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11 Things to Remember When Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend is a Teacher

11 Things to Remember When Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend is a Teacher

As teachers we are pragmatic and understand the realism of the world we live in. This is why we teach to impart knowledge and make others smarter. Because we are teachers doesn’t mean we are naïve, yet we can be willing to explore. Here are some things you should remember when dating us.

1. We are great conversationalists

Every day we repeat the cause of action to connect with and inform students of all kinds of backgrounds, work ethics and intellectual levels. Yes we are great at discussing and communicating.

2. We work beyond the office place

We won’t keep our work at work. We do more than teach, so don’t be amazed if we are bringing in our work home. You could find us planning lessons or correcting papers during weekends and answering emails from our students every now and then. We are not bored with doing our job, we just see it more as a call of duty.

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3. We are great at adapting

Our job comes with a lot of challenges, so we are great at adapting. We are ready to embrace new methods of teaching, new curriculum or welcome new students to our classes. We are always excited about change, it doesn’t faze us, it just makes us smarter.

4. We are patient

Yes, we have to be patient to tolerate different sorts of persons we teach. Patience is a skill the job has taught us, and this can be one of our greatest strength if we are in a relationship with you.

5. We don’t like you telling us our job is easy

Because our job is not easy. We have to be smart and show perseverance in many cases. We demand the summers off and all holidays. But even during such times, we tend to use them for professional development and recharging our mental energy.

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6. We are great with kids

We don’t see kids as vulnerable or weak. Rather, we see them as the future. And this makes us more responsible in performing our duties to them. The truth is that being with kids and students is one of the thrills of the profession. It makes us alive and always young.

7. We have to be creative at work

It feels terrible not to be listened to or termed as “boring.” So, we have to make teaching and impacting knowledge to be fun. We have to discover creative solutions to problems and channel this to those we are teaching.

8. We don’t tolerate bullying

We tend to stand up for the weak and the underdog. We feel we represent them and have a commitment to shape and equip those who are maligned in the society. If there is intolerance and weakness around us we will do our best to stand up for those around us who needs assistance.

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9. We are someone’s hero

You may feel that our job doesn’t amount to much, yet we must have touched someone’s life in a way you cannot imagine. While we do not expect all our students to like us, there are those we have impacted with knowledge that will always regard us as heroes.

10. We are effective communicators

We don’t care how long it takes, we will adopt variety of ways to explain a point and make sure it is clearly understood by the person we are communicating to. We appreciate communication and know how relevant it can be to a successful relationship.

11. We want people to be at ease when they are with us

Although we meet anxious students and persons now and then, we want to put people at ease. Perhaps this is why we are great at charming parents and anyone who comes to us for assistance. We understand what responsibility to the world around us and we tend offer ourselves in the best way possible.

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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