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10 Top Tips for Dealing With Menopause!

10 Top Tips for Dealing With Menopause!

Menopause is something that every woman will go through around the age of 51. Every person is different and has different symptoms, some fly through it as if it’s nothing at all and others suffer greatly. Just like me!

Menopause brought with it changes I didn’t understand, every day of the week there was something: mood swings, lack of energy, can’t-cope syndrome, grumpy, a generally unhappy person. A personality change had occurred and I really didn’t like myself anymore. Sleep: I couldn’t sleep peacefully anymore, I was tearing my hair out.

I discovered the cause of my symptoms – hormonal havoc! The cure was restorative medicine which balanced my hormones and gave me my mojo back! Restorative medicine is little known has existed for over 30 years in America. Prevention is always the intelligent and smartest medicine – start making changes today.

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Here are my tips for hormonal health during menopause.

Vitamin D

Low levels of Vitamin D are linked to a higher risk of bone fractures in women after the menopause. Your body naturally produces this vitamin when it is exposed to sunlight – a recommended 40 minutes a day is the ideal way to optimise your Vitamin D levels. The next best thing is a good quality supplement, particularly in the colder months.

Water!

Dehydration can affect the nervous system, which triggers hot flashes. Your body requires water to support its detoxifying processes in the kidneys, liver and blood. If you are feeling hungry, drink a glass of water first. Chances are your body is trying to tell you it needs water and we often get hunger signals mixed up with thirst.

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Weight

Around 90% of women gain weight between the ages of 35 to 55 due to fluctuations in the hormone levels. Hormones and weight gain go hand in hand especially when there is cortisol dominance or too little progesterone, testosterone or estrogen. Have a blood test and try to keep your weight in a healthy range.

Eat For Healthy Hormones

A balanced diet containing the right amounts of fats, protein, carbohydrates is crucial for optimum health, and will help keep your weight in check too. Adding phytestrogens, found in plants like soybeans, lentils and alfalfa, before the menopause is a good idea.

Restore with natural hormones

During menopause there is a significant drop in our hormones especially; estrogen, progesterone and testosterone. These hormones play a huge role in protecting the brain, heart, bones and also sex drive. Restore these depleted hormones to optimum levels and you will regain your sex drive and your lust for life. Like me, many women prefer bioidentical hormones, which are made from natural plant sources.

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Exercise

Age is not an excuse! Regular exercise will keep your weight at a healthy level, optimise insulin and balance estrogen levels. Women who move little and eat a lot have much higher estrogen(s) levels, and when the ratios between estrogens and progesterone are out, we get a phenomenon known as ‘estrogen dominance’. You don’t want that. Feel-good endorphins will boost your mood and sense of wellbeing, too, which is so important during a time when your mood levels tend to slump.

Body Swerve Plastics

Try to avoid plastic containers when cooking or storing food. They can contain weak synthetic estrogen-like agents which may disrupt the endocrine system. Toxins that leach from plastics can actually make the body work twice as hard at detoxification, leading to illness.

Natural Supplements

Help keep menopausal symptoms at bay by restoring your body with high quality vitamins and minerals. Ideally you should get all your nutrients from a varied diet, but a good quality supplement can help if you’re falling short.

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Reduce Stress

Work, health, family and financial issues cause stress, which can blunt hormone production. Take a hot bath, have a massage, eat well and get enough sleep. Sometimes all you need is some designated ‘Me Time’ to help ease those feeling of anxiety.

Get the facts early

Even if you think you’re years away from the menopause or perimenopause, make changes today and you will thank yourself later. Be kind to your body by eating whole and natural foods, exercise, sleep and smile a lot, which keeps stress at bay. Doing this ahead of the onset of menopause means you have already developed healthy habits to see you through.

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10 Real Reasons Why Breaking Bad Habits Is So Difficult

10 Real Reasons Why Breaking Bad Habits Is So Difficult

Bad habits expose us to suffering that is entirely avoidable. Unfortunately, breaking bad habits is difficult because they are 100% dependent on our mental and emotional state.

Anything we do that can prove harmful to us is a bad habit – drinking, drugs, smoking, procrastination, poor communication are all examples of bad habits. These habits have negative effects on our physical, mental, and emotional health.

Humans are hardwired to respond to stimuli and to expect a consequence of any action. This is how habits are acquired: the brain expects to be rewarded a certain way under certain circumstances. How you initially responded to certain stimuli is how your brain will always remind you to behave when the same stimuli are experienced.

If you visited the bar close to your office with colleagues every Friday, your brain will learn to send you a signal to stop there even when you are alone and eventually not just on Fridays. It will expect the reward of a drink after work every day, which can potentially lead to a drinking problem.

Kicking negative behavior patterns and steering clear of them requires a lot of willpower, and there are many reasons why breaking bad habits is so difficult.

1. Lack of Awareness or Acceptance

Breaking a bad habit is not possible if the person who has it is not aware that it is a bad one.

Many people will not realize that their communication skills are poor or that their procrastination is affecting them negatively, or even that the drink they had as a nightcap has now increased to three.

