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10 Top Tips for Dealing With Menopause!

10 Top Tips for Dealing With Menopause!

Menopause is something that every woman will go through around the age of 51. Every person is different and has different symptoms, some fly through it as if it’s nothing at all and others suffer greatly. Just like me!

Menopause brought with it changes I didn’t understand, every day of the week there was something: mood swings, lack of energy, can’t-cope syndrome, grumpy, a generally unhappy person. A personality change had occurred and I really didn’t like myself anymore. Sleep: I couldn’t sleep peacefully anymore, I was tearing my hair out.

I discovered the cause of my symptoms – hormonal havoc! The cure was restorative medicine which balanced my hormones and gave me my mojo back! Restorative medicine is little known has existed for over 30 years in America. Prevention is always the intelligent and smartest medicine – start making changes today.

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Here are my tips for hormonal health during menopause.

Vitamin D

Low levels of Vitamin D are linked to a higher risk of bone fractures in women after the menopause. Your body naturally produces this vitamin when it is exposed to sunlight – a recommended 40 minutes a day is the ideal way to optimise your Vitamin D levels. The next best thing is a good quality supplement, particularly in the colder months.

Water!

Dehydration can affect the nervous system, which triggers hot flashes. Your body requires water to support its detoxifying processes in the kidneys, liver and blood. If you are feeling hungry, drink a glass of water first. Chances are your body is trying to tell you it needs water and we often get hunger signals mixed up with thirst.

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Weight

Around 90% of women gain weight between the ages of 35 to 55 due to fluctuations in the hormone levels. Hormones and weight gain go hand in hand especially when there is cortisol dominance or too little progesterone, testosterone or estrogen. Have a blood test and try to keep your weight in a healthy range.

Eat For Healthy Hormones

A balanced diet containing the right amounts of fats, protein, carbohydrates is crucial for optimum health, and will help keep your weight in check too. Adding phytestrogens, found in plants like soybeans, lentils and alfalfa, before the menopause is a good idea.

Restore with natural hormones

During menopause there is a significant drop in our hormones especially; estrogen, progesterone and testosterone. These hormones play a huge role in protecting the brain, heart, bones and also sex drive. Restore these depleted hormones to optimum levels and you will regain your sex drive and your lust for life. Like me, many women prefer bioidentical hormones, which are made from natural plant sources.

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Exercise

Age is not an excuse! Regular exercise will keep your weight at a healthy level, optimise insulin and balance estrogen levels. Women who move little and eat a lot have much higher estrogen(s) levels, and when the ratios between estrogens and progesterone are out, we get a phenomenon known as ‘estrogen dominance’. You don’t want that. Feel-good endorphins will boost your mood and sense of wellbeing, too, which is so important during a time when your mood levels tend to slump.

Body Swerve Plastics

Try to avoid plastic containers when cooking or storing food. They can contain weak synthetic estrogen-like agents which may disrupt the endocrine system. Toxins that leach from plastics can actually make the body work twice as hard at detoxification, leading to illness.

Natural Supplements

Help keep menopausal symptoms at bay by restoring your body with high quality vitamins and minerals. Ideally you should get all your nutrients from a varied diet, but a good quality supplement can help if you’re falling short.

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Reduce Stress

Work, health, family and financial issues cause stress, which can blunt hormone production. Take a hot bath, have a massage, eat well and get enough sleep. Sometimes all you need is some designated ‘Me Time’ to help ease those feeling of anxiety.

Get the facts early

Even if you think you’re years away from the menopause or perimenopause, make changes today and you will thank yourself later. Be kind to your body by eating whole and natural foods, exercise, sleep and smile a lot, which keeps stress at bay. Doing this ahead of the onset of menopause means you have already developed healthy habits to see you through.

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The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

 I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

 2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

7. Positive people smile a lot!

When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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8. People who are positive are great communicators.

They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

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