We have all been in relationships we were not sure about. We were uncertain of the outcomes and eventualities. Yet, we were driven on possibilities and optimism. When you have met the one who you are meant to marry, you let go and stop asking “what if.” Rather you are willing to enjoy every moment with this person. It is important to pay attention to certain little things that can serve as indications to knowing that this is the person you are going to marry.
1. They appreciate being with your friends and family
They are comfortable with your friends and your family members. They will inquire about them and are interested in them.
2. There is always something new to discover when you are with them
There is something adventurous and worth learning when you are with them. Things that you have done with them in the past bring newer meanings anytime you do them again with him/her. The more time you spend with them, the more discoveries about yourself you make.
3. They are your favorite friend
Of course, you spend time with other people. But when you are with him/her there is this chemistry that makes you realize that they are your best teammate. You don’t feel out of place with him/her and you can share almost anything with them.
4. You can tell them anything
There are no secrets or boundaries between you two. You can tell them anything and be absolutely honest with them.
5. You feel obligated to this person and the person feels the same way to you
You want to love and be there for this person regardless of the circumstances or challenges attached to your relationship. Even when you feel they can completely handle themselves, you still feel you owe it to them to show your sincere support to their progress.
6. You always want to be around this person
You don’t get sick and tired of this person. You find yourself missing this person and they feeling the same for you. Somehow, you want to be involved in what is going on in their life, and want them to be involved in yours.
7. You disagree but you know how to get through it
Arguments happen in every relationship. But the issue is how you deal with disputes. With this person, you have healthy disagreements and you are willing to find a way through your differences. Whatever name calling or unfair remarks you have made always dissipate at some point when you are both willing to put in the effort to settle and cool down.
8. You are okay with each other’s flaws
You understand each other and can deal with each other’s flaws. The thing is that you have both been able to accept each other for your flaws. You do not try to change others, rather you appreciate and can live with your unique quirks.
9. They make you a better person
They are there for you when you feel low and experience self-doubt. They want you to become a better person. Through patience and kindness they are able to drive you towards reaching higher goals in your life and becoming a better person.
10. You are not afraid of anything
Commitment and dedication to this person doesn’t scare you or make you feel insecure. Rather you want to be for this person and give everything to this person and the person feels exactly the same for you. Thus you are trusting and the person trusts you also.
11. They respect you
They respect your opinion, views and beliefs. Whether it is political, religious, spiritual or ethical, knows where you stand on certain issues and the person is willing to respect your decisions. Even when you need your space and need some time to be with yourself, they will gladly oblige to offering you that space you need.
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