Awareness brings acceptance. Unless a person realizes on their own that a habit is bad, or someone manages to convince them of the same, there is very little chance of the habit being kicked.

2. No Motivation

Going through a divorce, not being able to cope with academic pressure, and falling into debt are instances that can bring a profound sense of failure with them. A person going through these times can fall into a cycle of negative thinking where the world is against them and nothing they can do will ever help, so they stop trying altogether.

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This give-up attitude is a bad habit that just keeps coming around. Being in debt could make you feel like you are failing at maintaining your home, family, and life in general.

If you are looking to get out of a rut and feel motivated, take a look at this article: Why Is Internal Motivation So Powerful (And How to Find It)

3. Underlying Psychological Conditions

Psychological conditions such as depression and ADD can make it difficult to start breaking bad habits.

A depressed person may find it difficult to summon the energy to cook a healthy meal, resulting in food being ordered in or consumption of packaged foods. This could lead to a habit that adversely affects health and is difficult to overcome.

A person with ADD may start to clean their house but get distracted soon after, leaving the task incomplete, eventually leading to a state where it is acceptable to live in a house that is untidy and dirty.

The fear of missing out (FOMO) is very real to some people. Obsessively checking their social media and news sources, they may believe that not knowing of something as soon as it is published can be catastrophic to their social standing.

4. Bad Habits Make Us Feel Good

One of the reasons it is difficult to break habits is that a lot of them make us feel good.[1]

We’ve all been there – the craving for a tub of ice cream after a breakup or a casual drag on a joint, never to be repeated until we miss how good it made us feel. We succumb to the craving for the pleasure felt while indulging in it, cementing it as a habit even while we are aware it isn’t good for us.

Overeating is a very common bad habit. Just another pack of chips, a couple of candies, a large soda… none of these are necessary for survival. We want them because they give us comfort. They’re familiar, they taste good, and we don’t even notice when we progress from just one extra slice of pizza to four.

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You can read this article to learn more: We Do What We Know Is Bad for Us, Why?

5. Upward Comparisons

Comparisons are a bad habit that many of us have been exposed to since we were children. Parents might have compared us to siblings, teachers may have compared us to classmates, and bosses could compare us to past and present employees.

The people who have developed the bad habit of comparing themselves to others have been given incorrect yardsticks for measurement from the start.

These people will always find it difficult to break out of this bad habit because there will always be someone who has it better than they do: a better house, better car, better job, higher income and so on.

Research shows that in the age of social media, social comparisons are much easier and can ultimately harm self-esteem if scrolling becomes a bad habit[2].

6. No Alternative

This is a real and valid reason why breaking bad habits is difficult. These habits could fulfill a need that may not be met any other way.

Someone who has physical or psychological limitations, such as a disability or social anxiety, may find it hard to quit obsessive content consumption for better habits.

Alternately, a perfectly healthy person may be unable to quit smoking because alternates are just not working out.

Similarly, a person who bites their nails when anxious may be unable to relieve stress in any other socially accepted manner.

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7. Stress

As mentioned above, anything that stresses us out can lead to adopting and cementing an unhealthy habit.

When a person is stressed about something, it is easy for bad habits to form because the mental resources required to fight them are not available[3].

We often see a person who had previously managed to kick a bad habit fall back into the old ways because they felt their stress couldn’t be managed any other way.

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8. Sense of Failure

People looking to kick bad habits may feel a strong sense of failure because it’s just that difficult.

Dropping a bad habit usually means changes in lifestyle that people may be unwilling to make, or these changes might not be easy to make in spite of the will to make them.

Overeaters need to empty their house of unhealthy food, resist the urge to order in, and not pick up their standard grocery items from the store. Those who drink too much need to avoid the bars or even people who drink often.

If such people slip even once with a glass of wine, or a smoke, or a bag of chips, they tend to be excessively harsh on themselves and feel like failures.

9. The Need to Be All-New

People who are looking to break bad habits feel they need to re-create themselves in order to break themselves of their bad habits, while the truth is the complete opposite.

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These people actually need to go back to who they were before they developed the bad habit and try to create good habits from there.

10. Force of Habit

Humans are creatures of habit, and having familiar, comforting outcomes for daily triggers helps us maintain a sense of balance in our lives.

Consider people who are used to lighting up a cigarette every time they talk on the phone or eating junk food when watching TV. They will always associate a phone call with a puff on the cigarette and screen time with eating.

These habits, though bad, are a source of comfort to them, as is meeting with those people they indulge in these bad habits with.

Final Thoughts

These are the main reasons why breaking bad habits is difficult, but the good news is that the task is not impossible. Breaking habits takes time, and you’ll need to put long-term goals in place to replace a bad habit with a good one.

There are many compassionate, positive and self-loving techniques to kick bad habits. The internet is rich in information regarding bad habits, their effects and how to overcome them, while professional help is always available for those who feel they need it.

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Reference

[1] After Skool: Why Do Bad Habits Feel SO GOOD?
[2] Psychology of Popular Media Culture: Social comparison, social media, and self-esteem.
[3] Stanford Medicine: Examining how stress affects good and bad habits

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