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Study Says Owning A Cat Or A Dog Tells Much About Your Personality

Study Says Owning A Cat Or A Dog Tells Much About Your Personality

A new wave of pet-friendly dating websites signal something many have known all along – that pet-owners make better lovers. Well, maybe not lovers, but according to a new study from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas led by anthropology professor Peter Gray, owning a pet indicates you are more likely to possess care-giving tendencies that are inherently attractive. Although there are undeniably health benefits to having either a pet dog or cat, but according to the research owning a dog says something different about you than owning a cat, at least in the minds of others.

Dog owners tend to be extraverted, more agreeable and conscientious

What does owning a boxer say about us? Well, because boxers tend to be high-energy and playful owning a boxer might say we are happy-go-lucky and on the go, but what does the research say? Dog owners represent 47 percent of American’s, and according to another study from the University of Austin, Texas (4,565 volunteers were interviewed,) they do tend to be more extraverted, more agreeable, and more conscientious than cat people.

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Cat owners tend to be introverted, intelligent non-conformists

Research shows that owning a cat (37 percent of American households ) may mean you tend to be more introverted and apparently more non-conformist. Of course it makes sense that you might not be as social with a cat – you’re not taking them for a walk every 7 hours so you can sit inside and read (or binge on Netflix) instead if you want. A third study, this time from Carroll University, suggests that cat owners tend to be more intelligent as well.

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On average, people see owning a dog as more of indication of compatibility than owning a cat

Returning to the original cited study out of University of Nevada, Las Vegas – it found that an statistically significant number of women and men that a relationship would be likely to work with a “dog person,” but less people surveyed said that it could work with a “cat person.” Surprisingly 25% of men and 33% of women say that they’ve been attracted to someone just because of their pet; and once again, more often dogs have been the cause of that attraction than cats.

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Cats in the wild are less social and hunt at night, and dogs run in packs and are active during the day

If we’re really looking for why these studies make sense, we can look at the behavior of cats and dogs in the wild. What are they like socially without humans? Cats in the wild don’t mind being by themselves, they hunt for prey at night. Wild dogs on the other hand run in packs and hunt and socialize during the day. So is this why introspective, iconoclasts might love cats? And friendly happy-go-lucky social creatures might identify with dogs more?

The most hilarious study I read on this topic suggests that cat’s have more in common with their wildcat relatives like lions, and that your cat may actually want to kill you. The three personality traits they point to that house cats have in common with lions are dominance, impulsiveness and neuroticism. Perhaps the erraticism of cats isn’t completely bad though, just like the studies might suggest about their owners, pet cats often display playfulness, excitability and can be impulsive and hilarious.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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