: Data entry can actually wait till Thursday; Bill kindly offered earlier to do my testing; For e-mails, I can check them now; the boss is just upset because Becky called in sick, etc.

You become better able to focus and reason your tasks out, and this is an indispensable and useful skill to have.

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3. Journals Improve Insight and Understanding

As a positive consequence of improving your mental clarity, you become more open to insights you may have missed before. As you write your notes out, you’re essentially having a dialogue with yourself. This draws out insights that you would have missed otherwise; it’s almost as if two people are working together to better understand each other. This kind of insight is only available to the person who has taken the time to connect with and understand themselves in the form of writing.

Once you’ve gotten a few entries written down, new insights can be gleaned from reading over them. What themes do you see in your life? Do you keep switching goals halfway through? Are you constantly dating the same type of people who aren’t good for you? Have you slowly but surely pushed people out of your life for fear of being hurt?

All of these questions can be answered by simply self-reflecting, but you can only discover the answers if you’ve captured them in writing. These questions are going to be tough to answer without a journal of your actions and experiences.

4. Journals Track Your Overall Development

Life happens, and it can happen fast. Sometimes we don’t take the time to stop and look around at what’s happening to us at each moment. We don’t get to see the step-by-step progress that we’re making in our own lives. So what happens? One day it’s the future, and you have no idea how you’ve gotten there.

Journal writing allows you to see how you’ve changed over time, so you can see where you did things right, and you can see where you took a misstep and fell.

The great thing about journals is that you’ll know what that misstep was, and you can make sure it doesn’t happen again—all because you made sure to log it, allowing yourself to learn from your mistakes.

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5. Journals Facilitate Personal Growth

The best thing about journal writing is that no matter what you end up writing about, it’s hard to not grow from it. You can’t just look at a past entry in which you acted shamefully and say “that was dumb, anyway!” No, we say “I will never make a dumb choice like that again!”

It’s impossible not to grow when it comes to journal writing. That’s what makes journal writing such a powerful tool, whether it’s about achieving goals, becoming a better person, or just general personal-development. No matter what you use it for, you’ll eventually see yourself growing as a person.

Kickstart Journaling

How can journaling best be of use to you? To vent your emotions? To help achieve your goals? To help clear your mind? What do you think makes journaling such a useful life skill?

Know the answer? Then it’s about time you reap the benefits of journal writing and start putting pen to paper.

Here’s what you can do to start journaling:

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